The events, which are completely organic, are organised and run by members, and while they have the full backing of the Pie, it really is an amazing grass roots movement. We caught up with RHP member and Perth Meet & Greets organiser, Kokoflamingo to get the scoop ahead of some awesome events planned for this weekend in the West!

(RHP) – Tell us how the whole Meet and Greet events came about?

(Kokoflamingo) – Myself and a couple of the girls were talking in the chat room and decided it would be nice to meet up for a few drinks. And it was, as a result we have all became good friends.   Talking about it afterwards, some of the guys were asking where their invites were……..so we thought, you know, there are plenty of private parties but not many social events.  So we started up the Perthsocialites group.

Who’s behind the events?

The Perthsocialites was started by myself, Kokoflamingo, and Precious142.  The_3somes, Way2Go70 and MissBrunette have come on board for the Meet and Greet weekend and have been very instrumental in the organisation of the events.  We honestly didn’t realise how big this thing would become?

And what are the events like, I’m sure our members are really curious.

So far we have had a variety of events, e.g. lunches, dinners, a very successful ladies day ( complete with topless drinks waiter ) a lawn bowls day where the kids came along and we all had a great time, a bi girls drinks arvo, and an over 50s meet and greet.  In the pipeline we have a wine tasting afternoon, a motorcycle ride and a lunch meet and greet in Bunbury for the people down south who can’t always make it up to Perth.

People are flying around the country to these events, is that right?

We are really excited that people are flying in from Sydney, Melbourne and Brisbane.  It will be great to meet some of the people we have talked to in the chat room.  Some of them are coming over for a week or a long weekend and making a holiday of it.  We know they will love Perth and the great Perth RHPers, and just hope they all enjoy the events and have an amazing time.  We certainly didn’t expect that people would make the effort to come all the way to Perth for this weekend…..it’s wonderful!

How did you become a member of RedHotPie?

I was on other sites but not looking for a serious relationship, and found that the guys on there were.  Someone mentioned the fact that RHP was probably a better option, as it was more about casual dating.  And it’s been perfect for me.

What does RedHotPie offer yourself and the other Meet and Greeters?

Redhotpie offers us the chance to meet up with like-minded people.  The meet and greets are a great way for people who don’t want to take part in the swinging scene to get out and actually meet men and women who they can connect with in a relaxed environment.  At the meets we are able to meet people like ourselves ( who are very normal people ) without anyone being judgemental.  We have a big RHP social circle, it’s been great, lots of strong friendships and relationships have been forged.

Can you describe the events you’ve got planned for this weekend.

The weekend’s events start off with a Welcome to Perth lunch.  We are expecting around thirty people.  We have used the venue a few times, it’s a really nice meeting place.  It’s for our Interstate visitors and also for people who can’t make the other events.

On the Friday we are having the Kings Park Sundowner.  We can’t wait for the visiting RHPers to see the sunset from beautiful Kings Park.  Finger food will be provided.   Children are very welcome to come along.

Saturday night is the big Meet and Greet night.  The amount of registrations has been staggering.  We are expecting 150 to attend.  Guests will receive a welcome drink, there will be a buffet, and a door raffle with lots of nice and naughty prizes!  It’s so exciting to see the interest, because we weren’t sure how it would go down.  I think it shows that people still like a social night out.  There are no expectations, but obviously at the end of the night people can do whatever they want, whether it be a visit to the Pleasure Lounge, a private party, or just home to bed after a big night out! We just want everyone to enjoy themselves.

How can people attend the events?

We post our events on the Events pages.  People can then register for what they think might suit them.  Some are free, but if we are hiring a venue and providing food, then we charge a small fee and it’s first paid, best dressed so to speak.  We encourage people to message us with ideas for future events.  Everything’s considered!

If you’re keen on checking out some of these awesome get-togethers, or similar events in the future, keep your eye on the RedHotPie events section.

RHP – How did you get into the scene?

Lawrence – I got into the swinging scene a few years back with a former partner. The thought of introducing other people into our bedroom play had been with us for many years. So, I guess we had a predisposition to the lifestyle already. One particular day we were both feeling particularly horny and sexy so I proposed the idea of getting an erotic massage together. My partner jumped at the idea. We looked up some websites, found an establishment that welcomed couples and off we went. It was such an erotic experience. We spoke about it for weeks. Then one day while I was at work, I got an email from her with all these links to swinger dating sites and Red Hot Pie was one of them. We ummed and arrrd for a day or two deciding on our rules and on the day before News Years Eve we created a profile. By the 31st of December, we had messages from quite a few hot and sexy couples. We were surprised a bit actually. On New Years Day we set up a meet and off we went. We dove straight in and had a blast. This was truly a game changer. Now with my current partner, we both have played in the lifestyle previously to being in a relationship with each other. It was an easy transition for us to open our relationship to swinging. My partner now helps me run the club week to week.

How did you go from someone interested in the lifestyle, to opening your own venue?

My level of interest in the lifestyle is more than simple interest. It was becoming a very big part of my life. It became more than just getting to have sex with people outside of my relationship. I wanted to absorb all I could. I bought and read books about the lifestyle. I listened to podcasts that gave great perspective about swinging from all over the world in an up to date fashion. I wanted to know everyone’s thoughts on the subject. I wanted to educate people and couples. I truly feel that the current paradigm of a monogamous relationship is inherently flawed and for most people unrealistic, whether they like to admit it or not. This lifestyle was truly scratching the itches I had on every level. My partner and I hosted house parties for a small group of couples that we all knew and got along with, plus we had blast organising them. I’ve had ambition of getting into business for myself, so I thought what better way to start than to work on something that I am passionate about. We had been to venues in Australia and overseas. We like some whilst others left much more to be desired. In Sydney especially I didn’t feel there was somewhere nice to go. Places may have served their function but the niceties were missing. This is what pushed me over the edge work hard toward creating my own club. The ambition for the club is to not just to be a place for couples to come live out their fantasies and just have sex, but also provide education about the lifestyle as well as other things, an erotic massage workshop for example.

When did Our Secret Spot open?

Our Secret Spot opened 1st March 2014, Mardi Gras night. It was a huge opening and we were caught off guard a bit with how to manage that many people. Goes to show how hungry Sydney siders were for a new club. We’ve been making adjustments based on feedback and going from strength to strength.

If you had to surmise the primary goal of the business, what would it be?

The primary goal of the business is to provide couples fantastic and memorable experiences in a venue that is erotic, safe and clean.

The club has quickly gained an excellent reputation, what makes it the best venue in Sydney?

Thank you for saying so. We are the best venue in Sydney for a number of reasons. One of the biggest reasons, I think, comes from our attention to detail. We spend a lot of time and money into creating something other than run of the mill. We make sure the club looks amazing for every guest and is super clean. This is most reflected in the feedback we get most from our guests, especially the couples that visit us for the first time. Another reason is we go to great lengths to make sure the venues isn’t sleazy and off putting to first-timers or couples new to the club environment. First impressions count and we are acutely aware of this. Additionally, we take great pride in the excellent customer service we provide. All the staff are friendly, welcoming and always available to answer any questions our guests have. We like to give first timers a tour of the venue and explain basic house rules. It’s all these little things and more that go toward creating the best swingers club in Sydney.

Who is the club catering to?

Our Secret Spot caters predominantly to couples looking for an alternative venue to come and party. These couples can be newbies to the whole lifestyle, seasoned pros, or perhaps they simply just enjoy coming along to socialise in an open-minded environment. There is absolutely no pressure to do anything you do not want to and we encourage couples that attend to be open and clear in their communication with us and others. Whether you want to play, want to watch, be watched, or have a sexy flirt with others in a safe environment it’s completely up to you. We love seeing couples who are well presented and are eager for a great night out. If you’re nervous, tell us. We can chat with you and can facilitate introductions if you’re unsure and you will quickly see that all our guest are super friendly and just as keen as you to enjoy themselves.

Do you have a lot of newcomers to the scene?

Yes, quite a few newcomers to the scene come to Our Secret Spot. We hold a monthly newbie Fridays party which we encourage all newcomers to come along and experience the club. Of course, newcomers are welcome any other night too. We put a lot of effort into getting our name out there and as such, we generate a lot of interest with couples who may have talked about it before but never made the plunge. Our advertising and visual appeal plays a big factor in attracting newcomers because it openly shows what they can expect when coming to Our Secret Spot.

Is Our Secret Spot a good place for people who have met on RedHotPie and to take things to the next level?

Our Secret Spot is a fantastic way for couples and singles who originally met on RedHotPie to take things to the next level. Not everyone can host their own rendezvous at their home. Whilst meeting at regular bar or club can be good to get to know a couple, it can be frustrating when you have nowhere to take the rest of the party? Hiring a hotel room can become quite expensive and then comes the issue of working out who pays, and who’s credit card gets used to book the room etc. etc. Not to mention what you do at that awkward moment if you find you aren’t a match for each other and need to go your separate ways. Coming to Our Secret Spot take all this angst out of the equation. It’s a venue that is set up for meeting new people and taking things to the next level IF you feel so inclined. It’s a neutral playing ground for both parties and offers comfort and security. The cost of entry to club is far cheaper than booking a hotel and all you could possibly need is at the club. Plus, if you find out you aren’t a match with the people you came to meet, there are plenty of other lovely couples to mingle with, giving you more options and thus reducing the chance of spoiling a night out that you’re been looking forward to.

A lot of private party organisers are using Our Secret Spot as their after-party venue, why is that?

We believe that we need to work with others in order to make this life style bigger and better. Spreading the word is key for us. Private Party organisers like using Our Secret Spot to host their parties and after-parties because we offer an all-inclusive service. An organiser can approach us, pitch their theme and we will work with them to make their party idea a reality. It lightens their workload because the venue is setup for these parties. Depending on the numbers the are bringing we can even close the club to exclusively host their party. By doing this they can hold a much bigger party than they would be able to at their own home or hotel. So all you have to do is turn up, your guests will be looked after by our staff and you’re free to enjoy your own party. Once it’s over simply say goodbye to your guest and we’ll look after everything else. Cleaning now does not become a nightmare you have to deal with after all the fun.

Is your club female friendly?

Our Secret Spot is absolutely female friendly. When creating the club and deciding on décor and alike, every decision first asked was would a women like this? If the answer was no then it wouldn’t be used. We have female staff on hand to speak with and to be of comfort to women who may be nervous about the whole thing. We make sure everything is perfect so the women can relax which in turns helps with sexy vibe!

If a couple are looking for a third, be it guy or girl, can they find that at Our Secret Spot?

Looking for a third to join in a couple’s play happens so easily at Our Secret Spot. Single women often frequent the club and as we are gaining a fantastic reputation more and more are coming each week. If a couple were after an extra gent to join them, the best night would be a Sunday evening. This is the only time we allow unaccompanied men to come to the club, provided they’ve been to the club before. Alternatively, a couple can bring along an extra gent with them. These rules are in place so that we, as the staff, can be confident that each and every single guy at least understands the dynamic of a swingers club and the acceptable behaviours that go along with that.

What’s the hottest scene you’ve witnessed at the club?

I have witnessed many hot scenes at the club. One of the most recent hot scenes I’ve witnessed at the club was our shackle room was filled with 4 couples. Two couples were on the bed and both were doing doggy style with both women still having their stilettos on (personal favourite of mine). Another couple was on the sofa while the guy was receiving a blowjob. The last couple was simple watching all the action while the guy was giving hand relief to the women. It was a remarkable sight. The pure freedom of sexuality and openness of that scene is what makes running the club worth it.

What’s the future hold for Our Secret Spot?

The future for Our Secret Spot is bright. We love our club but we know there is always room for improvement. We want couples know this is only phase one of the club. We have plans to expand the club itself and make it even bigger with huge open spaces for all the hot couples that come every week. Our goals is the have a multi-storied venue that spreads across a couple of property blocks where we can house a complete and un-rivaled venue that will be more than just a swingers club, it will be an emporium of music, dancing, flirting and sexuality! With the continuous support of the couples that come this will quickly become a reality. We want to keep it fun and fresh for newcomers and regulars alike.

For more information on Our Secret Spot, visit their website at www.oursecretspot.com.au/

Have you visited Our Secret Spot? Would you be keen to? Tell us all about it in the comments section below!

My first party experience was quite a while ago but its memory is fresh as though it just happened last weekend. I remember feeling excited and terrified all at once and spending the night paralyzed on a couch that was against the wall, watching and absorbing my surroundings.

Embarrassing as it may seem the reason for my inability to move away from that wretched couch was that my mind was blown away with what it saw and my body was unable to move as there were no precedents to guide me through what I should do.

It was the best and the worse night, best because it was the beginning of my journey of my sexual discovery, and the worse because I wish I’d use that night to enjoy myself. The reason behind writing this little piece is to save you this same fate and give you a head start.

My husband and I, being sexually adventurous had discussed venturing into the world of ‘swingers’ and swingers parties but had no idea how to approach it and no knowledge of the rules to survive any adult party. To make matters worse there was nothing to fall back on; no articles and no one we knew who we could freely ask questions. Being brave, we walked in and if things got weird we decided we’d just walk back out, hopefully still in one piece – naïve.

So often we try to play it down but it is a big deal taking this step into an open relationship and go to an adult party, walking away from the fear and guilt that society instills in us.

To dispel any fears, delusions or even panic or paralysis (chuckle), I thought it might be an idea to write some tips and rules you absolutely need in order to survive an adult party and you can thank me later.

Rule#1 Look the best you can (hot)

Party goers don’t have to be Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie (we wouldn’t complain if they were) but they must show that they look after themselves, good physic, good hygiene; the short of that, scrub up well. Goers generally are couples, singles ladies and a few selected single men who are presentable and have great people skills. Guests are willing participants who enjoy sex and aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality.

Rule#2 Expect things will get steamy

When you first step into the party venue it’ll feel like any other swanky cocktail party. Pretty, sexy women and suave men sipping champagne, vodka or whiskey on the rocks, chatting away in groups, while a reel of porn plays on the flat screen TV on the back wall. That’s when you start to feel the underlining intent.

Rule#3 Let your inhibitions go, because people are about to get down and dirty

Some parties are themed but at the bare minimum sexy or very sexy is the general requirement. If you are a first timer you might quiver in fear and in excitement and if you have been there often you’re excitement heightens as signs of opening of the naughty games start to unveil. There are some ‘playrooms’ for those who got winded up early and sex begins. Let go, don’t think about it, and enjoy the party for what it is: a gathering of likeminded people who share the same interests.

Rule#4 You have to be naked in the playroom

Whist the rule is naked if in the playroom, you’ll find that not everybody’s ‘pleasure’ revolves around being in the playroom. There are diverse sexual fantasies at play in these parties. Standing, peeking in are the obvious voyeurs who wait all week for this type of opportunity to get their juices going.

As a warm up when all parties are happy, women playfully kiss each other and the men get warmed up with the show right in front of their eyes. Others have an appetite for the single men – the more the better. Some women enjoy a lot of attention and what better than RedHotPie Parties!
Whether it’s your first time or your one-hundredth time, it’s important to stay grounded and in touch with yourself as thing happen at the parties, and trust your instincts.

Rule#5 Know your boundaries

Keep in mind that your boundaries are important and if you are not ready to try something new just say no this time or until the time you are ready. It’s also worth remembering that boundaries change and it is ok to re-evaluate them from time to time.

Boundaries should be discussed among couples but you’ll quickly learn that people feel excited and more alive when they stretch their boundaries and grow from the experience. It doesn’t have to be a big leap even small ones can create these feelings. This is the fundamental of these parties, an opportunity to grow sexually alone or with a partner. Parties are a chance for self-exploration

Rule#6 Women run the show

Every night is ladies nights, sorry guys. Women call all the shots. Participants can have sex with their partners, swap, or hunker down a bag of popcorn and enjoy the show. Anything goes, as long as everybody involved is in agreement.

Rule#7 It’s Hot!!

It’s definitely hot. Just let go and don’t think about it, enjoy the party for what it is –SEX PARTY – a gathering of like-minded people who share the same interests – sex, lots of sex and variety sex.

Rule#8 Get Involved

While you could choose to just watch, it’s way more fun when you get involved.

Rule #9 Don’t Hesitate

There is so much fun to be had. Even if you decide to stick to one-on-one encounter once you turn around you’ll have an amazing show of naked bodies busy with all kinds of position and sex – who needs porn!!

Rule# 10 Move on & out

Once you get that point where you’ve seen all the sex you can see for one night. The magic of the evening is starting to wear off then is time to take a break, have a drink or just pack up and leave.

Overall parties are and should be a sex-positive place where likeminded people explore together and where there is someone out there to suit your particular needs and tastes to your sexual discovery. These parties provide the platform for people to try things, to intentionally test and bend their personal boundaries, slowly or not, as long as no one is getting hurt and everyone is taking the relevant precautions. Then we’ll just let everyone get on with getting it on.

Feel like adding your own tips; feel free to enrich our experience of the parties and RHP. If there are any funny stories of your first-time party please share….

Halloween has been around forever, literally!

HALLOWEEN has its roots in a pagan festival of the dead (Samhain).
Celebrations were called for in order to pay respect and also ward off vengeful souls. A mass festivity was put in place that became a lot of fun, bonfires were lit and scary, spooky costumes were worn to ward off roaming ghosts.

In the 18th century, Pope Gregory III, claimed November 1 as a time to honour all saints and martyrs; the holiday, All Saints’ Day, and in-cooperated some of the traditions of Samhain. The evening before known as All Hallow’Eve was later abbreviated to HALLOWEEN, meaning Holy.

Over time, Halloween evolved into what we know today. Much in the same manner as Pope Gregory III, Americans, as a consumer society, converted this ancient holiday into something profitable.

It’s true to say that the manner in which we celebrate Halloween today was borrowed from American TV shows, movies and pop-culture, but in essence this holiday has been celebrated worldwide for centuries.

The religious and spiritual roots of the holiday are preserved, in some form, in various countries around the world.

In Mexico and Spain, Halloween is known as ‘Los Dias de los Muertos’ (the day of the dead) a day they honour their loved departed by remembering them through a recount of their past lives.

In Sweden,” Alla Helgons dag” is celebrated between October 31 and November 6 with choirs and the lighting of candles at the graves of loved ones.

The Buddhists light up large paper boats, named ‘boats of law’, and symbolically free the souls who died by accident or were never buried to help them ascend to heaven by lightening fires.

More people in more countries than ever before celebrate Halloween today in the same manner as the Americans. Why is it so popular? There’s a simple reason: it is fun! Halloween has become a global tradition. Just like Christmas, which has become more about Santa Claus and presents over hundred of years of mixing and matching beliefs and traditions, Halloween has become a mash of traditions put all in one. How we choose to celebrate any holiday is really up to us; we could keep true to its origins or follow someone else’s interpretation or better yet get our own going!

Celebrate Halloween in your bedroom:

This year let’s throw all biases out of the window and have fun. Why not give it a go and celebrate it our own way? Australians are known around the world to be the life of the party. In the good Aussie spirit, let’s take this opportunity and celebrate.

It would be a shame anyway to pass on an occasion built around pranks, imagination and dress-ups. It could be a lot of fun.

There are many other ways to celebrate Halloween beyond the trick-or-treating.
One option is to host parties or have a private party in your own bedroom.

If you’ve always wanted to give role-playing a try, Halloween just might be the perfect day. Use your imagination on Halloween and do some role play with a bit of a twist catered for the night, role plays that haven’t been done to death.

It is commonly said that one can hide behind a mask and be less inhibited. Do we need say more? Some examples below:

Ho White and the 7 Dwarfs – a good theme for an orgy. Get all those lustful men to dress up and be in character.

Princess Leah and Luke Skywalker– This is a good one for a first time encounter, it breaks the ice and you’ll get things rolling faster.

Dracula and his brides – (ménage a trois) who would give this one a pass! This is a perfect time to draw out those shy mischievous people who just need an excuse to get naughty.

Sleeping Beauty and her charming mysterious prince. Before he wins his price prince charming has to fight off the evil witches. Fight the witches by giving in to them or tricking them.

Mistress Morticia and Gomez Adam – if you read 50 Shades of Grey put your new findings to some good use. Your imagination is the limit….

Werewolf and its victim – This one could get interesting for the more experienced couple, where the male has an unbelievable sexual prowess. Expect to stay up all night for the thundering under the sheets.

Sexy Frankenstein & Mad doctor – Here the doctor could simply dress his Frankenstein to his desire.

‘Ready and waiting’ Red Ridding Hood & Bad Wolf – Play the apparently innocent lady who just wishes to be taken by the bad wolf if only for one night.

Want to go all out? Then why not organize a sexy Halloween/ masquerade party. It could turn out to be the most successful Goth/kinky/ BD party of the year. One can dream …

Halloween could grow on you. Halloween could become an evening of camaraderie and a compilation of exotic endeavours, a reminder that the year is slowly coming to a very sweet end. Why not celebrate it.

Halloween is the perfect reason to be naughty. So girls decide on your sultty Halloween costumes and boys get into character…
Let the fun begin!!! Happy Halloween

Here are a list of a few events happening around the country:

Halloween parties Perth

Halloween parties Sydney

Halloween parties Cairns

Here is a clip of one of the legendary Halloween parties at the Playboy mansion:

Have you used Halloween or any Holiday to enhance your sexual journey? How?

As always we’ve been on the ground and on the grapevine getting some feedback from the sexiest parties around the country and we look forward to the must-attend function coming up over the next few weeks…

So get your diary out and your red marker ready… here the redhot party news…

Reviews

Purr – 4 Play – The Best of (Vic)

The dynasty of Purr Parties was extended further last month as record numbers attended the birthday celebrations of Melbourne’s hottest and sexiest dance party.
Guests were pumped up to sexy house music courtesy of the master himself, DJ Jorj, along with a variety of breathtaking performances which have always been a signature of Purr’s tradition.
The unique addition of the handcrafted torso ice sculptures, used to down your RedHotPie shooters was a real crowd favorite.
Purr is the most sought after guest list in Victoria and exclusive to RedHotPie’s Parties & events

Vic Kat Klub – Cocktail Party & Red Room after party (Vic)

Seduction, style and sophistication are the first words that come to mind when describing the vibe at the recent Kat Klub Cocktail Party. In a very intimate environment, the guests sipped champagne and mingled in what was the lead up to a very memorable night.
Later in the evening guests were transported by a Rolls Royce to the waiting arms of the Red Room for an after party which provided passion and eroticism like never before. These parties always cater to the sexiest of couples and numbers are always limited so stay tuned to the RedHotPie Parties & Events Guide for the next Kat Klub Event.

Prima Nocta – Norti & Nautical (NSW)

WOW! Is the word being passed around the Sydney party scene this week as Prima Nocta continued their reign as the most exclusive and sought after guest list in Sydney.
To a sold out crowd of almost 300 the live band, Real Sessions, rocked the house before the beautiful DJ Nicky G kept the crowd pumping well into the early morning hours. There was wall to wall Seaman with sailors, pirates, tridents and mermaids being just some of the creative costumes on display.
Official party photos will be made available in the coming weeks on the Prima Nocta website.

Couples International… Gangbang the stylish way! (Qld)

Couples International has their second successful gangbang party last month. There were 530 profiles registered on redhotpie to attend the gangbang it was amazing.
The single guys were selected for the evening after having submitted profiles with face pictures on the register. Then there was the tedious task of sorting through all the guys. The single guys had to wear a certain coloured t-shirt, (as they did in our first gangbang) this turned out to be a great hit, you see it is easy for all the couples and the single ladies to recognize a single guy and there is no need to ask and make sure they are not part of a couple etc. and just go for it.. Couples International introduces all our wonderful single guys and then it is time for the play. Within 10 minutes there was not a white t-shirt to be seen.
The club was packed and all seemed to be enjoying themselves.
We had one complaint on the night and that was “there wasn’t enough guys to go around” , so guess what, we are allowing more in this time.
We allow closed doors at our gang bangs, so the problem of performance anxiety really doesn’t happen as some guys just don’t want to perform in the open. After all it is about the ladies and they love it to all work fine. hint hint.
Our next gangbang will be posted very shortly so keep your eyes on the parties and events section on redhotpie.

Previews

QLD

Gang Bang The Stylish Way at CI
Friday, June 27, 2008 9:00 PM

Gangbang the Stylish way at Couples International.
We allow closed doors on our premise.
All our single guys are selected after registering on redhotpie with a face pic.
Our age of patrons and players are in the Generation X lifestyle.
All couples and Single Ladies are welcome to book to attend.
Bookings are essential for productivity on the night.
We promise to have more guys there this time so all you guys don’t have to work so hard.
Last 2 gangbangs our style have been huge success with venue packed to the rafters.

NSW

PURE SHOWGIRLS ~ Fetish or Fantasy
Saturday, June 07, 2008 9:00 PM

Come celebrate the June long weekend in Sydney at 2008’s sexiest Show Girl party.
In the tradition of PURE events our Fetish & Fantasy theme remains dominant, but with a sexy twist – Show Girl
Bring out Sydney’s Glam & Glitz with:
~ Sexy Las Vegas Show Girl
~ Pole Dancer Show Girl
~ Fantasy Show Girl
~ Porn Princess Show Girl
~ Fetish Show Girl
~ Brazilian Show Girl
~ Sydney Show Girl
~ Darlinghurst Show Girl(For our Darlinghurst VIPS)
~ Easter Bunny Show Girl
As usual CC will be hosting the evening and our new resident DJ will be spinning the latest electro & house tunes, keeping the dance floor pumping.
For those seeking more intimate encounters there will be a number of luxurious play rooms available for our sexy after party, from 1.00am. The PURE venue is an oasis of style, glamour and comfort, set in the heart of Sydney’s most vibrant suburb, Darlinghurst.
Tickets are selling fast and are strictly limited, so don’t be disappointed.

First Time Fridays @ Lotus Lounge
Fridays in June

First time Fridays at Lotus Lounge are designed for couples who are new to the club scene.
Our friendly staff provide you the chance to come into the club between 8pm – 9pm to tour the venue, have a chat and a drink with other first time couples and to also provide you with a chance to ask questions of our staff and hosts!
Entry is $100 per couple however should you choose not to stay on past 9pm, you will be entitled to a $50 refund, which means that you have the chance to assess the club for yourselves without the financial burden if it is not right for you.
We are the ONLY club to provide couples with this intro hour, so take the opportunity to come in and assess the club for yourselves with no pressure to stay!!

Lust vs Love – Workshop – Get Hitched
Wednesday, June 04, 2008 6:30 PM

Best selling author Geoff Barker tackles the deepest secrets of women lust & love giving you the latest scientific info you need to find lust or love of your own.

Learn the secrets and true scientific facts about women love & lust
What really makes women tick & how knowing this will change your
relationship success rate drastically How to get what we want from relationships.
The truth about sex & love with the opposite sex most people don’t realise
Winning hearts & minds
Beating your fear in the dating game

Find out all the secretes to Love, Lust or Both at Geoff Barkers Dating Workshop for Men.

VIC

Pair and Purr – Purr Parties
Friday, June 27, 2008 10:00 PM

Come play with PURR and be raunchy for our PAIR & PURR theme, with our special guest DJs Simon Digby and Peter Mac and resident PURRfect Dj Jorj just for us.

WHAT TO WEAR
Anything that could be coupled as a pair.

Come as a King and Queen, Jekyll and Hyde, a couple of cops, camo gear, two characters from the Addams Family, Romeo and Juliet, Superman and Wonder woman, Prince and Princess, James Bond and a Bond Girl, Hugh Heffner and a Playboy Bunny, Pilot and an Air Hostess, Doctor and Nurse, Pirate and Wench, Cowgirl and cowboy, School girl and school boy, Male and Female opera singers, 1920’s Gangster and Flapper, Pimp and Pornstar, Robin Hood and Maid Marion, chef’s, sailors, and the list goes on.

It’s that simple. Keep it themed, sexy & seductive. Please no DENIM or street clothes, be creative. You know the rules.

***STILETTOS COUPLES & FEMALES ONLY PARTY***
Saturday, May 24, 2008 8:30 PM

Stilettos have earned a reputation as one of the most friendly parties in Melbourne.
All sexy couples and females are invited to come along and party with us in a very relaxed, social & sexual atmosphere.
Your experience could range from mild to wild, it is all up to you (we do not tolerate pushy behaviour from anyone) but we do encourage flirtatious slutty behaviour LOL….
After all we are all looking for adventure and exciting encounter Dress code sensual erotic, & BYO drinks, Whether it’s your first house party or you have been to many, we do hope to make your experience a very pleasant and memorable one with no pressure. Just come along and meet some great likeminded people. First timers are made to fell at ease.

SAINTS & SINNERS BALL
Saturday, June 28, 2008 8:30 PM

Now in its 18th year, Melbourne’s legendary Saints & Sinners Ball attracts broadminded adults, exhibitionists, and people from all over Australia, looking for adult fun in comfortable and safe surroundings. Guests are mostly adventurous couples and women who enjoy a raunchy experience. An added bonus is that Victorian law allows us to be MUCH raunchier than similar events interstate.

This June venue is larger than the one we used for the April Ball, which should please all those people who like a bit of extra room as they move around. As always, we’ll have more females than males, because single guys are not admitted.

Just about anything goes. There are open area’s where people are talking, dancing, drinking, meeting, fondling etc, and there are other areas where people can get down and dirty and play a little more discreetly.

The B&D area is always busy with resident Masters and Mistresses administering their pleasure!

WA

SPANK! PERTH’S KINKIEST DRESS-UP PARTY
Saturday, June 28, 2008 9:00 PM

A fantasy & fetish party with a sexy crowd all wearing amazing outfits; provocative floorshows; cool DJ’s playing the best in deep dance music.

Around 400 up-for-it people enjoyed each of our last 3 Spank parties, so come and join in the fun at the next one!

Featuring: Sugar Blue Burlesque with ‘Marie Antoinette’; Fyredanz with ‘FlameFetish’; podium dancers & roving performers, fetish & burlesque stalls. Also a dungeon with new furniture to tease & torture on – but don’t worry, nothing gory.

Dress code: think ‘obedience’: military, medical, school, equestrian, secretarial, police, lords & maids etc

click here for the full RHP events guide

VICTORIA

PURR’s Slumber Party
ROOM Nightclub, Melbourne
Friday 22nd of February 2008
10:00 PM

PURR’s next event is on Friday the 22nd of February when they present the super sexy PURR Slumber Party at ROOM nightclub, Melbourne. Come with me…Come home with me…Come up to my room…Sleep with me…

…but lets not get ANY sleep! Have you ever wanted to have a sleep over with more than 200 people, then make sure you get to this event, as PURR explores the bedROOM, the playROOM and the powderROOM. Lose an article of clothing in every room, and have a sexy sleep over with all of the sexy party goers… but no sleep, not a wink! Go to PURR for all party details and apply to the Kitty Kat Klub to become a member.

Debauchery Swinger’s Party
Saturday 23rd of February 2008

Debauchery is Melbourne’s largest, most popular and longest running swinger’s party, having begun way back in 1994. Usually held on every third Saturday of the month, their next exciting party is on Saturday, February 23rd and then followed next month on March 15th. Whether you’re a first timer or a more experienced swinger, these parties have everything you could ever desire to make sure you have a night to remember. The large venue and heated pool (don’t forget to bring your own towel) is perfect to share with friends or to meet some new naughty playmates. Dress in your finest erotic gear and get ready to party like you never have before!

AUSTRALIAN CAPITAL TERRITORY

Capital Couples Club’s Beach Party
Gladstone Street, Fyshwick
Saturday 23rd of February 2008
9:00 PM

Get ready to say goodbye to summer with Capital Couples super sexy Beach Party. Get your naughtiest beach wear ready on Saturday the 23rd of February and enjoy the music, movies, live shows, eight seater spa, and complimentary drinks and snacks. Get wet with your new playful friends and splash around for a bit of fun. Doors open at 9pm and entry is $100 per couple. For more information check out Capital Couples

NEW SOUTH WALES

Lotus Lounge’s First Time Fridays
Lotus Lounge, Camperdown
Every Friday
8:00 PM

Nervous newbies, take note; First Time Fridays at the Lotus Lounge are designed just for you. Over the past few weeks over 50 swirgins have been inducted into the world of swinging by some very friendly hosts and the professional staff at Australia’s Premiere Couples Club.

“For first timers, the idea of entering a swingers club for the first time can be a daunting concept” says Naomi, Manager of Lotus Lounge. “We have designed an info hour for couples and single ladies who want the chance to explore our club before the doors open to regular guests. This hour gives nervous first timers the opportunity to explore the club and ask questions of both staff and hosts in a relaxed environment which can help settle some of those first time nerves associated with entering a new venue and this in turn makes people feel more at home in their surrounds.” For more information check out Lotus Lounge

Be Fun Be Wild’s Fantasy House ‘Venetian Carnevale’ Party
Private Art Gallery, Sydney
Saturday 23rd February 2008
9:00 PM

Wear your mask, dress sexy and provocative, and think decadence and renaissance. This will be a night to remember as you enter a new world where inhibitions are left at the door and lust, sex, and seduction rule. The private gallery has three distinctive levels, with chill out zones, videos, music, large balconies, and an underground play area. Invitation will be sent to couples who Be Fun Be Wild have selected so make sure you register your interest now. For more information go to Be Fun Be Wild

Lotus Lounge’s Leap Year Party
Lotus Lounge, Camperdown
Friday 29th of February 2008
9:00 PM

Australia’s premier couples club, the Lotus Lounge, will be throwing a Leap Year Party on the 29th of February! The theme for the party is the letter ‘P’. Come dressed as anything starting with P to gain entry at the reduced rate of $100 per couple before 10pm. Be as creative as you can be; whether you’re dressed as a pirate, prince, princess, prostitute, pimp, pussy cat, or police officer – you’re guaranteed a pleasurable night! The most inventive couple will win an entire month’s free entry to the Lotus Lounge worth a whopping $1000. For more information visit Lotus Lounge

QUEENSLAND

Couple’s International Alternative LifeStyle Gala Ball
Holden Street, Woollongabba
Friday 23rd of February 2008
9:00 PM

Couples International and RedHotPie present the Alternative Lifestyle Gala Ball where all the lifestyles will be celebrated in one pumped up venue. With every thing from soft core photography to body piercing to comedian Billy Mac performing, this will be the social highlight of calendar. Take advantage of the free massage on offer or be entertained by the stage performances; this night promises to be a fun celebration of all lifestyles. For more information check out Couples International

Couples International’s Back to School 5
Holden Street, Woollongabba
Saturday 23rd of February 2008
9:00 PM

Dress up in your cheekiest school girl or guy outfit and get ready to party hard into the night with normal school lessons and heaps of fun. Sex education will be high of the curriculum with classes including sex with a vibrator, sex with yourself, and sex with your hand all taught be resident sexperts. It’s free entry to all Couples International club members and promises to be a great night out. For more information visit Couples International

WESTERN AUSTRALIA

Connections Nightclub’s Bound and Gagged
Connections Nightclub, Northbridge
Sunday 2nd of March 2008
9:00 PM

After the recent success of Hellbent, Connections Nightclub returns with another night of freaky fetish fun, dark desires & perverted pleasures. It’s an evening for all you decadent deviants out there to indulge your fantasies. So strap on your studs, slip on your stilettos & slide into some sin as we dive headfirst into a bondage & fetish party crammed full of the kind of entertainment that only the kinkiest club in town can deliver. This night is bound to leave you gagging for even more!!! For more information go to Connections Nightclub

For More Information about these exciting events visit our EVENTS PAGE

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