Does your profile read something like this?
“ I’m young (at heart), respectful and full of energy. Love nature, sex, the beach, shopping and going to the movies. If you want to know more, ask me”
Really? Please tell me this isn’t you!
Whoever was looking at your profile, has moved on to another profile in hope to be captivated.
We get it; it’s not easy sometimes to build a kick ass profile. Want your profile to be irresistible? Do this.
Here are 5 ways that can help you jazz up your dating profile to attract the person you are looking for.
1. Original header
Do not use the generic headers available to you – – “man seeking women” BORING!
What it says is, you are not willing to impress or even try to impress your new playmate. First impressions are everything.
Consequently, create a profile header message that commands attention – something clever, funny, or philosophical that will make a person want to click on your profile and read it.
Use humour to strike it or be a bit philosophical, so how about this:
“Willing to lie about how we met!”
or
“Strangers are friends waiting to be made.”
Humour and a sense of humour outside or in the bedroom works wonders.
2. Have a great opener to your bio
“Single and sassy, with an amazing personality and easily persuaded into anything mischievous. ”
3. Show your passion and imagination
“It’s the very simple things in life that make me happiest. Going for a skinny dip and feeling the cold, soothing water caressing my naked body. Reading great erotica to set the mood and pretending to be the main star at some secret swingers party, are some of my little pleasures. I love to cook and I can whip up a stir fry that is to DIE for, but I need you to handle the grill.”
Did this grab your attention? Did it make you feel like you were there too, enjoying that little fantasy, being part of that possibility? Enough said.
Hit them at their senses and make them feel like they are part of your plan.
4. Briefly say who you are and who you are looking for
The list could be long and at best scary. No one likes to go through a wall of text in order to see if they find you interesting or not.
So easy there, and do not list all you are into and then what you’d like to try and who you are looking for.
Name a few things; most important use filters to ensure you have the Right reader continue on:
Filter: “Looking for fit 30-40 year old male who can travel”
By creating a filter, when a person who doesn’t match your criteria reads your header they are likely not to continue on.
Then finish with maybe:
“ Is there anything you can show me, or teach me? Tempt me. Just like a new job, I offer excellent benefits.”
5. Season your profile
A vibrant, current and fluid profile, that shows ‘growth’ throughout the changing yearly seasons is a sign of a passionate person.
A sedentary, webbed and dusty profile that has never been updated, shows no passion or zest for life, is one that is going to sink to the bottom and bring you no success.
Show your movements, emotions and experiences through the seasons:
In winter show your passion for the indoor activities, your taste for wine and exotic dishes.
In spring show the spike in your energy and hormones, your eagerness to shed those winter clothes.
In summer show off your extrovert self with love for the beach, sun and outdoor parties.
Do not stress at creating an irresistible profile from the first go. Just be you and take your time at creating a profile that reflects you. Use your passions, imagination and your ever changing experiences to help you create and keep an profile that is irresistible.
What draws you to a profile? What are the things that you like to see more in other profiles?
