Let’s look at why the older men make you experience sex at a new level and you’ll be back for more….

Are you thinking in dipping your toes into dating more mature men? It might just be exactly what you have been looking for….

There are things that get better with age, and men are one of them. Like older women, older men are the best for a naughty date.

Although dating younger men can be fun and exciting, their sexual journey has just started. It takes time, practice and knowledge to perfect the technique of lovemaking, and the older men sure have had enough time to perfect their technique. They understand the female pleasure and care to please their partners.

With an experience man or older man, women will have the cake and eat it too. Older men will focus on you in bed, selflessly ensuring you have an orgasm. They are firm believers that sex should be pleasurable for both.

Let’s look at the little things that older men do that sets them apart from the younger lovers and why older men are the best for a naughty date.

1. Your pleasure comes first and often

With an older man, your pleasure is top priority. He’s not in a hurry, he wants to please you. After years of practice, he knows his way around the female anatomy. He may help you discover parts you didn’t even know you had and achieve orgasms you haven’t experienced yet. He’ll have a dance with you without feeling he has lost his masculinity.

2. Appreciate the varied form of women

Older men have been around. They have learned that women come in many different packages, and they love all of the varied tastes and they appreciate the curves of a woman’s body.  Older men are not looking for perfection but are looking for a perfect encounter with a perfect pleasurable outcome to all involved.  They allow women to feel more relaxed and feel sexier.

3. He knows how to go down on a woman

They’ve had enough time to practice that’s all. Practice makes orgasms, or however the saying goes…..wink, wink

Women learn to master blow jobs early in their sexual lives but guys typically don’t figure out till much later that women enjoy oral sex too. Older man, are more attentive lovers because they’ve learned to listen and know that each and every woman is different when it comes to experiencing pleasure.

4. Sex is amazing with older men

Whilst sex might not last quite as long as it would  with a younger man, when it comes to experience, older men know where it’s at.

5. Open to experiment

Older gents know that sex is not confined to missionary only. They have a broader view of what sex entails. Whether you want to try a bit of kink, a new toy, a threesome or some light BDSM, or new positions that work best for you he will indulge you. More likely than not, he has had some experience in some of the fantasies you want to try out. He also understands that trying new things in bed are just a fun way to enhance everyone’s pleasure.

6. He paces himself

He is well aware of the orgasm gap and actively tries to pace himself so he can finish either with or after you. If he does finish before you,  he’s sure to spend time pleasuring you before calling it quits or rolls over.

The hot silver fox who is ready, willing and able to hold a woman in full, is possibly your next adventure. It’s not a stretch to say that there are many women out there who wouldn’t trade a silver fox for a young bench pressed surfer boy. As with all things sexual, desiring an older man comes down to personal taste and at the stage you are in life, it’s very relative.

No man is perfect but those of us who prefer a mature man know they offer something younger men can’t, not yet anyway. our contemporaries just don’t have.

Would you snag yourself a ‘sliver fox’?

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There comes a time in everybody’s life when we need to embrace change.

When you are a girl and have been dating young men for a while but things aren’t going as planned, you may start setting your sights on someone who’s more refined, more sophisticated, and definitely more mature.

Maybe you should start looking to date an older man, because…

Here are 10 reasons you may want to date an older man:

1 He’s more secure

Other than money, he is also more secure when it comes to his emotions. In general, he’s more certain of what he feels about himself and life.

2. He knows more about sex

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Older often means he’s got a couple of tricks up his sleeve, right? He probably has some high-level moves you haven’t heard of yet. With more time to perfect their technique, these men know where to touch, and for how long.

3. They have learned from previous relationships

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He already knows that different women have different ways of expressing themselves, which means he’s better able to understand you. He has learned that some women are more emotional, vocal, relaxed, or sexual. Each times he meets a woman he assumes nothing.

4. He’s patient

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He’s had enough dating experience to understand that all women have different little quirks and he’s not going to make a fuss over it. He’s going to back off and give you the space you need. Understanding the meaning of delayed gratification comes with years of hard work.

5. He’s confident and knows what he wants

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Confidence is an admirable quality in anybody, this assures that when you’re with your older man, you will settle for nothing other than the best. He’s experienced ups and downs in life and he knows how to get back up and get what he wants. A confident older man has strong sex appeal.

6. He’s not jealous or over emotional

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He’s secure in the fact that you would like him for who he is, and not just some flimsy reason like you checking a younger guy passing by is going to set him off.

7. Better at communicating

If there’s something he wants to say, he’ll say it in as crystal clear a manner as he can muster. He has not time for games or misunderstandings.

8. He may be looking to settle down

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This is great news for the ladies out there who want someone to settle with, or to go to parties with.

9. Chivalry

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It may at times seem annoying, but it’s it’s a gesture of feminine appreciation, so welcome it.

10. No Roommates

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It’s unlikely that your older man will share his home with a couple of unruly slobs he calls his best friends.

Taking the risk with an older, more mature man can open your eyes to new perspectives. Why not give it a shot, and see how it works for you.

Have anything to add to this? Let us know in the comments section below.

Now these are some seriously attractive young girls, and this guy is a rock star of the highest order, sure… but 30 years? When does the gap become too great? Does it ever become to great? The late Anna Nicole-Smith may have suggested that it does not… well dear Anna, bless your soul… we think maybe it does.

Now having said that, we’re gonna firstly state that there is no proof that anything happenned between Ireland’s rock god and those hard bodied young ladies; Bono’s marriage to his wife of 28 years is one of the strongest in show biz, but that said… say they all had a few drinks, a little bit of dancing broke out at the club, then maybe they all headed back to the luxury yacht, they had a few more drinks and before you know it Bono was on all four bleeting like a goat while the two girls stripped for their rock sugar daddy… we’re just saying, it might have happened. And so what if it did, Bono is a nice enough guy, he keeps himself in shape and he’s got a brain in his head. Is there anything wrong with women being attracted to the strong, older male type? Why does it happen?

Well the head shrinkers will point you gently toward the daddy – daughter relationships which can get a little sus if you look at the scenario too hard; long story short, some girls crave the strong father figure, the guiding hand and validation that a father figure can provide – as they move away from the family home they can look for those qualities in a lover, in many cases they have been without a father figure for long periods, if not their whole lives.

Another aspect in the attraction can simply be chalked up to power. The older, dominant male that weilds power and status can be quite intoxicating to younger women. Power by association is still power and it’s a basic human condition to want it. This relationship works so very beautifully due to the fact that in Western civilisation, one of the socially accepted perks of being a powerful male with wealth and standing is the ability to date beautiful young women… some perk.

Not that the gent in question would mind a lot of the time but there are more than a few girls that can bunndle the older man chase into a wider act of rebellion against society, family or themselves. No matter how common place it is, the young girl/senior gent relationship is a little tabboo making it a little more dangerous in the eyes of some girls.

So drop in some comments below… have you been on either side of a relationship that spanned the years… how did it work out for you and what are your thoughts on such relationships today?