Before we go on, we need to establish the difference between the ‘nice guy’ and an actual genuine nice guy. A genuinely nice guy is a kind man, a man women actually love, and not a wannabe ‘ nice guy’ who acts vulnerable and spends his time kissing the ass of his love interest. Everyone hates that ‘nice guy’.

This type of nice guy is just a shallow being who acts weak and clingy to get into a girl’s pants. He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings by being excessively attentive to a woman’s every whim without being asked to do so. By being this way, he thinks his fake thoughtfulness will get him out of the friendzone and straight into her panties, but sadly, it always backfires.

On the other hand, men who are genuinely good, kind and nice, women adore and are into.

Nice guys, the guy creating the illusion of kindness and vulnerability just to get laid, do NOT actually get laid. Girls can smell their fake stench which is a massive turn off.

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— millennial of manila (@MillennialOfMNL) October 12, 2017

Two separate studies have found that genuine nice guys have way more sex than everyone else. One study found that selfless people have more sex. Basically, people who help others are more desirable – ‘If you want to get a little, you should try giving a little.’.

Apparently, all the hunnies out there dig selfless, emotionally available men. Not selfish, needy and creepy ‘nice guys’.

For a more detailed look at the data analysis, check out this Psych2Go video that explains why nice guys have more sex:

If you find yourself in the friendzone, do something that will work, get the heck out of there. Whatever you do, don’t try to be her best friend because you are being insincere and she’ll never take you seriously. Go to the gym, groom yourself and genuinely be a nice person.

To wrap things up, don’t be a nice guy. It will get you nowhere. Instead, be a kind guy. That will take you places.

H/T  The Independent