Get ready to learn the art of how to attract men with these 5 simple ways to make you feel instantly sexy.

When you are not in a relationship it’s easy to slack a bit and get lazy. Daggy PJ, unkempt hairstyle and next to no makeup. Quickly, you start not to feel sexy in your own skin as you used to. Adopt some routines to change the way you feel in your own skin.

Adopt the attitude that you are getting dressed as if your dream partner is going to pick you up for a date. Create habits that will make you feel great about yourself every day. Create a sexy new you who feels great in her own skin.  You’ll be surprised at how you’ll start attracting men just by feeling sexier in your own skin. Let’s get on the way to a sexier you:

 1. Out with the old in with the new

Wardrobe spring-clean. Chuck out those old pieces you’ve grown fond of,  their used-by date is long gone. They are cluttering your wardrobe and your ‘new you’. Do this right away. It’s time to erase the memories of your past passionate affairs. Out with the old, and in with the new.

2. Treat yourself to something new

Invest in one new piece of lingerie. Find a great sale at your favourite lingerie shop like Honey Birdette or go online and select one that fits within your budget. Pick out your favourite colour.

For now, you’ll be wearing this to sleep at night. Why not wear it for yourself first? After picture wearing it for someone special. Rule of thumb – always wear something sexy to bed or under your clothes. Investing in yourself and treating yourself to something new is a routine every girl, single or not, owe to adopt. You’ll feel sexy every day, boosting that inner feminity.

3. Create a new look

Toss away the old makeup and head over to your local department store. Walk around the cosmetics department and find a comfy stool to sit on. Get ready for a free makeover. When was the last time you invested in some new makeup?

While your makeup is being professionally applied, imagine yourself going on a date night. Picturing yourself in your mind’s eye is faltering and motivational.

Our suggestion is the very least replace your outdated lip-gloss with a new colour for the season. There’s something very sexy about luscious lips and it’s time! Your lips are made for kissing.

4.  Set the scene for romance

It’s time to set the scene of romance in the bedroom and re-introduce vibes of sensuality. First, put away photos of your family, friends and especially pictures of your ex in your bedroom. You’ll be creating a romantic atmosphere and will leave the boardroom behind (no tech allowed). Light some candles. Put on some relaxing music, and grab some massage oil.

Give yourself a well-deserved bubble bath, put on your new sexy signature piece of lingerie, then curl up with a romance novel and afterwards and fall asleep in dreamland. You’ll wake up every morning and start to feel sexier just from creating these rituals.

5. A new relaxed & sexy you

Now, go out in public and smile at everyone you meet.  You’ll appear happier, more confident, more approachable, and there is nothing sexier than a confident woman to attract a quality man. You’ll walk into a room and people will wonder, “Who’s that girl?” Bring back your flirty self and have fun with the attention you are getting.

Keep this rituals or habits up and you’re now on your way to creating a sexier new you.

In the end, it all comes down to loving yourself.

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