Why Not Have A Quickie?

Having amazing sex doesn’t have to take all night.

Think back of those times when you were horny, but you didn’t have the time or energy for a long sex- session.

This is when quickies can be great!
Great news is both women and men love them. According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the majority of men and women prefer shorter sex (seven to 13 minutes) to longer bouts of passion (13 minutes or more).

Furthermore, other studies show that sex in any quantity or duration is healthy for your sex life and your sex drive.

Maybe everyone should incorporate quickies into their sex lives. Not as the mainstay of one’s sex life, but certainly as added variety, because there are some definite benefits to even a speedy encounter.

We’ve rounded up five reasons why you should have quickies more often:

1.    Variety

A quickie is a fun way to mix things up and have sex somewhere you never had before. Variety in your sex life stops you from falling into a rut.

When it’s a quickie you have in mind, making things a little more daring can up the excitement and pick up the pace. Do it up against a wall, in the shower, on the kitchen bench or even in a more public location. Or leave that door or window cracked or time things just a little too close and let the threat of being caught get her to the finish line sooner.

2.    Show Raw Desire For Your Partner

Trying different positions and locations are great to keep things fresh. But throwing in the occasional quickie, where there is no planning and little to no manners, just sexual pleasure free for all is what quickies are all about. Quickies are one of the best ways to get real, and raw about your sexual needs.

3.    Fuel The Desire

If you’re suffering from a low sex drive, having regular sex is actually a good way to get your sex drive back up. So quickies are a great way to get your desires up again – the more you do it, the more you want it.

4.    Practice makes perfect

Quickies force you to get creative, and push your partner’s buttons to get them to the final line quickly and with maximum pleasure. Whether it’s dirty talk, or having sex somewhere new or adding a new kinky twist. How do you find out? Practice, and practice makes perfect.

5.    Quickies Improve Relationship satisfaction

One study shows that having sex, even if you’re not really in the mood for it to begin with, can give you a higher relationship satisfaction. So not only are you getting some quality time together and staying connected, you’re building your relationship all around.

Quickies can be a great expression of your desires, a time efficient manner to have sex in busy world, and a way to add excitement, build intimacy and to keep you satisfied in your relationship. Quickies are great.

Quickies are spontaneous but why not plan a bit, to warm her up to the idea. Since quickies can be much easier for men than for women so focus on her excitement.

Remember sex is at least 50% mental, especially for women. So get her head in the game early. Let her in on your plans to play that evening before you head out to work. Or send her a sext. She’ll be thinking about you all day. And if she’s all revved up before hand it’ll allow her to maximize the fun of the quickie.

Quickies are a totally healthy part of any sexual relationship; maybe it’s time to rediscover the joys of a quickie.

Do you think quickies can be hot, sexy and satisfying?  Share with us in the comments section below!