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		<title>Rejection isn’t new. How it is happening is.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christina Miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2021 12:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Rejection has always been part of the dating landscape, but are the new dating trends of ghosting, icing and simmering reflecting a decline of empathy in modern dating? These trends...]]></description>
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<p>Rejection has always been part of the dating landscape, but are the new <a href="https://datinginsider.com.au/benching-is-a-mind-game-that-is-so-frustrating/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">dating trends</a> of <em>ghosting</em>,<em> <a href="https://datinginsider.com.au/10-dating-trends-you-need-to-know-for-2020/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">icing</a></em> and <em>simmering</em> reflecting a decline of empathy in modern dating?  These trends promote selfishness and relieve us of the responsibilities and consequences that our behaviour has on others. </p>



<p>These dating trends are rendering us incapable of hard conversations. A component that is essential in any long term relationship. </p>



<p>Esther Perel a couples therapist, author and famous speaker,  gives us a guide to communicating about love in this day and age.</p>



<p>Watch Esther Perel in the YouTube video below explaining the state of modering dating.</p>



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<p>Esther makes a plea that we end our relationships with more respect and conclusiveness. We are inevitably affecting people&#8217;s sense of self-worth and destroying their sense of confidence.</p>



<p>Remember at the end of the text there is another human being with feelings and they don&#8217;t want their confidence shattered. They can accept that they are not the person you choose but it doesn&#8217;t mean that they can be cast aside without respect or a thought. </p>



<p>H/T <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.elephantjournal.com/2019/11/ghosting-icing-simmering-how-modern-love-has-changed-how-were-rejected-michelle-gean/?fbclid=IwAR1SaOcnCCw_IGIQIt8s2WtUCMtmAgpWPPJhIGZWpQX1jasSNbXPgb3cbTQ" target="_blank">Elephant Journal</a></p>



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