1. Take a break from dating apps: Uninstall them for a while and stop the constant swiping. It’s easy to get caught in the swiping game and become cynical about hookup culture. Taking time off apps will give you time for yourself and really look at what is important to you. Look for desirable qualities for a great date.
2. Show yourself some love: Buy yourself some nice clothes, a nice ring and look at your reflection with love and less criticism. Do everything that makes you feel good and positive. You are number ONE priority. 
3. Make a relationship a choice: Live the life you enjoy, the life that makes you happy, and see who you stumble upon because they already like what you like. Don’t make the relationship a goal, make it a choice.

Related reading: 6 Mistakes women make when trying to find their ideal man.

1. Spend time with female friends: If you don’t have a group of female friends already, start making friends.  These group of female friends make your support system to guide you through your life struggles and dating troubles. Let them be your compass, sometimes we need someone looking in to give us direction. Aim at getting together regularly. You’ll feel more grounded when you can bounce thoughts with friends that have your back.
2. Embrace your inner sexy:  Look good and feel incredible just for yourself. Dare yourself to rock red lips on your next night out or wear that little black sexy dress or some sexy lingerie that boosts your confidence.
3. Say goodbye to your insecurities: Make a list of your flaws and qualities. Read them, be honest with yourself and see how many of your flaws really hold up. Maybe your insecurities have been damaging your self-image aren’t really there. Cross those flaws out and gain more confidence in yourself.
4. Do not settle for less: It’s better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship, for the sake of being in a relationship. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t appreciate your worth, who doesn’t make you feel like you’re a queen/king. Life’s too short to throw it away on people who do not appreciate you.
5. Ditch the f*ckboys/girls: If you want to have a booty call, which is totally cool, do it on your terms.  Don’t let others assume you’re available anytime they like and make you feel like sh*t for it. You dictate the terms and you’ll feel a newborn confidence as a result.
6. Most important – being single is not bad: Being single can be awesome, really! You can allocate every second of the day to your self. Do what you feel like without compromise. Stop putting pressure on yourself to find your ‘soulmate’, because, sorry to break it to you, there’s no such thing. Make being single a time you invest in your self, exploring who you are, taking trips to places you always want to see, becoming more of a whole person. It’s only then that you’ll find your match because you know who you are and who will best suit you.

Let 2018 be a year where you are true to yourself and dating becomes more about pursuing relationships not for the sake of being in a relationship, but for being in them because they make you a better person and bring the best in you.

Yes, we’re talking about resolutions, but not the tired old resolutions that usually bring us undone in February when we fall off the new diet or bail on the gym. We’re talking about real, sexy, achievable goals for 2017, goals that will super-charge your sex life.

So, what can you aim to do in the bedroom to guarantee a year of physical and spiritual nirvana? Well, we’re very glad you’ve asked. We’ve put together 20 sex challenges to tick off throughout the year, challenges that will ensure your sexual satisfaction and make 2017 the hottest on record. Check ‘em out:

1 – Try a new sex toy. There’s some amazing stuff on the market this year.

2 – Anal has been super popular of late… give it a crack (pardon the pun).

3 – Have sex in a room you’ve never done it in before.

4 – Shag under the stars – go camping or just hit the backyard.

5 – Try for a threesome, because two is a crowd, but three is unforgettable.

6 – Get wet and wild! Shag in the water; ocean, shower, doesn’t matter.

7 – Put on a show and masturbate for your partner, they’ll love it as much as you will.

8 – Tie someone up (consensually of course!), try rope, cuffs or zip ties, whatever.

9 – Hell, have someone else tie you up!

10 – Have a dirty weekend; pack the car, travel, shag. Simple.

11 – While you’re away on the dirty weekend, knock one out in the car!

12 – Indulge in a little afternoon delight. Shag during the day for a change.

13 – Make a little home made porn, all you need is your phone camera and a co-star.

14 – Chips, dips, chains and whips… try a little BDSM; it hurts so good.

15 – Get back to nature and go naked. Can you do 24 hours straight?

16 – Up the dirty talk, try some no holds barred filth talk and watch the sparks fly.

17 – Food porn. Hit the kitchen and work some fucktastic food into your play.

18 – Swing for the fences. For some swinging is a bold move, but the rewards are huge.

19 – Go public with your shagging. Pick somewhere secluded and have at it.

20 – Try a position marathon. One sex session – ten positions… and GO!

How many of these do you think you’ll be able to cross off the list? Any other sex challenges you think we should add? Tell us below!

Make your sex life a priority.

Not only is this the most important gift to give yourself, whether you are in a relationship or single, but the single most important thing you can offer your current or future partner.

The reason why we think this is the most important New Year’s resolution is because it’s one of the most powerful driving forces for self-improvement.

Promising yourself to have more sex next year only means you are going to be in a better mood more often, a better person for it and be more productive therefore generating more fortune for yourself and the company you work for – expect a promotion.

The desire for more sex will lead you to work out and make healthier choices to attract the opposite sex. The rewards are many: a better body, a boost in confidence and greater sex appeal. Being fitter and glowing with health will bring forward more sex, a reward we all enjoy.

Our advice to you, find a sexy destination to go to have fun and finish your New Year’s Eve with sex.

That said, here are three essential traits you need to make this resolution work for you in the New Year:

Get into fitness

Improve your presentation

Work on your Conversation Skills

So there you have it, the only new years resolution you should have and probably the only one you will try to keep is to have more sex. Besides, sex is a great way to burn calories, it doesn’t cost you a cent and it’s a lot of fun. Sounds like the ultimate resolution, don’t you agree?