You have tried sex in every room of the house, public sex and watching porn together, and now you want more: Edgier, harder and kinkier sex! Looking at expanding on your kinky bucket list ’50 shades’ stlyle?

With 50 Shades returning to the cinemas, you must admit that kink has entered your mind a couple of times.

Time to get your kink on, why not explore your freak side? And put your kinky bucket list ’50 shades’ style into play.

Whether it’s a soft or more full on fantasy where you use bondage ropes, a blindfold or whips – we’ve got something for every, ahem, taste level.

There’s another world of edgy fun to be had outside the vanilla plain.

Here are the top 10 activities to help you get your kink on.

1.  Ravishment/ forced sex

A lot of women fantasise about this forceful kind of sex. Why? Women, like men, are at times too shy to express their fantasies and desires. When a man tells her what to do, the woman is able to give herself permission to do the naughty and risqué fantasies she feels a little embarrassed about to admit she wants, but deep down really wants to try it.
Does the Fifty Shades Of Grey frenzy make more sense to you now?

2. Fetishes & Kinks

If you like high heels, leather, latex, silk, girdles, fur, or spandex – the list is endless – now is the chance to play with it. Put on your sexiest heels and have sex just in them. If your partner gets excited when he sees you wearing latex, rubber, vinyl or other shiny and tight materials indulge them.

3.   Sex with strangers

There is something sexy, kinky and mysterious about sex with a stranger. Pretend you don’t know each other and meet at the bar. Or really meet a stranger to have that one filled night of passion.

4. Threesome

Threesomes are by far the most common sexual fantasy for both men and women. Perhaps you’ve always wanted to watch your partner have sex with someone else, or wanted them to watch you get with someone else. Maybe you want to experience having two partners at the same time, or to have a sexual experience with whatever gender you usually don’t hook up with. For tips on how to have a successful three way read –  5 tips for a successful threesome.

5.  Try new sex toys

Try the hottest sex toy in the world – womanizer she’ll be pleased. If you want to try out some pegging then get a good strap-on and let the games begin. Want to know more about Pegging: What The Heck Is It?
Toys are a great way to heat things up and you can have hours of fun.

6.  Domination/Submissive role-play

Power is a rush. Many women dream about having a man obey their every wish, so why not unleash your inner dominatrix and try it out in the bedroom? Call all the shots or make commands with whips, handcuffs and blindfolds. Blindfolding is a simple way to incorporate sensory deprivation into your play, and it adds a fun power dynamic:

Many women also fantasize about being submissive and losing control to their partner.

7. Role Play

From doctor/patient to French maid, role-playing is the perfect way to step out of your norms and turn your night into hours of eroticism. Bring imagination into your sexual encounters as an adult by engaging in some role-play.
Love a man in uniform? Play boss and secretary. No matter what you choose, role-play is a fun way to start experimenting with being in a different head space. It’s a great stepping-stone as you get into the Dom/ Sub roles.

8. Erotic spanking

Go ahead! Smack that ass! Feel the sweet sting of your partner’s hand.
One great trick is to be light and sensual with some caressing in between slaps.

The main reason people enjoy spanking is that it taps on two major aspects – sensation play and the sub play. At times your body isn’t going to respond to the ‘traditional’ stimuli for sex and a great way to initiate sex is to trick and surprise your brain – remember your brain is your major sex organ. The arousal is almost instant.

9. Orgy/Group sex

Certainly not everyone’s fantasy, but if you enjoy threesomes and are curious about bringing more partners into the bedroom, this might be one thrilling and liberating one to explore.

10. Worship

Love a particular area of your partner’s body? Then spend some extra time lavishing attention on it.  Kiss and suck those toes, if that gets your juices going. If you love breasts, spend an hour massaging them with oil. Indulge in some great bouncy boob gifs. If you love her butt give it the attention it deserves. Have a look at our butt gifs Sexy Ass Tuesday.
Your partner will love it, because you are giving them the biggest compliment by loving their body, even if it’s one particle part of your body.

Want to throw routine right out of the window, then adding some kink into your sex life might just be the thing. We all benefit in learning new ways to enjoy sex. You never know if you like it until you try it.

Related: 10 Fetishes You Didn’t Know You Had