Even though the Södertörn District Court’s judgment stated it “may be proven that the man exposed himself and masturbated on this occasion,” the court decided the man had not committed a crime, a decision the public prosecutor agreed with, though he said in the future public masturbation might be considered disorderly conduct.

“For this to be a criminal offence it’s required that the sexual molestation was directed towards one or more people,” Olof Vrethammar said. “I think the court’s judgement is reasonable. With that we can conclude that it is okay to masturbate on the beach.”

The ruling in the case comes just three months after Sweden’s last major sex scandal, when police in Stockholm announced that a man who fucks bicycles was on the loose.

Source: gawker.com

After calling on the general public for submissions, and after sifting through 1200 letters, postcards and emails, last week The Swedish Association for Sexuality Education (RFSU) settled on ‘klittra.’

A combination of the Swedish words for ‘clitoris’ and ‘glitter,’ klittra was chosen because it “highlights the importance of the clitoris for pleasure.” An important tip, yes, but just not one I think us ladies need to be educated on. Blokes however, feel free to take notes.

While a term that incorporates ‘glitter’ is much prettier than something along the lines of the unpoetic ‘flicking the bean,’ the idea of getting sparkly metallic dust anywhere near the inside of my underpants is about as enticing as an offer of sex on the beach.

The last time we combined glitter with our downstairs area the world ended up with vajazzling and I think we can all agree that was a terrible mistake. (Although finding out a bloke was more attracted to your vagina if it was wearing jewellery was a handy way to separate the marriage material from the chaff.)

According to RFSU spokesperson Kristina Ljungros, “When it comes to masturbation, people mostly think about men doing it and we don’t think of it as common for women. If we don’t have a word in the language, how can we even talk about it?”

Did I miss the memo? I didn’t think we weren’t talking about it because we didn’t have a word for it but because announcing you’re late to dinner as a result of giving yourself a good going over isn’t really considered scintillating mealtime conversation.

The RFSU also suggested that introducing a word for female masturbation was important because the absence of one “suggests we still don’t have gender equality here in Sweden.” I’d have thought a more accurate measure of inequality would be rates of pay rather than the number of times you’ve told someone you spent the afternoon with your hands down your pants, but maybe that’s me?

With over 1200 suggestions from native speakers of a language where the word for ‘final sale’ is ‘slutspurt,’ the mind boggles as to what didn’t make the cut. The two options that klittra narrowly beat were ‘runka’ and ’pulla,’ both of which make liberally dusting your private parts in scratchy glitter sound like a pain free picnic.

The problem with each of three shortlisted words however (pulla is pretty self explanatory and runka means ‘to jerk off’) is that they’re all lacking in discretion. Surely the whole point of coming up with a new word is so women can talk about it without having to explain things literally. But these chosen alternatives are about as clandestine as saying “I’m just off for a quick vagging.”

And while anything that helps people communicate is a good thing it remains to be seen whether klittra will get the official nod and be inserted (pardon the pun) into the Swedish dictionary. In a world where words like grrrl and FOMO make the cut in international dictionaries, a word that’s actually trying to do some good probably deserves its place. But the only way it’ll be officially recognised is if enough people adopt its use and make the word commonplace.

So if you’d like to see klittra survive there’s only one thing to do ladies: close the door, get out the rainbow sprinkles and do your bit for linguistics.

Source: dailytelegraph.com.au

What do you think of klittra? What do you prefer to call it? Let us know below!

A – The Anger Wank
We’ve all been there, a bad day at the office, a friend has pissed you off, you get home to find the cat has puked all over the sofa. You’re annoyed, you’ve had enough. What better way to work of your frustrations than dig out a favourite toy or two and give yourself a couple of shuddering orgasms. It won’t fix your problems, but it will make you feel better about things.

B – The Basic Wank
Can’t be bothered faffing around with toys, lube, etc.? Take it back to basics; enjoy a session with your fingers and your own natural lubricant. Relive the joy of those first furtive fingerings that you gave yourself so many years ago. Sometimes, less is more.

C – The Cunt Filler
Fingers not quite cutting it? Want to feel stretched and full? You remember that mammoth, super-sized dildo you’ve got stashed away for those “need a bit more” situations. Ram it in and feel that delicious fullness.

D – The Danger Wank
We all need excitement. The thrill of the risk of being caught adds to the arousal. It’s the wank in public or semi-public places.

E – The Eclectic Wank
You want to get off, but can’t quite decide how. Fingers? Toys? Frotting against an inanimate object? All of the aforementioned? It’s the wank where you use every tool in your arsenal to get yourself off.

F – The “Fuck This! I’m Having A Wank” Wank
Housework to be done? Ironing to be put away? Washing piling up? You know what, I can’t be arsed, I think I’ll have a wank first.

G – The Gratuitous Wank
The one you do in front of your partner because they are failing to meet your needs (can also be combined with The Anger Wank). You’re doing it for you, not for them. You’re having a wank and you don’t care if they know about it; in fact, you want them to know about it.

H – The Happy Wank
You’re in a great mood, you may or may not know the reason for this, but you’re sure as hell going to enjoy it. And what better way to make a little happiness go that bit further? Yup, work that clit/cock.

I – The Insecure Wank
First date nerves? Worried about if he/she will like/want to fuck you? Settle down and settle yourself before you go out with a quick reminder of just why you are fabulous.

J – The Jealous Wank
Just seen your ex with their latest partner? Feeling a bit down about it. Cheer yourself up with a reminder of what they are now missing out on: you. Can be combined with the Anger and Insecure wanks.

K – The Killer Wank
The kind of wank that leaves you more than just breathless. You’ve cum so hard and so often that you actually feel like you’ve endangered your very existence.

L – The Learning Wank
It’s back to the beginning. It’s the way we learned how we liked to be touched. Thinking back brings back memories of a more “innocent” time.

M – The Mighty Moaner
The frustration has been building up. The release is so powerful. You shout your pleasure from the rooftops and you don’t care who hears you (with the possible exception of your parents). Sometimes combined with The Killer Wank.

N – The Normal Wank
This is your default wank. The one you fall back on when you haven’t the energy/can’t be arsed with anything else. It’s reliable, you know it works, so why fix it?

O – The OMFG!!! Wank
A variation of The Killer Wank and The Mighty Moaner. It produces orgasms so strong you feel like you won’t be able to move for about a week.

P – The Preparation Wank
You know you’re going to get a bloody good seeing-to, but you can’t wait to get started, so you have a quick bit of me time to start things moving.

Q – The Quiet Wank
It’s the middle of the night. You wake up feeling as randy as hell. Beside you, your partner is sleeping soundly, snoring and drooling into their pillow. It would be a shame to wake them. So, quietly does it, trying hard not to disturb them as you wank yourself back to sleep.

R – The Rushed Wank
You’ve got some place to be. You’re meeting a friend for a drink. It’s taken you forever to get ready and if you don’t hurry up, you will definitely be late. One small snag, you’re randy. Probably just got time to dig out the Doxy and scrape yourself of the ceiling after 30 seconds.

S – The Sensual Wank
You have all the time in the world, so take it slowly. Use your favourite body oils and creams. Take time to ensure every inch of you tingles. Savour it. Wallow in it. Enjoy it.

T – The Toy Wank
You want to feel full, you want to feel something thrust deep inside you. You want your cunt to squeeze and grip hard on something as you cum. It’s time for toys. The Cunt Filler is a subset of this wank.

U – The Unexpected Wank
You hadn’t planned to have one; you weren’t even aware that you were particularly randy. Suddenly, midway through Eastenders, you unexpectedly find yourself with your fingers in you knickers. Well, let’s be honest, almost anything is better than watching Eastenders.

V – The Variety Wank
Similar in a way to The Eclectic Wank, but this time the variety is deliberate. You’ve carefully chosen out what toys you are going to use, the lube to apply and you’ve got it all worked out in advance so that you use them all.

W – The Watching Wank
Whether it’s you watching your partner or your partner watching you, or maybe you’re simultaneously watching each other, having an audience can make the experience even more intimate. Can be combined with just about every other wank described in this post.

X – The X-Rated Wank
This is the wank that you do deliberately for your partner. Sometimes also known as the Exhibitionist Wank. You are putting on a show. Your self-pleasure is as much for their arousal as it is for your own enjoyment.
Warning: Can lead to a long, hard, intense fuck.

Y – The “You Touch Me” Wank
Wanking is not a solitary experience. Having a partner bring you off with their fingers, or you doing it to them can be a deeply intense sexual experience.

Z – The Zumba Instructor
I’m cheating here because I can’t think of anything beginning with Z. That said, my Zumba instructor is seriously hot and I would love to do very naughty things to and with her. So maybe this is the category for all those fantasy filled wanks with the people you will never have.

Source: wank-of-the-day.com

Any wank categories we’ve missed? Let us know in the comments section below!

In a new video created by Refinery29, women reveal what they prefer to call their menage a moi time. As one woman in the video puts it: “Masturbation is like a business term, you know? ‘We’ll circle back about this masturbation thing later.’”

For something so enjoyable, masturbation should have an awesome name to match. From “finger painting” to “visiting your safety deposit box,” there are many creative, unique and hilarious names for masturbation for women to choose from.

Source: huffingtonpost.com

Got any choice terms for lady time? Hit us with your favourite slang in the comments section below!

feature image credit: Aubrey-Plaza-Masturbation-Scene

True, most times the horny someone will sneak off to another room, waits until they are alone, or convinces the other one into sex.

But let’s imagine here that it’s late, they’re tired, and, hey—it’s their bed too, right? A glance over the shoulder let’s the horny one know the sleepy partner is not going to wake up anytime soon. So the horny one decides to service the equipment right there in bed.

Sexy pop quiz!!

If you were to wake up totally confused to a familiar shake, only to find it’s your partner taking care of business, solo-style right there besides you in bed?

How would you react?
You could….

A) Laugh

Nobody could blame you if you pissed yourself laughing for waking up to solo –good vibrations. Guess there are worse ways of waking up surprised. Laugh and say: ‘good on you and don’t let me stop you.’ and off to sleep. You don’t want to embarrass your partner for expressing natural sexual urges.

B) Ignore it and pretend you are still asleep – awkward!!

Why interrupt? This is a private moment, no need to embarrass anyone, and there’s certainly no need to interrupt it or your sleep. Maybe if it happens again and it makes you feel awkward you two should talk about it.

C) Shut it down with a loud – WTF

Probably left to discuss the next day since you don’t want to shame your partner for expressing his natural sexual urges, and it is nice he doesn’t feel he has to hide it from you.

D) Lend a hand

In response to the bed tremors, you could offer to lend a hand, as the sounds of your partner in the throes of self-pleasure could turn-on. Lend a hand or your mouth or have sex.

In general, masturbation is a perfectly normal part of our human sexuality. It enables us to be connected to our bodies in affirming and healthy ways. A good thing, however, can go too far.

Let us know what you would do in the comments section?

Three of the bands five vocalists are filmed in a black background, doing their best to sing the notes and words correctly to their new song ‘Go to Go’ while all along a suspicious vibrating devise away from the camera view is distracting them.

Masturbation will lead to orgasm most times and as you see in this film these women look beautiful, vulnerable and happy. No wonder masturbation has a lot of health benefits. The month of May is coming to an end but it surely doesn’t mean that we have to slow down doing one thing that is good for us and feels soooo good too. Let’s send this month off with a blasting masturbation session whether alone, with your partner or special friends.

It makes for a very entertaining viewing as 8 million people on You Tube already agree.

It is a rather original way to illustrate women’s sexuality.

Watch it and let us know what you think:

I stumbled upon this story that has happened in Brazil in 2011. A Brazilian woman took her employers to court after doctors gave evidence about her need to masturbate up to 47 times a day. To everybody’s amazement, especially her employer, the court ruled that she was legally entitled to a 15-minute masturbation break every two hours.

Although this is an extreme situation, many people ask the question what is excessive masturbation? Is four or more times a day excessive? There is no real answer, except that it is only excessive if it starts to interfere with your normal life routine.

Masturbation is something we all do and it’s very normal and a basic part of human sexuality. There are many reasons why masturbation is great, it’s free, it’s pleasurable, it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses and there’s no need to gauge anyone’ interest. Masturbation also has a lot of health benefits. Remember the more you masturbate the stronger your pelvic floor,it helps with ejaculation control, decreases stress. Jerking off also increases your endorphins making for happier individuals, counts as a cardiovascular exercise and increases your sexual confidence. Get started, tug, jerk and thrust your way to better health.

Let’s get celebrating. Whether that be pleasuring yourself as you watch one of our redhot-sexy members tease you in the RedHotPie adult webcam chat rooms, or put on a show for redhotpie members to masturbate to.

While on the topic of masturbation enjoy this video clip from the movie – The Wolf of Wall street.

Do you have any funny or embarrassing masturbation stories? How often do you masturbate? Have you been caught masturbating? Is watching others masturbate a turn-on for you?

Of all the things that affect our sexual satisfaction, the most important element is sexual confidence. Sexual confidence is identifying exactly what you like and dislike, and having the confidence to express it.

Attaining sexual confidence is totally up to you; it is something you can work on. Here are a few tips:

Explore your body:
Find out what pleases you. Knowing what you want and what it takes to make you feel good will give you more confidence. Inevitably this will lead to more fun, which will give you more confidence with sex. The more you do it the better you are at it.

Be willing to get good at sex:
Good sex takes dedication and willingness. Find out what it is going to take you to like and accept yourself. Think yourself attractive; believe it and you’ll be more likely to feel good about yourself in bed. Know what makes you happy sexually. The willingness to surrender and immerse yourself in the interaction is powerful and sexy.

Discover your fantasies:
Try masturbation to discover where and how you like to be touched. Masturbation also might unearth exciting scenarios that you might want to try out in real life.

Role-play:
Experiment with your partner, try role-play scenarios and break out of your comfort zone. Ask for certain sex acts; don’t wait for it to happen. Be sexually adventurous nothing spells confidence than having the eagerness and the creativity to try something new and risky. It ads new dimension to your relationship and helps you gain insight to a new side of your sexual repertoire.

Presentation:
Get a makeover, including hair, make-up. Find the right lingerie that is going to make you feel sexy. Choose an outfit that flaunts the favourite part of your figure and you’ll feel more confident all day. Begin an exercise program to get that toned body to give you extra confidence when you’re naked or when you’re in bed, research shows that exercise boosts your body image.

Sex, is meant to be enjoyed and there are not real rules governing what is good sex. Everyone has their own personal take on what constitutes good sex. Knowing what you like and dislike provides a means to ensure that you and whoever else is involved have great sex every time.

Sexual confidence in one of those things that you can’t just get, you have to work at it. Once you gain the confidence your wild sexual dreams and desires are a stone throw away. Sexually confident people feel comfortable initiating sex and have no qualms about letting you know about their needs and desires.

Most sexually confident people started out with little or no confidence and as time passes they attain sexual confidence by taking responsibility of they own pleasure.

True sexual confidence – relaxed, willing to learn about self and others, ready for what is needed, happy to take charge, and not fazed by either failure or rejection- a person who is able to both give and receive with equal pleasure.

Have you got a tip for gaining sexual confidence? Please let us know?

Masturbation has always been a subject of taboo with a string of myths that perpetuated negative attitudes but science has proven these myths to be wrong. Myths such as; you’ll go blind, lose your strength, or grow hair on the palms of your hands are just a few myths people used to tell about masturbation. Of course here at RHP we don’t need medical science to tell us that masturbation is actually good for you but it is nice to have science on our side.
What science does say about masturbation, however, is that it has a whole bunch of health benefits. Here’s how a little self-play can keep your body, mind and your sex life in shape:

Your Body

Whether you’re male or female, masturbation is a fun way to stay in shape. It’s a form of exercise! No need to leave home to go to the gym! A great winter sports, don’t you think, exercise while keeping warm and getting that much needed loving…
Playing with yourself helps to boost your immune system and keeps you in good physical shape. Plus, the muscle relaxation you feel after an orgasm can help with sleeping better, cure short-term aches and pains, while the longer-term benefits include lowering your heart rate and blood pressure.

For men, regular masturbation helps maintain a healthy hard-on and can even help men learn to prolong sex (something ladies really appreciate). For women, it can alleviate menstrual cramps and speed up recovery from urinary tract infections and exercise your pelvic floor muscles, which will help you enjoy more powerful orgasms (that’s enough said there ladies).

Masturbation and orgasm both burn calories, and the phenethylamine that floods into your bloodstream when you orgasm is an appetite suppressant, so it can even help you stay slim. Now here’s a diet plan more people would be likely to stick to!

Your Brain

If you’re feeling stressed or depressed, self-love is just the thing to indulge in. Along with the mood-boosting effects of dopamine and oxytocin, the endorphins you release when you orgasm help to fight depression and anxiety.

Your Sex Life

We’re here because we care about our sex life. You’ll be happy to know that masturbation makes you more attractive! How you ask? Some of that attraction is hormonal, but the circulation boost you get when you masturbate will also give your skin a natural, healthy glow and that big smile on your face after orgasm will help too.

Masturbation is good for your body, your mind and your sex life and it’s side effect free. If there was a pill that could do all that we’d all be buying it. Now that we know all the benefits what are you still doing here jump in bed and get busy…

While we’re on the subject of Masturbation, how about if we get some feedback from you about this topic? Or why not jump on the member forums and read what others have to say?

‘Female Masturbation.’ Read it here

‘Toys for men’s pleasure.’ Read it here

‘In celebration of masturbation.’ Read it here