The excitement of catching someone or being caught by someone in a saucy situation can get your blood pumping to hot new levels so much so that there are heaps of sexual adventurers out there who have created a lifestyle from it. We all have a sexy performer lurking inside of us and it’s time to get this show on the road with our Top Ten Guide to Voyeurism and Exhibitionism.

Whether it’s a quick flash of your breasts, rubbing chocolate sauce on your body while on webcam, or video taping a lusty romp with a hottie – we have a little exhibitionism within us waiting to be exposed to the world.

10. Mirror, mirror, on the wall, who’s the sexiest of them all?

So simple yet so arousing, placing a mirror above, beside, or at either end of the bed can heighten your sexual jaunt in a sultry second. Better yet, you get the best of both worlds as you get a thrill out of watching and being watched.

9. Catch each other out

Watching each other masturbate may be a regular stint on your sexual repertoire and if not then we strongly suggest it’s the first thing that you do as soon as you switch off your computer. You may even want to mix things up a little by pretending not to know that anyone is watching you.

8. Strike a pose

Another day, another celebrity sex tape being leaked to the media – certainly the best trend that Paris Hilton ever set off, if it’s not teen hottie Vanessa Hudgens’ nude pics ending up the internet then it’s saucy Lindsay Lohan taking it all off for a magazine. But why should the celebs be the only one’s having so much fun? This is one Hollywood bandwagon you want to jump on it’s as simple as getting your hands on a camera or video recorder and then letting your imagination run wild.

7. Making more than sandcastles…

There are some people who enjoy nude beaches because they like the freedom of not wearing clothes, and then there are others who like nude beaches because there are just so many good things you can do when you don’t have tricky zips and buttons to navigate through. If you like to show of your bits then a nude beach is a great place to start because it’s a welcome place to get your kit off without any judgment – but if you’re really daring, there are many things you can get up to under the cover of the ocean – while all those people may or may not notice from the beach shores…which brings me to my next point…

6. Location, location, location

It’s not just the real estate market that touts this as an important point to keep in mind. If you have sex in the right location you could increase your chances of getting caught, or of having a stranger set up camp and watch as you enjoy each other’s company. Anywhere that increases you chances of getting caught will give you more than just an adrenalin rush.

5. Show off your good bits

You don’t want to give anyone a heart attack (or worse yet end up in goal) so we don’t recommend flashing your favourite body parts to complete strangers, but keep in mind that a little leg and a little cleavage can go a long way for some blokes. Take things up a notch by playing flasher with your partner and maybe reveal a nipple, lift a skirt, or unzip those pants – it’ll only take a second but the thrill will last long after that.

4. Dogging on you

It’s a craze that’s sweeping the globe. Dogging is a term used for having sex in a public place (usually in a car) and encouraging others to watch. You’re guaranteed an exhilarating experience heightened by the idea of watching, being watched or even being caught out. With nifty inventions such as the internet and text messaging, these events have become highly organised, with many being invited to watch or be watched.

3. There’s a party in my pants…

If you like to watch or be watched then a swingers’ party may just be what you’re after. With plenty of playrooms you can mix things up with other couples, watch as people enjoy each other and even join in yourself if the mood takes you. The perfect place for an exhibitionist to flaunt their goods!

2. Webcam is a god

RedHotPie’s webcams are sizzling hot – with someone getting naughty for all to see it’s a great place to take a sneaky peak at some of the sexiest members as they show you what they’ve got. And if you like to put on a show yourself you can jump right in there with an audience just waiting to see you at your naughtiest. Many RHP members swear by webcam as they say it gives them the chance to be an exhibitionist in the safety and comfort of their own home – give it a try – we know you’ll be a star of RHP in no time!

1. Become a HOTY

The HOTY Awards went off this year with sexy girls and guys sending in their raunchiest amateur pics and battling it to win the HOTY of the year title. If you like to show the world how hot you really are then why not take those sexy photos of yourself and send them through – you could even take home thousands of dollars of prizes just like 2008 HOTY winner MadMel.

When finally the night came where I was rid of housemate, younger sister and other distracting factors, I poured myself a glass of wine and plonked myself down in front of my trusty home PC. I wasn’t sure why I felt nervous, but I figured a bit of Dutch courage wouldn’t go astray when meeting strangers, online or off.

I logged onto RHP and clicked my way through to the chat rooms. I wondered if I should test the waters first and try the social chat room but figured I should take the plunge and leap into the adult web cam room. With one click, I became one of about 120 people in the room, all busily saying hello and sending smiley faces all over the place. Like a solo party guest with no one to talk to, I stood alone in the middle of the virtual room waiting for someone to say hi. Soon enough though, I started to get a few welcoming greetings.

“Hey beachnymph! How are u 2nite?” asked one of the guys.
“Where in Syd are u?” asked a girl whose profile I had often drooled over.
“Nice photos beachnymph!” said another chatter enthusiastically.

I was rather chuffed to have been included into the group so easily and wished it was more like that in the real world. I quickly typed out my replies and feeling more confident, started saying hello to people as they logged on. The conversations were light-hearted and a little naughty.

After a while, I started to notice that the ‘chatters’ were limited to a relatively small number of people in the overall list of people in the room. I had also noted that a lot of people had their webcams turned on. Given some of the comments thrown around in the chat room of a lewd nature, it didn’t take long for me to work out that a good majority of people were using their fingers for activities other than typing. It was time for me to see what was keeping people so engrossed.

I clicked on one web-camming girl and found a lovely looking brunette in her 20s sitting at her desk. To my disappointment, she was dressed but given the warm encouragement she was getting to be otherwise, I made a mental note to check her out again later in the evening. I clicked on a different girl and saw far more than I expected. A trim, attractive blonde in her 30s was revelling in the attention and giving her adoring audience a great show. She had some amazing sex toys in her treasure trove that I hadn’t seen before, even in my not-so sheltered life. I could have very easily stayed watching this lady but after watching her orgasm for the third time, I was ready to move on.

Having viewed a few other girls living it up for the camera (including the cute brunette who eventually got down to her underwear), I chose to see what some cheeky couples were up to on webcam. One couple was engaged in some very strenuous activity, much to the joy of the chat room. Another couple was showing how adept the Missus was at giving head. Since her man wasn’t exactly small, I felt the compulsion to applause at the end of her efforts, for which she was rewarded with his sticky ‘appreciation’.

I then decided to see what the guys were doing on cam although one could easily imagine what given the brilliant shows put on by the RHP girls and couples so far. I figured that some of the guys who were earlier on cam may well have ‘retired’ for the night but there were certainly some hotties still giving it their all on cam. One young buff boy was happily chatting and showing off his taut pecs and abs to the delight of the girls (and quite possibly some guys!). Another guy whose username suggested a member of sizeable proportion was certainly putting money where his mouth is. Drawing a number of wow’s and is-that-for-real’s, it seems we’ve found our own Dirk Diggler on RHP.

A little too awestruck, I chose to click onto another guy who lived in Brisbane and had not too explicit photos in his profile. Although he was a face-less stranger, I was excited to watch someone who seemed less concerned about being gawked at than others. He was just doing what he’d probably normally do alone in his room, regardless of the webcam being on or not. I felt a bit like a voyeur taking a peek at the bedroom window and I have to admit that I liked the sensation of doing something naughty.

I was sneakily watching for a few minutes when suddenly a small window popped up on my screen. I’d been sprung! Mr Brisbane had obviously noticed me watching him and used a private message to let me know that he knew. I sheepishly read his message:

“Would u like a private show?”

With that, I became one of the many silent chatters in the room, completely oblivious to the idle chit chat happening in the main room.

So what will I report back to my girlfriend about what goes on in the RHP chat room? What doesn’t go on?? My only problem is that I don’t have a web cam of my own. Thank goodness Harvey Norman is just around the corner!

See you in RHP chat!!!