When you are not in a relationship it’s easy to slack a bit and get lazy. Daggy PJ, unkempt hairstyle and next to no makeup. Quickly, you start not to feel sexy in your own skin as you used to. Adopt some routines to change the way you feel in your own skin.

Adopt the attitude that you are getting dressed as if your dream partner is going to pick you up for a date. Create habits that will make you feel great about yourself every day. Create a sexy new you who feels great in her own skin.  You’ll be surprised at how you’ll start attracting men just by feeling sexier in your own skin. Let’s get on the way to a sexier you:

 1. Out with the old in with the new

Wardrobe spring-clean. Chuck out those old pieces you’ve grown fond of,  their used-by date is long gone. They are cluttering your wardrobe and your ‘new you’. Do this right away. It’s time to erase the memories of your past passionate affairs. Out with the old, and in with the new.

2. Treat yourself to something new

Invest in one new piece of lingerie. Find a great sale at your favourite lingerie shop like Honey Birdette or go online and select one that fits within your budget. Pick out your favourite colour.

For now, you’ll be wearing this to sleep at night. Why not wear it for yourself first? After picture wearing it for someone special. Rule of thumb – always wear something sexy to bed or under your clothes. Investing in yourself and treating yourself to something new is a routine every girl, single or not, owe to adopt. You’ll feel sexy every day, boosting that inner feminity.

3. Create a new look

Toss away the old makeup and head over to your local department store. Walk around the cosmetics department and find a comfy stool to sit on. Get ready for a free makeover. When was the last time you invested in some new makeup?

While your makeup is being professionally applied, imagine yourself going on a date night. Picturing yourself in your mind’s eye is faltering and motivational.

Our suggestion is the very least replace your outdated lip-gloss with a new colour for the season. There’s something very sexy about luscious lips and it’s time! Your lips are made for kissing.

4.  Set the scene for romance

It’s time to set the scene of romance in the bedroom and re-introduce vibes of sensuality. First, put away photos of your family, friends and especially pictures of your ex in your bedroom. You’ll be creating a romantic atmosphere and will leave the boardroom behind (no tech allowed). Light some candles. Put on some relaxing music, and grab some massage oil.

Give yourself a well-deserved bubble bath, put on your new sexy signature piece of lingerie, then curl up with a romance novel and afterwards and fall asleep in dreamland. You’ll wake up every morning and start to feel sexier just from creating these rituals.

5. A new relaxed & sexy you

Now, go out in public and smile at everyone you meet.  You’ll appear happier, more confident, more approachable, and there is nothing sexier than a confident woman to attract a quality man. You’ll walk into a room and people will wonder, “Who’s that girl?” Bring back your flirty self and have fun with the attention you are getting.

Keep this rituals or habits up and you’re now on your way to creating a sexier new you.

In the end, it all comes down to loving yourself.

Check this video by sexy confidence on 7 things women do that turn guys on.

Wow! Double wow! Stefania Ferrario knocks sexy out of the park. This ultra-hot hottie is a straight-up social soldier, fighting the good fight while living the sexy life, and we love that she’s up for sharing it with us all.Ferrario is part of the new wave of Aussie modeling – real, exciting and definitely sexy. Not afraid to rock a tight frock or bust out the high-end lingerie, Ferrario’s stunning Aussie body is the right fit for any occasion.

The social media spotlight is shining bright upon her at the moment with her #droptheplus campaign banging the drums around the world, with the story featuring in influential publications like Vogue, Buzzfeed, Cosmopolitan, Elle and Huffington Post to name a few. This movement was brought about by her frustration with the modelling and fashion industry’s need to label normal size bodies as ‘plus sized’, and we whole-heartedly agree with her!

Our curvaceous queen had some stiff competition with Megan Marx and Tiffany Scanlon of The Bachelor fame hot on her heels, putting in one of the sexiest years on record, with I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here! hunk, Dr. Chris Brown rounding out the podium in extremely fine fashion.Also making the cut in this year’s illustrious list is a future Australian sports star, a bonafide YouTube comedy sensation and some Aussie pop royalty… but you can see the full top ten list here.

RedHotPie believes that ‘sexy’ is a holistic thing and body size has nothing to do with it. It is all about how you strut your stuff, and Stefania Ferrario is helping us all remember that. Damn if we don’t love her for it!

So let’s take a look at some of Stefania’s greatest Instagram posts… it’s an awesome collection!

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RHP Halloween party guide

Our brains reaction to a stressful situation will produce adrenaline and dopamine – the feel good feelings that enhance how a person feels.

So why not take advantage of all the events and parties all around the country for Halloween. Moods’ set, all you have to do is show up.

Check the list below and take your pick:

New South Wales

Day of the Dead: Halloween Party @ Our Secret Spot, Sat 29th Oct

This years theme is Día de los Muertos or…

Day of the Dead

The evening will be a fun filled night featuring:

– A skilled face painter doing calaveras (skull) makeup
– Erotic Strip Show
– Day of the Dead themed refreshments
– Prize Hitachi Wand Giveaway for best dressed couple

Sydney Beach Party @ Brumbies Couples Parties, Fri 28th Oct

Although it’s not a Halloween party, we thought it was worth a mention since it is happening on Halloween weekend.

Brumbies Summer Lovers Sydney Beach Party.

Find those Hawaiian Shirts and Board Shorts for the guys. And sexy beach wear for the girls.

We don’t pretend to be somebody were not we are just a happy group of sexy non judgemental

friends that enjoy having a great night.  As always we supply everything you need from mixers for

your drinks and we feed you as well. Perfect enviroment for Newbies and single girls.

If you would like to attend and spend quality time with the Brumbies in a relaxed night please
show your interest and we will get in contact.

Queensland

YOUNG SWINGERS NETWORK – Halloween Party@ Club Whispers, Fri 28th Oct

Club Whispers Young Swingers Network is holding a Sexy Halloween party, where scary and super sexy is the look of seduction on the night.

Located just minutes from central Surfers Paradise, Club Whispers GC is a club where you will always feel comfortable. Inspired by the world renowned Studio 54, the legendary New York night club and born out of a love for the naughtier things life has to offer, Club Whispers is the Gold Coast’s most elegant on premise lifestyle club.

Club Whispers GC, the Gold Coast’s only Council Approved genuine 5-STAR adult entertainment venue.

Club Whispers First Birthday – Massive Halloween Party @ Club Whispers, Sat 29th Oct

If you missed the 28th Halloween party here at Club Whispers, then you got another chance tonight.

Club Whispers is turning 1 in October and to celebrate this momentous occasion we are throwing a massive Halloween Birthday Party and we take great pleasure in inviting you to come and celebrate this milestone with us.

Singles and couples are invited.

It will be the party of the year.

Hot as Hell Halloween Party @ Mike’s Place, Sat 29th Oct

Witches, wolves, goblins, devils n demons……

At 8pm the hour begins for the night the under world comes out to party and play. At the place that partying and playing happens and welcomes all in our great life style.

Sexy people with sexy costumes. Fun for all @ the fun Place.

Swingers Halloween Party – Hot Crowd @ Chateau Vino, Sat 29th Oct

Halloween, Fright Night, is always a massive sexy party here at ChateauVino – The home of the best swingers parties on the Gold Coast. Dress to impress in your scariest, but sexiest costumes for a chance to win great prizes.

Chateau Vino – It’s where swingers meet, party and play.

We have 10 large play areas. Every room is big enough to host at least 4 couples or more if needed. We have condoms, lube, lots of towels and plenty of bathrooms and showers to cater for the largest crowds of horny swingers.

We have a dedicated light bondage BDSM room, with a commercial grade “sex swing”. We also have Queenslands first “orgy room” thats hosted some incredibly horny action since opening in 2015.

Island Of Sin Halloween, Sat 29th Oct

The weather is heating up, so what better way to spend Halloween weekend

Proudly Sponsored by RedHotPie. THE ISLAND OF SIN IS BACK BIGGER THAN EVER!

The renowned Island of Sin boat and island party is back. 4 boats, 2 amazing stages,
20 international & local DJ’s makes up the biggest and best Halloween party of the year!
With state of the art production and sound, the amazing talent of Australia’s best DJ’s, Island

theming and much more, you cannot afford to miss Island of Sin’s Halloween special on October 29th.
With a special after party being held at Platinum nightclub, free entry with wristbands.

Victoria

GENDER BENDER Cup Eve Halloween Fascinator Theme Party

@ Melbourne Swingers, Thurs 27th Oct

PM – Till Late at Bay City Sauna. Bonus: Prizes for the best hat, fascinator, or other headwear.

For Everyone. $25 Entry, $15 Entry for Cross dressers. $5 Basic Spirits, Wine Champagne & Beer.

Singles and couples are invited.

Melbourne Fetish Ball Zombie Prom Ball @Swingers Melbourne, Mon 31 Oct

It’s a creepy time of year once again. Lets all join in and turn into the zombie fleet and bring horror to the universe as one.

Come along and enjoy the entertainment from Fetish House and the amazing Donny doing the zombie warp and enjoy the creepy music from the DJ Dave.

Singles and couples come along.

Welcome to Melbourne Fetish Ball

Western Australia

HALLOWEEN FRIGHT NIGHT, @ Pleasure Lounge, Sat 29th Oct

Get ready for the Freakiest party of the Year – HALLOWEEN FRIGHT NIGHT
Prepare for a scary night of raunchy sexy fun.
What to wear – anything scary, freaky or funny.

Día de los Muertos. ¡es hora de fiesta!@ Longest Dream Parties, Sat 29th Oct

Perth! Let’s have a party!!

Let’s pretend life is all about Spanish eyes and cowboy boots under the bed.

If only for one nights diversion.

A Dusk till Dawn themed house party.

I suggest we make Halloween the neighbors problem, while we kick on in Los Caronas, Voodoo style!

Singles and couples are invited.

You can find further details and ask questions on the forum post . The full menu will also be listed

Happy Halloween everyone

“The stereotypes in this ad campaign are common in society, easily identifiable and do not denigrate women,” the council’s members said on Thursday.

Brazil’s Ministry for Women submitted a request in September to suspend the ad, saying it reinforces the stereotype of women as sex objects.

In the commercial for the Brazilian intimates brand Hope, Brazilian-born Bundchen is clad in knickers, a bra and high heels, in an effort to distract her husband when she delivers bad news – about damaging the car, exceeding her credit limit and her mother coming to live with them.

Some men had called for the ad to be put down because it took them for “idiots”.

The TV ads send a message “that sensuality can melt any man” and “encourages Brazilian women to use their charms … to minimise the reactions of their husbands”, the Ministry for Women had said.

The ministry managed to ban a beer ad in 2010 featuring US model Paris Hilton in suggestive poses.

Check out the ad below and let us know what you think.

Source: ninemsn.com.au

Cirque Du Soleil has been mesmerising audiences young and old all around the world and as a long time fan, I was keen to check out one of their seven permanent shows in Las Vegas. I knew I wasn’t likely to be disappointed by any of them but given one should walk on the wicked side while in Vegas, I chose Zumanity, Cirque Du Soleil’s only adult-oriented show (showing at New York – New York Hotel & Casino).

Zumanity, described as “the Sensual Side of Cirque du Soleil,” combines the usual amazing range of acrobatics with seduction, and a good pinch of adults-only fun. It opened in 2003 but as any fan of Cirque Du Soleil would attest, their shows are timeless and the dynamic energy of the troupe keeps them fresh and exciting. Zumanity is certainly no exception and especially given its naughty theme, it’s probably never going to date unlike some Andrew Lloyd Webber musicals.

As you take your seat, you become familiar with the Cirque Du Soleil stage layout; a huge performance area with seats all around, affording everyone a very good view of the action. There are comedic actors keeping the earlybird audience amused with their antics as per other Cirque shows, but instead of clowns you get Dick and Izzy, the in-show sex therapists. This over-the-top duo are quite liberal with brandishing sex toys, much to the embarrassment of some audience members who probably didn’t think Cirque Du Soleil could get so bawdy.

Once the actual show begins, you are introduced to hostess Edie, Mistress of Seduction who is a tour-de-force drag show all on her own. She promises a night of open-minded and sensual entertainment and I can attest that you are not disappointed. Stunning African dancing gets your pulses racing before leading you into the first acrobatic act; two very flexible nude ladies in a huge glass bowl of water. It was a very visually captivating performance.

I’d rather not be a spoiler and give a blow-by-blow account of the entire show but you can certainly expect a lot of mid-air acrobatics, silk rope work, and a very healthy amount of nudity. The performers aren’t shy about stripping down but given how amazing their bodies are they certainly don’t need to be. Ladies will be happy to know that there is an act involving the resident beefcake to get them hot and bothered.

Towards the end of the show there is an act called ‘Gentle Orgy’ where all the performers of Zumanity come out to simulate a bit of group loving on a rotating platform, which is an absolutely gorgeous feast for the eyes and senses. You start feeling like a bit of a voyeur but before you get too fixated, Mistress Edie breaks the trance with some audience participation fun.

Zumanity is best described as part cabaret and part burlesque with a whole lot of sexy giggles in between. It’s also an exploration of human sexuality/sensuality in its many forms and you’re left with a feeling of being uninhibited. Zumanity is definitely a hot show to enjoy with your partner in deviousness so if you find yourself in Vegas one day, do check it out.

Host Flora Cheung will start each 30-minute show shopping for fresh ingredients in the city’s famous wet markets, undressing once she is back in the privacy of her studio kitchen, the South China Morning Post reported.

Cheung, who admits she has never worked in a restaurant kitchen, said she hopes the risque show will draw more men into the kitchen. The first episode is set to air later this month.

“I have always liked cooking and I thought I should share (the) enjoyment with more people,” the 26-year-old told the Post.

“Most men don’t like to cook, but I want to get them interested … From shopping to cooking, it’s the whole shebang,” Cheung added.

The host promised that her tailor-made, transparent apron won’t leave much to the imagination.

“It covers pretty much everything but hides nothing,” she was quoted as saying.

Producer Jesse Au told the paper that the show may spawn similar offerings with nude hosts cooking up a range of Asian cuisines: “This could be an endless series if it proves popular.”

Source: ninemsn.com.au

The six officers from the special emergency response team, were travelling back from a buck’s party in suburban Brisbane in September last year when they stopped at an intersection about 4.15am (AEST).

Five of them were seen running naked around their police mini bus at the intersection of Redland Bay and Moreton Bay roads at Capalaba.

The sixth officer was the driver.

A Queensland police statement on Wednesday said the six officers had received internal sanctions and had 14 days to appeal.

Deputy Commissioner Ian Stewart delivered his decision late on Tuesday to legal representatives of the officers.

“These officers will now return to operational duties,” the statement said.

“A decision on whether they are suitable to return to the special emergency response team is expected in the coming weeks.”

The statement said the disciplinary decision had been delayed until all related court matters had been finalised.

Four of the officers were each fined $300 for the stunt in the Cleveland Magistrates Court in March, after pleading guilty.

The deputy commissioner will hold a press conference on the matter at midday on Wednesday.

Source: ninemsn.com.au

Koh Phangan, Thailand: If you’re after a secluded beach for a little romp in the ocean or you just fancy a quick holiday fling, then this is the destination for you. The exotic South East Asian island not only has 30 beaches but because there is so much space for tourists to explore, finding a little nook of sand with no one around is as easy as whipping of a string bikini. And when the sun goes down there’s even more entertainment to get your heart racing. Every month the locals hold a six day full moon party attracting thousands of young and uninhibited party goers looking for a good time – which you can no doubt offer them. If you’re looking at heading over to Thailand, be sure to check out RHP’s Travel Profile to see if some like-minded Aussies may be sharing a plane trip with you.

Las Vegas, United States: America’s adult Disney Land is a hot bed of raunchiness just waiting to be taken advantage off – it isn’t known as Sin City for nothing. Indulge your fantasies, catch a strip show or visit a swingers club; whatever your itch, Las Vegas will know how to well and truly scratch it. And the entertainment doesn’t just happen outside of your hotel room. If you book a Playpen on The Palms’ 28th floor, you’ll be able to put your best dance moves to good use; the room is set up like a pole dancing club complete with disco lights, sound system and mirrored ceiling… right next to the king sized bed of course.

Paris, France: While many assume that this city is more romantic than naughty, don’t be fooled – Paris definitely has a naughty little mistress in her, you just need to know where to look. Montmartre has had a long history as Paris’s epicenter for the more risqué. There are plenty of dirty diversions to excite tourists such as sex shops, peep shows, strip clubs and cabarets including the world famous Moulin Rouge. You can even take an organised tour through the notorious Pigalle Place (Pigs Place) where you’ll find the Musee d’Erotisme (Erotic Museum), the perfect place to find inspiration for your adult only x-rated adventure. For those who would like to swing in style, you can’t go past Les Chandelles: an uber exclusive couples club that is just pure class.

Fraser Island, Australia: One of Queensland’s holiday hot spots, Fraser Island was recently listed as the world’s fifth sexiest island by a US business magazine. Why? The isolation of an island can inspire one to lose their inhibitions, and their clothes. Plus there are plenty of quiet spots on the island with the sand dunes providing plenty of space and privacy for all sorts of naughty little adventures.

Bali, Indonesia:This gorgeous little island which is less than 4 or 5 hours away from most Australian capital cities has got to be the answer for those couples strapped for both time and cash. Even a little weekender in Bali won’t set you back a fortune but you’ll feel like kings and queens. Bali has some of the most stylish bars in the world and if the cocktails aren’t enough to get your juices flowing, try enjoying them on the many day beds that dot the beachfront of most of these bars. Bali (while Hindu but governed by Muslim Indonesia) isn’t home to any openly advertised swingers clubs but with heaps of sexy expats living there along with many international visitors, getting your own naughty party happening at a private villa isn’t at all out of the question. Search our Travel Profiles to see if any fellow RHPers are heading over at the same time as you.

Ibiza, Spain: The Spaniards have a passion for living and no more so can this passion be found than on the party island of Ibiza. Hedonistic ambitions will be fulfilled with the eclectic mix of multinational sun seekers all looking for a good time. The clubs are famous for entertaining like no other while being filled with some of the world’s most beautiful people. Check out the foam parties at Amnesia where your fantasy of having sex in a nightclub can be subtly achieved or just chill out by the beach to perve on the thousands of bronzed beach gods and goddesses who flock to take advantage of perfect sun bathing weather.

Brighton, England: I know. Brighton isn’t exactly known the world over for its sexiness but before you write off this city too soon, take a look at what’s on offer in terms of accommodation, particularly the Hotel Pelirocco. Voted as “The World’s Best Hotel for a Dirty Weekend”, this saucy little house of love cannot be matched on the sexy meter. The best room to book is affectionately called Betty’s Boudoir for it’s homage to 1950s bondage starlet Betty Page. Lined with images of Betty’s finest moments, there’s everything you need including a pair of handcuffs attached to the leopard print bed. If you’re looking for more, you can always order a battery operated device from the room service list, and just to prove how hospitable they actually are, batteries are also included – now that’s service!

One US newspaper – The Chicago Daily Herald – reported that the opening match between the Chicago Bliss and the visiting Miami Caliente lived up to the hype, “delivering real professional football, with some impressive precision passing and genuine hard-hitting action”.

Before the game, lingerie league founder Mitchell Mortarza stressed the NFL credentials of the coaches, adding, “These girls have been in training for a year and a half. The level of football will be through the roof tonight.”

But the league, which was started because of the success of the lingerie game at halftime in the Super Bowl, has some detractors – mostly due to the scanty nature of the uniforms.

The women who gathered at midfield for the inaugural coin toss were wearing revealing bikini outfits, with their numbers stitched to their posteriors.

In case anyone is interested, the innaugrual game was won by the Bliss 29-19.

Source: dailytelegraph.com.au