Keep those restricted shots for the Private Galleries

This one causes some hot debate between members but the majority prefer a little mystery. Some members state that they like to see what they’re getting into (or rather, what might be getting into them) before meeting. To satisfy both schools of thought, chuck them in your PG and give access when you make contact with a member, with a polite heads up that it contains restricted pics. The member can decide whether they’d like to click or not, without copping an eyeful of junk when they click on your profile. Keep in mind that Guest members can’t view these pics, so having one as your main profile pic isn’t necessarily a great idea anyway, and you won’t show up in search results.

Don’t have a vulgar username

Hardnhorny4u, touchmytool, 9inchnthick, swallowmypole…You know what’s hilarious about these names? They weren’t the only crude usernames that I came up with, but they were the only ones that weren’t in use! Unless you want to attract a vulgar kind of person (each to their own), this kind of name ain’t doing you any favours. Most users are turned off by them and they’ll probably put you right into the ‘no’ pile without so much as a cursory glance at your profile as it gives zilch insight into your personality…unless your only worthwhile trait is your nine inch…Well… ‘Nuff said.

Don’t just use template profiles/messages

It’s okay to start off with a template profile if you’re not sure what to write, but then have a quick browse of other profiles to see how you can add a personal touch to your profile. There’s nothing unique about them and they tell other members nothing about you except that you’re lazy, which might lead them to think that you’ll be lazy in bed too. If they just wanted a penis without a person(ality) attached to it, they’d buy a dildo. Make your profile unique, rather than just one of a million interchangeable profiles written in haste by tools with their tools in hand looking for quick release. If you’re serious about meeting people it’s worth the effort and usually you don’t need to write a novel (in fact, don’t). Keep it to a paragraph if you like but make every word count. A generic ‘hot profile. meet?’ and treating them like a dumping ground for your baby gravy will probably get no response, or at least not a positive one.

Read profiles properly

Sure, we get that some of the profiles out there read like badly written romance novels, but women don’t want to feel like one in a long line of women that you’re trying to tick off your ‘fuck-et’ list. Show genuine interest by taking the time to read the profile over. Not only does it help you write a personalised message – which scores you brownie points and makes you stand out from the masses – but it ensures that you meet their criteria and are compatible. If you don’t meet someone’s criteria, don’t waste your time (and theirs) by messaging them. You may get frustrated by the lack of response when you’re just barking up the wrong tree. Find the right tree! Simple.

Play nice

Some people turn (the wrong kind of) nasty when sent a message that they don’t want. Putting the reasons why they do aside, receiving a snippy reply back to your message doesn’t make it okay to start being abusive. Be the bigger man and hit the block button so you don’t make the mistake of contacting them again then move on. Report them if you feel the verbal attack was unwarranted and crossed the line. Some women do know one another so if you start making a name for yourself as a brute amongst them, you’re not going to get far. Just ignore mean people and concentrate on people who have validations or are verified.

Read more profile tips and comments from other members in the adult forums!
‘What makes a good profile?’ Read it here
‘Profile Improvement.’ Read it here