Are you looking for a casual encounter, hoping to try a particular fantasy or hoping someone will teach you new things?
Sometimes you happen to be the senior in the relationship and you impart knowledge and skills. Other times you are the younger in the relationship and you are the ‘student’.

Remember that we’re not talking about perusing a relationship in the conventional sense of the word.Younger and older dates have their advantages and disadvantages, let’s identify them.

Dating Younger

Advantages

You might be smitten with your younger partner for several reasons; younger toned body, energetic, fun, wild, spontaneous and willingness to comply. When you’re together, it’s’ fast and furious’ type of fun and ready for another round in no time. Dating younger is fun, sexy, exciting and never lacking thrills. A younger partner is suitable for a couple or older women who want to have a fun night without any strings attached.

Disadvantages

While everyone likes to have fun, slowing things down and being in the moment from time to time is a nice change. Younger partners are still in their journey of self-discovery. They want to experience lots, with as many partners as they can to find out what they are into. You can only truly be a great partner when you learned what you like first and only then devote attention to what your partner likes to please them.

Takeaway

If you are just looking for a fun, exciting encounter where you are the leader then a younger accomplice is your best bet. Younger dates do not have much experience and are still learning, but you can impart a lot of wisdom. So enjoy a young, fit body for a change.

Dating Older

Advantages

There’s a good chance an older squeeze has more sexual experience than you. They are more confident, open to suggestions and usually know what they want. Older partners are more connected with their sexual self. They understand that sex is an experience that can be enjoyed without attachment which will make them a great lover. They are more attentive to your needs, they know that a good sexual encounter is only great when both or all involved experienced an orgasm. Older dates are great for anyone who wants someone to invest time and effort on their pleasure.

Disadvantages

Older dates have less energy to keep up with a younger more energetic date, but they take their time to ensure you have as much fun as they do and always consider your orgasm. Yes, their bodies are not as beautiful as a younger person but if they kept fit and looked after themselves they can be still sexy as hell. If the years weren’t as kind they have their knowledge and experience that they can share with you.

Takeaway

Older dates know what they want, they are more confident and more likely to get freaky. They are ultimately a great choice for a naughty date because they can teach you some important things about sex, equal pleasure and new fantasies you like to learn about.

Whether you date older or younger, each experience you have will help you find something new about you. How we experience it and learn from them is different for everyone.Some of us take our lessons from people our own age and others take it from older partners. We’re all different and we are the best judges with what works for us.

Whether you are the younger person or the older, your sexual desires want what they want and sometimes there is no stopping them. Expressing your sexuality is about embracing your inner desires, so let people decide what makes them happier on the way there – older or younger dates.

Sexual exploration has no age boundaries, each and every date is an opportunity to learn more about your sexuality.

What are your thoughts on dating older or younger? Have you been on both sides of the equation? Let us know in the comments below.

They are often referred to as Cougars, silly nicknames aside, dating an older woman, could be the best dating decision you ever make.

There are plenty of solid reasons to date older women that have nothing to do with just how fabulous they look. Here are all the reasons why she’s the best woman to date:

1. She knows what she wants

With age, women understand themselves better. They understand their emotions, their bodies and what they want better. They have had plenty of time to figure out what’s most important to her.

She knows what, how and when she wants something. She has no time for games, if she’s interested in some bedroom play and you are her lucky pick, it’s on for sure. She does not second guess herself. She will tell you, clearly, what she wants in the bedroom, how she’s going to get it. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who is confident and fearless.

2. She’s sexy

This is a woman who knows her body, her desires and when she fancies to try out a fantasy, she’s serious about it. Sexiness isn’t defined by the body alone. Sexiness comes with age. Older women know how to be sexier. Celebrities who prove older women are sexy as hell are; Sharon Stone, Kelly Preston, Kathy Ireland, Nigella Lawson, Elle MacPherson, Vanessa Williams, Michelle Pfeiffer, Elizabeth Hurley and the list goes on.

3. She’s confident in herself and who she is

Older women are not hangup on body issues, they understand that their flaws are just signs of a life well-lived.  Jane Fonda, once said: “It’s impossible to be truly intimate with someone if you don’t like yourself.” Words well spoken.

At a certain age, you come to appreciate your body and sexual appeal. You’re sexually confident with what you like and open to experiment with fantasies without hangups.

4. She knows what she wants in bed and will ask for it 

They’ve not only lost their inhibitions, they feel freed from the awkward sexual encounters of their youth. Older women like sex because it’s not only about fulfilling their partner, it’s about their own fulfilment and during their lovemaking, they do not stress about how their body looks. They focus on the experience and the sensation along the way. They focus on their sexual urges and desires.

5. She’s experienced

Experience in the field of work is important, as it is in your sex life too. Older women know what turns them on, what and how they like to be pleasured. Most important they are not shy in asking what they like. They have tried a few things out and they can teach a younger partner a thing or two. What else can a young man ask for?

6. She’s independent

She knows the importance of not losing yourself in the other person. Instead, it’s better to love each other while giving each other the room to grow and flourish. Younger women and men get so possessive of each other unwittingly suffocating their chance to grow as individuals and as a couple together.

Older women want you, but she doesn’t need you.

7. She’s truly free to be herself

She seeks out relationships for no other reason other than pleasure. She is not worried about commitment/marriage, kids and stability, she has been through all of these and they are not a priority to her any longer. She has all her attention to fulfilling her fantasies, her desires and indulging in her pleasures, to have fun with you.

8. She wants to make you a better lover for her and your future lovers

She will make you a better man. She will teach you that women are exquisite creatures who are so much more than their visual bodies. They have desires and sexual cravings, that once divulged can make your life a hell of a ride. They will teach you to become the best lovers, to listen and to pay attention to your woman’s bodies and minds. Your sex life with her will be unforgettable but the lessons you take from her will be forever.

Guys, there are so many sexy older women on RHP, ask them out before someone else beats you to it.

Yes, men and women are very different and face problems when trying to get along.

We are different in how we do things, think, react and in how we experience life and sex. Almost in all aspects men and women differ, but despite all the differences we need each other.

If we recognise that we are different, embrace, respect it and ultimately support each other, there are lessons we can teach each other. Our differences enrich our lives and yes sometimes ticks us off, but imagine if we were all the same —BORING.

We should be glad these differences exist. As is often said, opposites attract, and it’s this which creates the magic between us.

Bright Side has sketched a funny comic about the hilarious differences between men and women.

Some of the things drawn in the comic graphic you’ll identify with straight away and others not so much.

In what other ways do women and men differ from each other? Do you have any examples you can share with us? Tell us below.

However, according to a study by the University of Pittsburgh, this is not true, especially for women.

Women’s sex lives get better with age – their sex lives peak between the ages of 45 and 60, said the lead author of one small study, Dr. Holly N. Thomas, an assistant professor of medicine at the University of Pittsburgh told Today.

“We were surprised to find a group of women who said that sex actually got better for them as they got older”

While frequency of sex declines with age for women, there’s a definite uptick in quality.

This study found that the reason older women have better sex is thanks to:

1. A better understanding of their bodies and how it works when it comes to sex.

2. An increased self-confidence and more comfortable in their bodies

3. Better communication skills to ask what they want in bed

Evidently, women’s body knowledge and confidence can have an effect on their bedroom pleasure, on their sexual desire as well as her ability to experience sexual arousal.

Growing old doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom; after all, the quantity of sex may be less, but the quality only gets better.

These results represent good news for the pleasure-seeking sexy cougars out there.

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10. Alex Pendelbury

Scott Pendelbury’s wife knows that black never goes out of style – and she caught our eye in this classy yet stunning black gown with a hint of midriff and a matching choker. Nice!

9. Annie Nolan

Choosing to buck the trend of ‘flesh is best’, Liam Picken’s partner caught our attention for daring to be different and covering up in a sexy, feminine suit – who would’ve thought that just a hint of ankle might seem racy!

8. Mardi Dangerfield

Patrick Dangerfield’s wife sent pulses racing in this racy red plunging number, paired with a sparkly choker chain that had us thinking bad thoughts. Patrick won the Brownlow Medal this year, in case you were at all curious!

7. Annabel Whiting

So simple yet so striking – Robbie Gray’s partner showed just the right amount of flesh with a barely-there top half in this gorgeous black gown.

6. Jesinta Campbell

No best dressed list would be complete without Lance Franklin’s uber-hot arm candy in this plunge playsuit, which flashed maximum amounts of leg and almost indecent amounts of cleavage.

5. Lauren Tscharke

A figure higging gown with a plunging (but modestly so) neckline and sexy AF sheer panels showing off some seriously toned thigh and a hint of booty? Bryce Gibbs’ partner got it SO right in the fashion stakes. Bravo!

4. Courtney Boyd

Making news for all the wrong reasons, Tom Lynch’s partner was the subject of ‘almost suffers a nip slip’ headlines for wearing this dress. We think the colour is a welcome change from black and white – and can you believe she had a baby just a few months ago?! She deserves to show off that killer bod!

3. Dani Orlando 

Bucking the trend of dresses cut down to the belly button, Luke Shuey’s partner decided to cut her dress down to her butt crack instead. Classy yet sexy as hell.

2. Jordan Ablett 

Love it or hate it, you gotta give Gary Ablett Jr’s wife credit for being daring enough to pull off this ensemble! While we love the racy red, we aren’t too sold on the choice of shoe….

1. Jessie Habermann

Choosing to go for both a plunging neckline AND (sort of) backless style was this peekaboo daring outfit worn by Marc Murphy’s fiance. It’s one of the most talked-about outfits of the night and it’s not hard to tell why when looking at these images.

Which WAG was your best dressed pick of the night? Tell us below! 

Keen to perve on the men of AFL, too? Check out our Top Ten Sexy AFL Players list! 

Women have a high libido; they just need to free themselves from all the social and cultural attitudes that too often dampen their desires. Women need to allow themselves to feel lust, desire, and to enjoy sex. Women need to make sex about them, about their pleasure and need to learn to meet their own needs.

2. Own All Your Different Orgasms

Women not only can have more orgasms than men but they also experience a number of different orgasms. Women can have a clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, multiple orgasm, G-spot, breast orgasm, squirting orgasm, some women can also have a mental orgasm. In short, women are orgasmic creatures who for the vast majority have been afraid to embrace their sexuality. As you can see their potential is enormous. Leaves any experienced male feeling a little jealous and slightly overwhelmed. Yes, this is the reason why many savvy vixens love gangbangs where they know they can reach all of these orgasms in one night.

     3. Realise That Men Love Sexual Women

Confident women speak about their sexuality and aren’t afraid to act on their desires. The frowns and the looks, even the occasional ‘slut-shaming’ utterances are for the most yawn-fest and boring. Celebrities such as Amy Shumer, and  Miley Cyrus , who are unapologetic about their sexuality. Mainstream TV series of the looks of Orange Is The New Black, RHP  and Tinder  and other media influences are pushing the boundaries and changing the way we think about women’s sexuality. Men love sexual women because they know what they like in bed and love sex as much as they do. Finally, men can be honest about sex with a partner who is not going to be horrified at the many facets of sexuality and sexual possibilities. A sexually confident woman is the best asset a man can have in his life journey.

     4. Sexual Experience Makes You A Sex Diva

How can a woman possibly be good at sex or even know what she likes or dislikes about sex when she has had no experience? To understand, enjoy and know your turn on and offs, you need to have sex and go so far as to say have had a few sexual partners. To be queen between the sheets, you need to embrace your wants and needs to be totally authentic in bed. Only through exploration do you get the knowledge and a set of skills that will provide you and your partner pleasure. If you are already in a relationship, explore with your partner,watch porn, play with sex toys, indulge in self-play, become a swinger or anything that your fancy takes you. You will not discover if you are straight vanilla, or have a kinky side or bi-curious until you go out there and play.

      5. Sex Will Help You Meet Your Compatible Partner

Most women have the perception that they should hold off sex until they meet their life partner. That if they do have sex too often this act only will destroy their chance of a serious relationship. Nothing is further from the truth, being who you are sexually is very sexy and attractive. No man who loves sex wants to commit to a relationship with a woman who doesn’t understand and enjoy sex. Who doesn’t know her body and how it best has pleasure.

     6. Sex Is An Endurance Sports

Sex is an endurance sports, you need to practice harnessing your stamina. To keep your body at optimum and to get to know your body’s ability get in the gym, get active. Think of exercise as a means to get better at sex. No red-blooded male enjoys a ‘corpse’ next to him, unless that’s a fetish of his, otherwise an active and enthusiastic lover is what we all desire.

Don’t expect everyone to accept the openness of your sexuality because at the end is not about what people think about you or your sex life but about how you feel about your body, your sexuality and about fulfilling and exploring your sexuality.

With women embracing their sexuality, sex between women and men can only get better. Women will feel free to explore, to let go of their inhibitions and men will enjoy having  partners who will be fulfilled and happy. Be a traditional (vanilla) girl with a swirl of slut, exactly how nature intended women to be.

That movie was more than 15 years ago, but we don’t seem to have progressed very far in knowing what women want. Many boys learn about sex from clueless or bragging friends, and through free internet porn, which is usually entirely focused on male pleasure.

Meanwhile, heterosexual girls have detailed chats about sex with friends, peruse the ubiquitous ‘How to please your man’ articles in women’s magazines and read erotic fiction, or soft-porn chick-lit.

That doesn’t mean women are always experts on their own bodies either, with society discouraging women from being open about their sexual desires. That’s why it was significant to see men’s magazine GQthis week heap praise on a website that publishes anonymous essays by women on how to make them orgasm. “We wanted to start a dialogue about how women achieve sexual pleasure; something that is often ignored, devalued, or misunderstood,” reads the Tumblr page, which currently features 72 fascinating posts. “Here is our look into the spectrum of desire.”

It’s an eye-opening set of opinions, preferences, fears and fantasies, with some giving practical advice (“I hate that thing when a tongue gets all hard and pointy”) and others recounting anecdotes about when they did and didn’t reach climax (“You got visibly bored, which made me tense in exactly the wrong way”).

The prompt for the site’s contributors is this: “Imagine you could give this essay to a past or future sexual partner, free of judgment or repercussion. What would you want them to know?”

It’s what we should be saying in real life, but it isn’t happening.

FAKING IT

Around one in five women are affected by anorgasmia, or inability to orgasm, according to the Mayo Clinic, and one in 10 have never climaxed at all. It doesn’t always mean they can’t climax, in many cases, something isn’t right.

In another enduring scene from a classic movie, When Harry Met Sally, Sally (Meg Ryan) demonstrates to a shocked Harry (Billy Crystal) just how easy it is to fake it.

As many as 26 per cent of women regularly fake orgasms, and almost 70 per cent of women who have had sex have done it at some point in their lives, a University of Kansas study revealed. That’s not great news for men and women, and it’s only making the problem worse.

So why do we do it?

NOT TURNED ON

For women more than men, sex generally involves the brain as well as body. That means women need to be in the right headspace. Psychological barriers can include thinking too much about what a partner wants, worrying about what they look like or feeling pressured to have sex or an orgasm.

In a UK study by Gayle Brewer from the University of Central Lancashire and Colin Hendrie of the University of Leeds, the researcher found that around 80 per cent of women consciously made noises during sex to “boost their partner’s self-esteem” and speed up their partner’s climax “to relieve discomfort/pain, boredom, and fatigue … as well as because of time limitations.”

Almost 70 per cent said they would stay with an otherwise satisfactory partner, even if they never reached orgasm with them.

“When a woman has low sexual desire or libido, they are really sexual neutral,” Desiree Spierings, director at Sexual Health Australia, told news.com.au. “It is just not something in the forefront of their minds.”

She said that while spontaneous desire for sex can wane in longer-term relationships, we have something called ‘response desire’, which kicks in after we begin an intimate encounter.

“A woman may not feel like having actual sex, however, once she starts to participate in something intimate like kissing, hugging or maybe getting or receiving a sensual massage, they may get aroused and then their response desire kicks in, and they do feel like taking it further.”

PLEASING A PARTNER

Many women are making the right noises or acting like they are enjoying something when they aren’t. This is obviously problematic, as it means the same mistakes are being repeated over and over.

“When we look at the messages, or even porn, it is very much focused on male pleasure,” said Desiree. “It can raise false expectations around what sex looks like or is. Sex is very much a learned behaviour and if we learn to be sexual through watching porn, we can have some issues when it comes to the actual sexual performance in the bedroom.”

While porn can be an asset to a healthy sex life both alone and in company, much of what’s out there isn’t great for the women involved (who wear expressions of forced sexiness or even pain), or those watching.

Young men and women are expecting sex to look like it does in videos that rarely show female pleasure. There were protests in the UK recently when censors tried to ban primarily acts associated with female enjoyment from porn videos.

Porn can also raise inadequacy issues, around weight, breast or penis size and sexual performance. The Australiasian Institute of Sexual Health Medicine revealed that 80 per cent of Australian women “believe that they are too fat to make love”.

At its worst, excessive watching of porn can become an addiction or compulsion, leading to an inability to enjoy real-life sex or a need to be more extreme or even violent. The Australian Study of Health and Relationships found last year that 22 per cent of women had been forced or frightened into doing something sexual they did not want do do.

DOING IT WRONG

Here’s perhaps the most important point many men don’t understand: most women don’t consistently orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. “Men are very performance-focused today and do believe it is important to pleasure a woman,” said Desiree. “This can also cause a few issues with performance anxiety though.”

As a sex therapist, she encourages both partners to recognise that sex is not all about intercourse, but about foreplay too, in and out of the bedroom. She suggests flirting, sexting, trying new things and making time specifically for sex.

Some women don’t understand their bodies either. “Sometimes women feel inhibited, due to their upbringing for example,” said Desiree. “They do not feel open about what they like or do not like.

“Your body belongs first of all to you … through masturbation, you can learn what it is that you like or do not like and how your body respond to this stimulation. It can help you to feel more comfortable with yourself as a sexual being, which in itself can be freeing in the bedroom.”

The Australian Study of Health and Relationships found that only 42 per cent of women aged 16 to 69 said they had masturbated in the past year, compared with 72 per cent of men. Some attribute this to a lack of sex education or society frowning on women who openly express their sexuality through their clothes, behaviour or sex life. Just look at the issues with slut-shaming or the recent horror at a young woman’s choice of a sexual song lyric as her Tinder profile.

HOW WE TALK ABOUT IT

Often we only hear about sex and sexuality in problematic contexts: STIs, disorders, fertility, sexual abuse, addictions, cheating and deviant behaviour. But medicalising sex, or commercialising it in advertising and the media, means the conversation initiated by the Tumblr on the female orgasm is never had.

Recent discussion of a “female viagra” was met with contempt from many commentators, because it ignores the fact that a woman’s difficulty with arousal is often not simply be mechanical.

Sex can be an expression of love or emotion, or about being playful and having fun. Today, more women are comfortable talking about sex, asking for what they want and having multiple partners than in previous generations. But as we’ve seen here, there’s still plenty of progress to be made.

Source: news.com.au

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The study looked at 251 French women ages 18 to 67, of this group 176 women in the group said they regularly had orgasms during sex and 75 said they had difficulties climaxing with their partners. All those in the group said they were sexually active and the frequency of sexual activity varied between two and 90 times per month. Women in the study were asked to answer questions about the thoughts, emotions and behaviours that played a part in their ability to orgasm during sex and self-stimulation.

The results align with the results of another study published in 2011 in the journal Sexologies which found a link between the lack of erotic thoughts during intercourse and troubles reaching orgasm. The study also found that women who were not able to reach orgasm tended to be distracted by other thoughts not related to sex during intercourse.

It seems the key to more frequent orgasms could be a little mindfulness and whole lot of erotic fantasies.

Source: bodyandsoul.com.au

Does this seem on the money, ladies? Do sexy thoughts help you get over the line? Let us know below!

Three of the bands five vocalists are filmed in a black background, doing their best to sing the notes and words correctly to their new song ‘Go to Go’ while all along a suspicious vibrating devise away from the camera view is distracting them.

Masturbation will lead to orgasm most times and as you see in this film these women look beautiful, vulnerable and happy. No wonder masturbation has a lot of health benefits. The month of May is coming to an end but it surely doesn’t mean that we have to slow down doing one thing that is good for us and feels soooo good too. Let’s send this month off with a blasting masturbation session whether alone, with your partner or special friends.

It makes for a very entertaining viewing as 8 million people on You Tube already agree.

It is a rather original way to illustrate women’s sexuality.

Watch it and let us know what you think:

British researchers at Kings College London found no evidence to support long-standing claims there is a collection of internal nerve endings that trigger the ultimate in sexual ecstasy.

“Women may argue that having a G-spot is due to diet or exercise, but in fact it is virtually impossible to find real traits,” study co-author Tim Spector said.

“This is by far the biggest study ever carried out and it shows fairly conclusively that the idea of a G-spot is subjective.”

The findings came after researchers surveyed more than 1800 woman, all identical and non-identical twins.

Each woman was asked whether they thought they had a G-spot before their answer was cross-checked against their twin.

If the G-spot did in fact exist, the twins would be more likely to give similar answers because of similarities in their genes.

But the research found no such pattern.

Research co-author Andrea Burri said she hoped the findings would remove a “rather irresponsble” pressure on women and men in the bedroom.

Source: ninemsn.com.au