Are you looking for a casual encounter, hoping to try a particular fantasy or hoping someone will teach you new things?
Sometimes you happen to be the senior in the relationship and you impart knowledge and skills. Other times you are the younger in the relationship and you are the ‘student’.

Remember that we’re not talking about perusing a relationship in the conventional sense of the word.Younger and older dates have their advantages and disadvantages, let’s identify them.

Dating Younger

Advantages

You might be smitten with your younger partner for several reasons; younger toned body, energetic, fun, wild, spontaneous and willingness to comply. When you’re together, it’s’ fast and furious’ type of fun and ready for another round in no time. Dating younger is fun, sexy, exciting and never lacking thrills. A younger partner is suitable for a couple or older women who want to have a fun night without any strings attached.

Disadvantages

While everyone likes to have fun, slowing things down and being in the moment from time to time is a nice change. Younger partners are still in their journey of self-discovery. They want to experience lots, with as many partners as they can to find out what they are into. You can only truly be a great partner when you learned what you like first and only then devote attention to what your partner likes to please them.

Takeaway

If you are just looking for a fun, exciting encounter where you are the leader then a younger accomplice is your best bet. Younger dates do not have much experience and are still learning, but you can impart a lot of wisdom. So enjoy a young, fit body for a change.

Dating Older

Advantages

There’s a good chance an older squeeze has more sexual experience than you. They are more confident, open to suggestions and usually know what they want. Older partners are more connected with their sexual self. They understand that sex is an experience that can be enjoyed without attachment which will make them a great lover. They are more attentive to your needs, they know that a good sexual encounter is only great when both or all involved experienced an orgasm. Older dates are great for anyone who wants someone to invest time and effort on their pleasure.

Disadvantages

Older dates have less energy to keep up with a younger more energetic date, but they take their time to ensure you have as much fun as they do and always consider your orgasm. Yes, their bodies are not as beautiful as a younger person but if they kept fit and looked after themselves they can be still sexy as hell. If the years weren’t as kind they have their knowledge and experience that they can share with you.

Takeaway

Older dates know what they want, they are more confident and more likely to get freaky. They are ultimately a great choice for a naughty date because they can teach you some important things about sex, equal pleasure and new fantasies you like to learn about.

Whether you date older or younger, each experience you have will help you find something new about you. How we experience it and learn from them is different for everyone.Some of us take our lessons from people our own age and others take it from older partners. We’re all different and we are the best judges with what works for us.

Whether you are the younger person or the older, your sexual desires want what they want and sometimes there is no stopping them. Expressing your sexuality is about embracing your inner desires, so let people decide what makes them happier on the way there – older or younger dates.

Sexual exploration has no age boundaries, each and every date is an opportunity to learn more about your sexuality.

What are your thoughts on dating older or younger? Have you been on both sides of the equation? Let us know in the comments below.

For a start, a lot of women are now looking for a ‘booty call’, once purely the domain of men. But we are asserting ourselves, and looking out for number one for a change. We have realized that if we don’t want all the crap that comes with looking after a man and his ego, we’re happy to just get a bit on the side.  It all started a few years ago, when glamour women of New York started dating younger guys, nicknamed ‘toy boys’. Men have always gotten the ‘tick of approval’ when it comes to dating gorgeous younger women, and it’s about time the tables turned. The growing acceptance of older women dating younger men may have something to do with the rising status of women in today’s society.

Many women are now completely independent of men, and so we are slowly starting to advance on men’s terrain. For years it has been more socially acceptable for older men to hook up with younger women but not vice versa. Well it seems things are finally starting to change with the improvement in gender equality. So women are realizing that they don’t need men that are older, have more life experience and are more financially stable, like they traditionally did. If a woman has all these attributes herself, well, what does she need a man for? That’s where the purity of love comes in, regardless of what a man earns or where he’s at in life. You could learn to love in the simplest form, without unnecessary complications.

This is where women have learnt to fall in love with the toy boys, and things that used to matter, such as financial status of the men, have either taken a back seat or been thrown out of the car altogether. Celebrity couples such as Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins, Madonna and Guy Ritchie, and Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have all paved the way for the acceptance of younger male lovers. These kinds of relationships simply weren’t feasible in the past, as women needed the men to earn the bread and help them move out of the family home. Therefore it simply wasn’t practical to be with a younger man as they couldn’t provide for the needs of their women.

Thankfully nowadays women are earning money and respect in their own right and should be rewarded accordingly! Haven’t women always looked after the men anyway?? It would be very liberating to break down the walls of societal condemnation and accept the love of a young soul. So the next time you are confronted with a situation where you are approached by a younger man, take the plunge and you may find you are pleasantly surprised. After all, it opens up a whole new world of possibilities not limited by parameters such as age.