Think of a woman’s pussy like a sideways mouth, with beautiful soft lips and an opening to savour the taste of your partner, and the hood and clit sticking out just like a tongue.

When kissing someone you not only want to make it passionate but you kiss in lots of different ways. Sometimes hard and fast, or maybe soft and gentle, you warm up and pash deeper as you go. Sometimes you use your tongue, savouring the taste of your partner or nibble at their lip enjoying the intimacy with a partner.

When going down on your woman there are the basic principles of making your woman reach orgasmic heights she never thought possible. Remember every woman is different and in fact, each woman changes her sensitivities and preferences on a minute by minute basis. So there should be no routine or complacency here. Your woman will appreciate you concentrating on her and you being aware of her movements and gentle signs guiding you to just the right spot, but boy, if you do you’ll see the rewards and she will see you as the Sex God she has been searching for.

I’m going to go through a few basic do’s and don’ts and then take you through the theory and into a practical scene. So buckle up and enjoy the ride. Here are the 8 Tips to become an expert at licking her out:

Golden rules

1. It’s not about you. It’s about her.
2. Follow her lead, her moans, her pushing into you, pulling away or changing position.
3. Enjoy yourself. There are few things in this world as pleasurable as licking a soft, sweet pussy while a woman writhes around you, grabbing your hair, moaning, yelling out in ecstasy and begging you for more.

1. Take your time getting there

Unless it’s a wonderful quickie, don’t go straight for the goods, make her beg for it.

2. Do your warm up

Take some time to caress her whole body, every once in a while brush by her pussy – with your lips, your fingers your tongue – just enough to let it know you’re on your way.

3. The mouth method

Treat her pussy like a big juicy mouth that you just can’t wait to pash. Turn your mouth, or your whole body, sideways to meet it where it is – and make out with it. Soft kisses at first, all over. Then, bring the tongue in, lightly at first – keeping your lips glued to hers, literally just like you were kissing her real mouth. Let the tongue go deeper, suck the clit, its shaft and hood in and out of your mouth (remember the clit is at the top and missing the spot will ruin the whole thing). Sink your tongue inside her. She’s so soft and warm. Go from light and easy to deep, strong kissing – teasing her, letting her excitement rise and fall, but ultimately building. Please note that many women don’t enjoy or can’t tolerate hardcore sensations for too long. It can be too much and actually cause pain or numbness so make sure you are open to her signals of pull away or gently pushing you in a different direction.

4. Watch, listen and feel

All women are different and we will change want we want from one session to the next so please remember that it’s part of the process as giver to watch, listen and feel what’s going on with her. When you’re doing something right, her body will rise and writhe, she might tremble or shake, she’ll get wetter and wetter, she’ll moan, pant, scream, tell you what to do (“harder, more, do that other thing again”), grab your head and pull it in deeper. Or? You’ve got her laying there fairly motionless or trying to pull away. If that’s happening, you need to read this again (or better yet, talk to her and find out what she wants.)

5. Use your tongue in different ways

Your tongue feels very different depending on how you use it. There are really two options – you can point it, using the hard tip, or you can keep it flat and soft, but hey if you can role your tongue and show any additional talents you may have, then go for it.

6. Check in with her

Ask what she likes, if that’s the spot (many men just go too low). Just a penis enlarges as the blood rush down so does a clit. It becomes engorged and larger, when it does she may be ready for you to get a bit more hard and heavy. The clit isn’t just a little button floating near the pussy. The button is connected to a shaft – much like the penis and goes deep into the woman. It’s incredibly stimulating to have a finger on each side of the shaft rubbing up and down or from side to side or doing little circles – just as you’d like you would a penis.

7. Be patient and use the art of sensuality

How long will it take, well how long is a piece of string. Who knows and trust me it will change each time. If you give a woman the time of her life, she will be thinking about and the next time she might experience such pleasure so it may end up being a quickie as her mind has already gotten her there before you start. The art of sensuality involves teasing, changing your pace, bringing her to the edge and taking the prize away until you really think she deserves it.

8. Add some fingers or a toy

Some women really love and need penetration to achieve orgasm but don’t assume, ask. If this is the case with your woman, add fingers or a dildo to the mix – matching the rhythm of your tongue on her clit to the thrusts of the penetrating tool. This feels like two lots of attention and you may be fulfilling a fantasy of a threesome without the need for another person.

Are you an expert at licking her out? Share your tips on how to pleasure her in the comments section below.

Well, mornings are about to get a whole lot better thanks the invention on the Little Rooster – the vibrating alarm clock that promises to wake you up with a smile (and more).

You simply have to choose what time you would like to be aroused (quite literally) and then pop the Little Rooster in your pants (bad news if you sleep naked) and look forward to what the morning will bring.

Those heavier sleepers out there need not worry about missing their wake up call either, as there are over 27 settings to choose from. All you need to do is work out what one is right for you.

The Little Rooster is designed to start vibrating at your requested wake up time, with the intensity of vibrations building over a five minute period. ‘You wake slowly. Sexually. Pleasurably,’ promises the website.

The alarm also includes a ‘snooze’ feature for those who fancy a little longer under the covers, and comes with a travel lock to avoid any awkward questions at customs.

The Little Rooster will set you back a good £69.99 (about $120 AUD) and is currently sold out worldwide (to nobody’s surprise), with the next batch due next month.

Inventor Tony Maggs originally tried to crowd fund for a similar product called the Dream Rooster, which was designed to vibrate whilst you slept in order to stimulate erotic dreams. Somewhat unsurprisingly he failed to meet reach the funding target, and thus the Little Rooster was born.

Tony is now also currently developing a Little Rooster for men, but we’ll leave it up to your imaginations as to how that one will work.

Source: marieclaire.co.uk

Ladies, yes or no? Great idea or a bust? Would you give one a go? And lads, curious about the male version?? Hit us in the comments section below!

If you are having orgasms regularly, congrats! You are not only having a great time, but you are also a better, more composed individual besides, having an orgasm could help improve your health. Whether you achieve your orgasms with intercourse or masturbation here are 8 good reasons to orgasm more. Like you need an excuse!

1. Better Sleep

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Would you rather take a sleeping pill or have a mind-blowing orgasm to help you catch some Zzs? We think we know the answer. Have you noticed how after  a romp and or solo play you just drift into the deepest and most restful sleep? Orgasming regularly is also associated with better sleep quality. According to experts, that’s because of the combination of relaxation hormones like oxytocin and lower blood pressure post-orgasm.

2.  Stress Relief

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Orgasms release oxytocin into your brain, which is a pleasure hormone that stimulates feelings of warmth and relaxation and makes you feel so goooooood.

3. Healthier Heart

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A bunch of studies have found that sex and orgasm are good for your heart, both because they’re a good workout and because they lowers your blood pressure, reduce stress, and improve your emotional health. What a great reason to up your orgasms.

4. Relieves Headaches

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Suffering from another migraine? Or maybe a cluster headache? Before you reach for the painkillers, why not get your orgasm on? Studies in the past have found that orgasm can moderately to completely rid headaches.

5. Better Immunity

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Orgasming more frequently might boost your immune system.

Researchers from the University Clinic of Essen instructed 11 men to masturbate until orgasm. The researchers drew blood continuously throughout the process and found that orgasm increased number of leukocytes in their blood. Leukocytes are our body’s white blood cells that attack foreign substances and disease. Masturbation therefore, just might help you get well quicker.

6. Good For Your Brain

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There is some evidence that orgasms can relieve all kinds of pain, that’s thanks to pain-relieving oxytocin and endorphin.

8. Orgasms could keep you looking younger

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Forget Botox, just have an orgasm. Orgasms might not only make you look younger but it could also prolong one’s lifespan.

As you can see there is so much power in the orgasm. Getting off regularly might be your ticket to a healthier, longer and happier life. So, never stop having orgasms!

Exercise just got interesting. Sexy yoga is here!

In a little yoga studio in the heart of Fitzroy a few weeks ago, I found myself with a curious group of strangers. Looking around coyly from one to the next, we were all here for the same reason — a session of sensual yoga — or as I like to call it, sexy lady time yoga.

But this was no one-off. Yoga came as part of a Pleasure Weekend workshop, the brainchild of Vanessa Muradian — sexologist, yoga teacher and yoni massage raconteur. The idea is for women to explore their sensual side, reconnect with what they need sexually, and feel empowered to ask for what they want — and have fun with it (caveat, without actually getting naked at the workshop, people! Get your filthy minds out of the gutter).

So we whizzed through some anatomy and the pleasure-trove that is the vulva (or the much cooler-sounding “yoni”— the Sanskrit word for it, meaning sacred cave). And then we covered the kinds of things all of us have wondered about, from female ejaculation (“it’s like you’ve wet the bed!” we’re told) to the complex matter of low libidos and our changing sex lives. It was cathartic really to share how we feel with other women — it didn’t matter that they were strangers.

And then after all the talking, there was just one thing left. Sexy lady time yoga.

Cue dimmed lights.

Cue Lycra.

Bow chicka wow wow.

Actually, even though I was half hoping for a burst of Marvin Gaye’s Sexual Healing, the soothing African folk music that was played was just as good — the drums setting the pace for the flow of the class.

We sat up on our shins, letting our hands caress our thighs and wander up over the rest of our bodies — moving faster or slower depending on what felt good to each of us individually. Then on all fours, we got into “cat-cow”, arching our backs and then reversing the pose inward, letting out sighs of release with each breath.

As we repeated the pose, we were encouraged to listen intuitively to our bodies and freestyle, moving in whichever way felt right. Everyone had their own interpretation — rolling their hips forward, back and around, pressing their bodies hard into the floor and sliding up slowly.

The breathing got deeper, the exhales louder. Actually, that’s an understatement. Remember that scene in When Harry Met Sally? Meg Ryan in the cafe, you know the one. It was a little bit like that. Just multiplied by 23 women.

Although it took a bit of getting used to, the vibe in the class had totally changed — from each of us having one eye on the girl next to us to see what she was doing to totally focusing on ourselves. And with every audible exhale, we harnessed what Vanessa called our orgasmic energy.

From there we flowed through a sequence of poses from “eagle”, where Vanessa encouraged us to feel the heat fire up from our pelvis as we pressed our thighs together and balanced — through to “bridge” where on our backs, we arched our torsos up and then on the way back down, pounded the floor with our lower backs which, weirdly, was way sexier-feeling than it sounds.

And then we rested. That energy surging through us, totally focusing on our own pleasure.

Not thinking about that job we’ve got to get done at work tomorrow.

Not thinking about what we need to buy from the shops.

Not thinking about our partners, friends or kids — none of that.

Just focusing on those lovely tingly feelings. And why shouldn’t we be, ladies? I mean, come on — who wouldn’t want a little more pleasure in their lives?

Source: news.com.au

So, would you ever do a sexy time yoga class??? Let us know in the comments section below.

A – The Anger Wank
We’ve all been there, a bad day at the office, a friend has pissed you off, you get home to find the cat has puked all over the sofa. You’re annoyed, you’ve had enough. What better way to work of your frustrations than dig out a favourite toy or two and give yourself a couple of shuddering orgasms. It won’t fix your problems, but it will make you feel better about things.

B – The Basic Wank
Can’t be bothered faffing around with toys, lube, etc.? Take it back to basics; enjoy a session with your fingers and your own natural lubricant. Relive the joy of those first furtive fingerings that you gave yourself so many years ago. Sometimes, less is more.

C – The Cunt Filler
Fingers not quite cutting it? Want to feel stretched and full? You remember that mammoth, super-sized dildo you’ve got stashed away for those “need a bit more” situations. Ram it in and feel that delicious fullness.

D – The Danger Wank
We all need excitement. The thrill of the risk of being caught adds to the arousal. It’s the wank in public or semi-public places.

E – The Eclectic Wank
You want to get off, but can’t quite decide how. Fingers? Toys? Frotting against an inanimate object? All of the aforementioned? It’s the wank where you use every tool in your arsenal to get yourself off.

F – The “Fuck This! I’m Having A Wank” Wank
Housework to be done? Ironing to be put away? Washing piling up? You know what, I can’t be arsed, I think I’ll have a wank first.

G – The Gratuitous Wank
The one you do in front of your partner because they are failing to meet your needs (can also be combined with The Anger Wank). You’re doing it for you, not for them. You’re having a wank and you don’t care if they know about it; in fact, you want them to know about it.

H – The Happy Wank
You’re in a great mood, you may or may not know the reason for this, but you’re sure as hell going to enjoy it. And what better way to make a little happiness go that bit further? Yup, work that clit/cock.

I – The Insecure Wank
First date nerves? Worried about if he/she will like/want to fuck you? Settle down and settle yourself before you go out with a quick reminder of just why you are fabulous.

J – The Jealous Wank
Just seen your ex with their latest partner? Feeling a bit down about it. Cheer yourself up with a reminder of what they are now missing out on: you. Can be combined with the Anger and Insecure wanks.

K – The Killer Wank
The kind of wank that leaves you more than just breathless. You’ve cum so hard and so often that you actually feel like you’ve endangered your very existence.

L – The Learning Wank
It’s back to the beginning. It’s the way we learned how we liked to be touched. Thinking back brings back memories of a more “innocent” time.

M – The Mighty Moaner
The frustration has been building up. The release is so powerful. You shout your pleasure from the rooftops and you don’t care who hears you (with the possible exception of your parents). Sometimes combined with The Killer Wank.

N – The Normal Wank
This is your default wank. The one you fall back on when you haven’t the energy/can’t be arsed with anything else. It’s reliable, you know it works, so why fix it?

O – The OMFG!!! Wank
A variation of The Killer Wank and The Mighty Moaner. It produces orgasms so strong you feel like you won’t be able to move for about a week.

P – The Preparation Wank
You know you’re going to get a bloody good seeing-to, but you can’t wait to get started, so you have a quick bit of me time to start things moving.

Q – The Quiet Wank
It’s the middle of the night. You wake up feeling as randy as hell. Beside you, your partner is sleeping soundly, snoring and drooling into their pillow. It would be a shame to wake them. So, quietly does it, trying hard not to disturb them as you wank yourself back to sleep.

R – The Rushed Wank
You’ve got some place to be. You’re meeting a friend for a drink. It’s taken you forever to get ready and if you don’t hurry up, you will definitely be late. One small snag, you’re randy. Probably just got time to dig out the Doxy and scrape yourself of the ceiling after 30 seconds.

S – The Sensual Wank
You have all the time in the world, so take it slowly. Use your favourite body oils and creams. Take time to ensure every inch of you tingles. Savour it. Wallow in it. Enjoy it.

T – The Toy Wank
You want to feel full, you want to feel something thrust deep inside you. You want your cunt to squeeze and grip hard on something as you cum. It’s time for toys. The Cunt Filler is a subset of this wank.

U – The Unexpected Wank
You hadn’t planned to have one; you weren’t even aware that you were particularly randy. Suddenly, midway through Eastenders, you unexpectedly find yourself with your fingers in you knickers. Well, let’s be honest, almost anything is better than watching Eastenders.

V – The Variety Wank
Similar in a way to The Eclectic Wank, but this time the variety is deliberate. You’ve carefully chosen out what toys you are going to use, the lube to apply and you’ve got it all worked out in advance so that you use them all.

W – The Watching Wank
Whether it’s you watching your partner or your partner watching you, or maybe you’re simultaneously watching each other, having an audience can make the experience even more intimate. Can be combined with just about every other wank described in this post.

X – The X-Rated Wank
This is the wank that you do deliberately for your partner. Sometimes also known as the Exhibitionist Wank. You are putting on a show. Your self-pleasure is as much for their arousal as it is for your own enjoyment.
Warning: Can lead to a long, hard, intense fuck.

Y – The “You Touch Me” Wank
Wanking is not a solitary experience. Having a partner bring you off with their fingers, or you doing it to them can be a deeply intense sexual experience.

Z – The Zumba Instructor
I’m cheating here because I can’t think of anything beginning with Z. That said, my Zumba instructor is seriously hot and I would love to do very naughty things to and with her. So maybe this is the category for all those fantasy filled wanks with the people you will never have.

Source: wank-of-the-day.com

Any wank categories we’ve missed? Let us know in the comments section below!

The nightmarish love child of an endoscopy and a vibrator, the ‘Svakom Gaga Camera Vibrator’ allows for a newnew vibrator, vibrator,

level of explicitness in amateur sex tapes.

Footage taken can be uploaded to PC or smartphone and the device also syncs with FaceTime, offering the unprecedented opportunity to be on the phone with someone’s genitals.

A spokesperson said: “It allows users to get to know their body in its entirety thanks to the remarkably clear footage this camera captures.

“Thanks to its FaceTime compatibility, sharing the view with your lover couldn’t be easier – whether you’re sat right next to each other or miles apart.”

It costs £119.99 (approx $235 AUD)and people are actually buying it.

“Wow is all I can say,” one reviewer wrote. “The camera is such good quality and the light around the tip picks up everything – be warned! The toy is so much fun.”

Would you use the sex selfie stick?? Let us know below!

Source: independent.co.uk

Three of the bands five vocalists are filmed in a black background, doing their best to sing the notes and words correctly to their new song ‘Go to Go’ while all along a suspicious vibrating devise away from the camera view is distracting them.

Masturbation will lead to orgasm most times and as you see in this film these women look beautiful, vulnerable and happy. No wonder masturbation has a lot of health benefits. The month of May is coming to an end but it surely doesn’t mean that we have to slow down doing one thing that is good for us and feels soooo good too. Let’s send this month off with a blasting masturbation session whether alone, with your partner or special friends.

It makes for a very entertaining viewing as 8 million people on You Tube already agree.

It is a rather original way to illustrate women’s sexuality.

Watch it and let us know what you think:

A man who was born with two penises due to a rare medical condition called Diphillia has stirred up a storm in the chartrooms of entertainment site, Reddit, during the “Ask Me Anything” session.

There’s no sure way of knowing whether this is a hoax, but frankly, the photo of the genitals of the man known only as DoubleDickDude is quite compelling. Perhaps supporting the validity of his double package is the fact that one in six million boys are born with two penises, but most have the extra appendage removed at an early age.

According to this mystery man, having two dicks is pretty great:

“Both are 100% functional. What I was born with is called Diphallia. I did NOT absorb a twin. It’s not genetic or inherited. I am bisexual and in a committed relationship with a man and a woman, but have permission to stray only with James Franco…wherever he is. ?”

We got thinking… would DoubleDickDude’s condition be awkward or straight up awesome? Here are some points on both sides of the coin…

Awkward:
1. Can cross swords with himself.
2. “How’s it hanging?” Never a simple question.
3. Seeing double. Is it the booze or the Diphillia?
4. Handling the hoses… never cross the streams!

Awesome:
• Perfect set up for threesomes.
• What’s better than an orgasm? Stereo orgasm.
• One man DP machine.
• Can play drums without sticks.

Let’s assume this is true… is the whole two penises thing a blessing or a curse? What would you do with them?

Masturbation has always been a subject of taboo with a string of myths that perpetuated negative attitudes but science has proven these myths to be wrong. Myths such as; you’ll go blind, lose your strength, or grow hair on the palms of your hands are just a few myths people used to tell about masturbation. Of course here at RHP we don’t need medical science to tell us that masturbation is actually good for you but it is nice to have science on our side.
What science does say about masturbation, however, is that it has a whole bunch of health benefits. Here’s how a little self-play can keep your body, mind and your sex life in shape:

Your Body

Whether you’re male or female, masturbation is a fun way to stay in shape. It’s a form of exercise! No need to leave home to go to the gym! A great winter sports, don’t you think, exercise while keeping warm and getting that much needed loving…
Playing with yourself helps to boost your immune system and keeps you in good physical shape. Plus, the muscle relaxation you feel after an orgasm can help with sleeping better, cure short-term aches and pains, while the longer-term benefits include lowering your heart rate and blood pressure.

For men, regular masturbation helps maintain a healthy hard-on and can even help men learn to prolong sex (something ladies really appreciate). For women, it can alleviate menstrual cramps and speed up recovery from urinary tract infections and exercise your pelvic floor muscles, which will help you enjoy more powerful orgasms (that’s enough said there ladies).

Masturbation and orgasm both burn calories, and the phenethylamine that floods into your bloodstream when you orgasm is an appetite suppressant, so it can even help you stay slim. Now here’s a diet plan more people would be likely to stick to!

Your Brain

If you’re feeling stressed or depressed, self-love is just the thing to indulge in. Along with the mood-boosting effects of dopamine and oxytocin, the endorphins you release when you orgasm help to fight depression and anxiety.

Your Sex Life

We’re here because we care about our sex life. You’ll be happy to know that masturbation makes you more attractive! How you ask? Some of that attraction is hormonal, but the circulation boost you get when you masturbate will also give your skin a natural, healthy glow and that big smile on your face after orgasm will help too.

Masturbation is good for your body, your mind and your sex life and it’s side effect free. If there was a pill that could do all that we’d all be buying it. Now that we know all the benefits what are you still doing here jump in bed and get busy…

While we’re on the subject of Masturbation, how about if we get some feedback from you about this topic? Or why not jump on the member forums and read what others have to say?

‘Female Masturbation.’ Read it here

‘Toys for men’s pleasure.’ Read it here

‘In celebration of masturbation.’ Read it here

Here at RedHotPie our sex doctors are constantly inundated with questions about it, not to mention the Hot Forums going crazy with chat about it: women wanting to know what it is and how to do it, men wanting to know how to make women do it, whether or not it’s real, what the mythical g-spot is, whether it’s just urine or not, and on and on! So, we’ve decided to create an article that answers all of your squirting questions, in no particular order. Whether, you’re a believer or not in squirting, you’re sure to have fun (either on your own or with a partner) trying!

Is there a difference between squirting when you orgasm and peeing?

The fluid that is released during squirting is not urine, so yes, there is a big difference. Don’t believe us? A simple taste and smell test will prove it! There has been debate raging on for years about whether squirting is just a woman completely letting go and peeing as a result. Some people will argue till the cows come home that squirting doesn’t exist. Research into female ejaculation is a relatively new field so it’s seen as debatable. We happen to think that the non-believers just haven’t experienced it!

Some very sexy-minded scientists have done research into the phenomena and discovered that the fluid released when a female squirts has a similar chemical composition to male ejaculate, minus sperm of course. The fluid that is released during female ejaculation has been found to come from the Skene’s glands, which are a part of the g-spot. What is this g-spot you’ve been hearing so much about? The g-spot is sometimes known as the female prostate, as it’s in the same position (whilst on a different wall, of course) to the male prostate and is similar in size, shape and function.

Are you able to teach yourself how to squirt?

Yes, although the jury’s still out on whether it’s better to practice on your own first or with a partner. Ladies, we’d suggest practicing on your own at first if you sometimes have difficulty relaxing and feel pressure to squirt. If you have a partner that wants to learn – or already has an idea of how to make women squirt – and that you feel completely comfortable with, even better! That means you can lie back, relax and have them do the hard work for you!

Do all women squirt?

We’re going to open up a potential can of worms with this controversial statement – all women can squirt. In saying that, it may be extremely difficult for some women: weak pelvic floor (PC) muscles and an inability to relax can make it damn near impossible for some women. However, you don’t have to envy those women that can ‘squirt on command,’ there is hope for you yet if this is something that you really want to achieve.

Do your Kegel exercises regularly to strengthen your PC muscles, as these can help you not only learn to squirt, but also to reach orgasm more easily. To identify the muscles that you need to strengthen, practice stopping urinating midstream. The muscles that you clench to stop the flow are your pelvic floor muscles. To do your Kegels, squeeze these muscles tight and clench for five seconds, then relax for five seconds. Aim to repeat this process three times a day, for around thirty repetitions each time and soon you’ll be cracking walnuts with your….Well, maybe not, but it can make a huge difference, trust us.

When it comes to an inability to relax, there is no magic cure. if you visit the bathroom beforehand, you’ll be able to let go of any fears of urinating, making your chances of squirting more likely. Remember that squirting is natural and that most men find it a turn on, knowing that you are getting incredibly turned on! Mentally focus on the sensations, rather than worrying about the mess.

What is the best way to stimulate a woman’s g-spot to make her squirt?

Just as any woman can learn how to squirt, any man can learn how to make a woman squirt, or, as mentioned previously, a woman can take matters into her owns hands and teach herself! It will take a lot of practice and the use of a certain technique, but if you’re patient, it will pay off big time! Begin by learning your way around the female g-spot, as it’s the main player in the squirting game and whilst some women can squirt via other methods of stimulation, the g-spot is key. Feel your way around and get to know this spot well!

If you are working with a partner, begin by getting blood flowing all through your body. Try to relax by getting your partner to give you a sensual all over body massage. If you are working on your own, take a soak in a tub and stroke your body all over. Once you are really relaxed and aroused, it’s time to seek out that elusive g-spot! It is better to try and find the sweet spot when you’re really turned on, as it will be more pronounced.

Lie on your back and spread your legs, firstly making sure that you are well-lubricated (naturally or otherwise). Insert one or two fingers completely inside your vagina and curl them to feel around for a spot on the front wall that has a different texture to the surrounding skin – it might feel spongy, rough and raised. Use a ‘come hither’ motion to stroke and if you’re having trouble finding it, press your other palm flat on the outside of your pubic area.

To stimulate the g-spot, start by pushing against it using either your fingers, or a toy (preferably curved and specifically designed for g-spot stimulation). You can then start to rigorously rub the area. You will probably find that you’ll need to be quite vigorous. Through constant stimulation of the spot, you’ll begin to feel like you need to pee. Just relax and continue; fight through the sensation and you’ll start to feel an intense build up before squirting. Flexing the PC muscles can help push you over the edge. Once you’ve mastered the art of squirting digitally or with toys, you can move on to trying through intercourse. Some positions that encourage squirting are doggy style, woman on top grinding against him, man on top but with her ankles up around her ears or knees to chest.

Should women who are squirters warn new partners ASAP once it looks as though the action is headed that way?

It might not be such a bad idea to give a heads up to any partners when playing if you gush more than Niagra Falls! As a courtesy we’d suggest that you do, as it will at least allow them to lay down some towels, which is especially important if you are playing where you are going to be sleeping. No one likes sleeping in the mother of all wet patches.

So that’s pretty much it. It’s simple in theory, yes, but bear in mind that it can be much more difficult in practice. Persist though and you’ll experience some of the most intense orgasms ever. It is well worth the effort. Therefore, don’t be deterred if it doesn’t happen right away. Don’t look at it as a failed experience and get frustrated, as this will just end up in repeating the pattern as next time you try you’ll be tense and anticipating failure. Look at it as a learning experience. In short, relax, explore and enjoy it for the sensations…even if you don’t squirt. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and if you really want to squirt, you’ve gotta be prepared to put in the hard work. So go forth brave sexplorer and have some wet and wild RedHot times…then be sure to share all the juicy details with us afterwards!