Let’s look at why the older men make you experience sex at a new level and you’ll be back for more….

Are you thinking in dipping your toes into dating more mature men? It might just be exactly what you have been looking for….

There are things that get better with age, and men are one of them. Like older women, older men are the best for a naughty date.

Although dating younger men can be fun and exciting, their sexual journey has just started. It takes time, practice and knowledge to perfect the technique of lovemaking, and the older men sure have had enough time to perfect their technique. They understand the female pleasure and care to please their partners.

With an experience man or older man, women will have the cake and eat it too. Older men will focus on you in bed, selflessly ensuring you have an orgasm. They are firm believers that sex should be pleasurable for both.

Let’s look at the little things that older men do that sets them apart from the younger lovers and why older men are the best for a naughty date.

1. Your pleasure comes first and often

With an older man, your pleasure is top priority. He’s not in a hurry, he wants to please you. After years of practice, he knows his way around the female anatomy. He may help you discover parts you didn’t even know you had and achieve orgasms you haven’t experienced yet. He’ll have a dance with you without feeling he has lost his masculinity.

2. Appreciate the varied form of women

Older men have been around. They have learned that women come in many different packages, and they love all of the varied tastes and they appreciate the curves of a woman’s body.  Older men are not looking for perfection but are looking for a perfect encounter with a perfect pleasurable outcome to all involved.  They allow women to feel more relaxed and feel sexier.

3. He knows how to go down on a woman

They’ve had enough time to practice that’s all. Practice makes orgasms, or however the saying goes…..wink, wink

Women learn to master blow jobs early in their sexual lives but guys typically don’t figure out till much later that women enjoy oral sex too. Older man, are more attentive lovers because they’ve learned to listen and know that each and every woman is different when it comes to experiencing pleasure.

4. Sex is amazing with older men

Whilst sex might not last quite as long as it would  with a younger man, when it comes to experience, older men know where it’s at.

5. Open to experiment

Older gents know that sex is not confined to missionary only. They have a broader view of what sex entails. Whether you want to try a bit of kink, a new toy, a threesome or some light BDSM, or new positions that work best for you he will indulge you. More likely than not, he has had some experience in some of the fantasies you want to try out. He also understands that trying new things in bed are just a fun way to enhance everyone’s pleasure.

6. He paces himself

He is well aware of the orgasm gap and actively tries to pace himself so he can finish either with or after you. If he does finish before you,  he’s sure to spend time pleasuring you before calling it quits or rolls over.

The hot silver fox who is ready, willing and able to hold a woman in full, is possibly your next adventure. It’s not a stretch to say that there are many women out there who wouldn’t trade a silver fox for a young bench pressed surfer boy. As with all things sexual, desiring an older man comes down to personal taste and at the stage you are in life, it’s very relative.

No man is perfect but those of us who prefer a mature man know they offer something younger men can’t, not yet anyway. our contemporaries just don’t have.

Would you snag yourself a ‘sliver fox’?

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We’re living longer and we’re living better but how is that effecting us on a sexual level? Well when you think back, society has always relegated sex and sexuality to the realm of society’s young folk. Our sexual iconography has always worshipped at the young, tight altars of firm flesh but in today’s ‘get some’ world everyone is coming to the party sans inhibitions!

Senior sexuality is being dragged into the public eye by the grey brigade and the sounds of hot young things cringing can be heard around the world, but you know what – tough!

For the purposes of this article we’re using the term senior to describe anyone post forty, just to separate the young trendys and everyone else. The mature sex market is a massive and untapped field for the most part. The culture, the lifestyles, the players have traditionally been found on the fringes on popular media, if found at all, but now we’re acknowledging the post fifty sex life and it looks to be a pretty rockin’ bash.

At sites like RedHotPie we’re seeing the re-invigoration of sexuality in the more mature circles. Married couples are out there looking to spice up their bedroom adventures after years focusing on families and careers. Divorcees are discovering that in today’s society there’s no need to move straight into social recluse mode after the break-up of a long term relationship, they’re hitting the single’s scene again and revelling in the fun they last experienced years before. And there is an increasing section of mature singles, happy to enjoy their journey solo, experiencing casual friends and partners and basically embracing the kind of lifestyle that has for so long been exclusively enjoyed by the twentysomethings.

Of course it’s not all orgasm chasing, inhibition losing, free love for everyone all the time; there are a few detours and potholes on the way to sexual nirvana as we head toward our twilight years.

Being the flawed machines that we are our hardware changes with age. This will affect everything from sleeping and eating patterns, personality characteristics and our sexual responses. Decreased estrogen levels in women during menopause is quite often linked with decreased levels of sexual response and libido. Women can experience less lubrication and sensation as well as finding orgasm increasingly difficult to reach. Today however, there are numerous treatments for these effects and women are rocking into their senior years with a vigour their mothers would have most likely killed for.

The gents don’t escape failing tackle either, many fellas will have felt the disappointment of the flaccid dangle, the non-arrival of the party’s most important guest. Erectile dysfunction in older men is quite often a simple case of decreased blood flow in the body. However, as just about everyone on the planet is aware, modern medicine has taken care of that little problem. Drop a pill and raise flagpole, it’s a simple answer to a problem that has dogged mankind throughout the ages!

There are of course numerous health afflictions that will hinder our ability to practice and enjoy sex in our later years but as the general fitness of our mature population increases so does their sex lives. The best thing about this grey dawn is the self perpetuating nature of this sexy scenario. Sex is a great way to stay in shape, it’s a stress reducer and it allows for a real and hopefully lasting connection between humans; in short – have more sex and you’ll be healthier… be healthier and you’ll have more sex! How good is that?

Will any of us watch those Matlock and Golden Girls repeats in the same light again? I think not!