It’s a huge turn on for most of us, it’s about pushing your limits and crossing things off your sex bucket list. Whether it’s double penetration fantasy, or a full on no holes bared gangbang with 5-10 guys, you’re sure to have a wild time doing it.

The reality is that many women love gangbangs, it’ anonymous, it’s indulgent and is filled with powerful and consecutive orgasms.

Although many women have this on their to do list very few actually go through with it for a variety of reasons.
It’s an evening filled without constrains, without taboos, just egotistical, selfish pleasure and uninhibited sexuality.

So how do you organise a gang bang?

Here are a few steps to consider if you are going to organise one, followed with a video with your favourite porn star describing one, as well as share their experiences performing in one.

What is a gang bang?

It’s a sex session where four or maybe more people “Bangers” have sex with one person “Center”.

All the attention is on the center, the whole night is about her pleasure.

Takes some planning

Organise the bangers and tell them exactly what is expected. Organise a venue and drinks, nibbles and towels. Remember when you’re dealing with more than two people, finding a date that suits everybody can be tricky. So don’t leave things to last minute.

Finding Bangers

This should be the easiest part right? Especially when you have an awesome App like RHP

It turns out it can be a challenge, despite the huge number of guys you see claiming they’d be right there for a gang bang, but some will chicken out.

Word of advice, cast a slightly wider net in the event that one or even two of these guys will be no shows.

Be physically & mentally ready for a huge sex session

Make sure that you are ready for a night where you are going to push boundaries and your sexuality.

Look seductive

This will get things started real quick, half the bangers are bursting to get things rolling as much as you do. Really there’s no need to discuss anything, it’s understood it’s all about you.

At the end it’s all worth it

Gang bangs will leave you fulfilled and bring you to understand the meaning of ‘ getting fucked out of your brains’. Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience if it’s conducted and carried out in a well-organized manner, and if you’re in the right place mentally for it.

Here is the video that the people at WoodRocket’s YouTube decided to put together. They asked some of our favourite adult film stars to both describe one, as well as share their experiences performing in one.

Yeah sounds pretty intense, but hey, maybe it’s something you might be into. If not, it’s always fun to hear about it.

Fantasized about a gang bang? Participated in one? Would you do it again?
What did you enjoy most about it

Women are becoming more open with their thoughts about it and many women are increasingly more comfortable exploring this fantasy.

Keep in mind that, every woman is different and some will love DP and others won’t. It really depends on personal preference for each woman and what stirs her sexual desires.

DP isn’t for everyone, but master this erotic sex move and you could seriously up your orgasm game.

A woman’s body is designed to receive and accommodate pleasure with endless possibilities. Take DP, whether it’s vag or vag and anal, many women love the pleasure they can achieve through this sex act.

A vagina is made up of ton of muscles, which are made to stretch. Fisting, large toy play and DP can be enjoyed if you are patient with your body and have realistic expectations.

If you think you want to give this fantasy a go, remember that it takes time to learn any form of pleasure. First, you need to feel comfortable and then you need to teach your body to re-learn a new form of receiving pleasure.

Start Small

While trying anything new it’s important to remember to go slow and do your prep work. Be well lubricated, very aroused and practice until it all feels right for you.
Start with a small toy, or fingers and then move to a bigger toy or to having two toys or maybe your partner and a toy inside you.

Practice

DP is a sex act that can lead to mind blowing orgasms but before then you need to practice getting your body familiar to it.

For women penetration through thrusting rhythmically is pleasurable as is the feeling of fullness and having multiple partners. The sensation of feeling full or stretch can create an amazing and intense sensation of pleasure.

Pleasure is pleasure, no matter in what form or style it is achieved. There are things that will get your juices going and others that will leave you feeling like a dry leaf.

Every body is different! But go slow, see what works and what doesn’t, and be patient.

Don’t knock DP until you’ve tried it…

Have a read through and then hit us below with your own Sexual Bucket list top 10, or if you’re feeling super-frisky, gives us a top 50!

1 – Kiss a girl

2 – Have anal

3 – Have a threesome

4 – Engage in group sex

5 – Have phone sex

6 – Masturbate

7 – Use a vibrator

8 – Use a sex toy on someone else

9 – Be tied up

10 – Tie someone up

11 – Have sex in a public space

12 – Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)

13 – Sex in a car

14 – Sex at a drive-in

15 – Mile-high club

16 – Sex with a stranger

17 – One-night stand

18 – Married sex

19 – Sex on a boat

20 – Sex in a body of water

21 – Light spanking

22 – Read erotica

23 – Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game

24 – Sex in the shower

25 – Sex standing up against a wall

26 – Sex with no kissing

27 – Sex in the pitch black

28 – Sex in the broad daylight

29 – Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin

30 – Sex in a tent in the wilderness

31 – Watch porn together

32 – Watch porn alone

33 – Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms

34 – Sex on the beach

35 – Blindfolds

36 – Using ice sexually

37 – Sexual role play

38 – Whipped cream

39 – La Perla lingerie sex

40 – Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex

41 – Sex with someone much older

42 – Sex with someone younger (legal!)

43 – Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner

44 – A quickie in a skirt

45 – A longie in the rain

46 – Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you

47 – Feather ticklers

48 – Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else

49 – Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone

50 – Silent sex in a full house

Source: thestir.cafemom.com

Swinging has been described as a form of recreational social sex between consenting adults, usually consisting of mixed (male and female) couples of various sexual orientation meeting other such couples for fun both in and out of the bedroom. Some couples may only seek sexual relations, but many prefer to develop a firm friendship with sexual shenanigans seen as a bonus. Indeed, there are no black or white rules in terms of what swinging couples engage in.

Swinging Steps

Swinging (often referred to as ‘the lifestyle’, or ‘the scene’) can be enjoyed in many different ways. Although single women and single men participate in the lifestyle, swinging is primarily for couples since you need a partner to swing with. Singles who participate in threesomes and group sex have been termed as ‘swingles’.

Female bisexuality is almost considered the norm in the scene with many couples taking up swinging (sometimes exclusively) to engage in girl-on-girl fun. Male bisexuality isn’t as prevalent but from all accounts, when the right combination of couples is hit, the all-way interactions guarantee a busy night for all. Straight males should certainly not worry about being ‘man-handled’ if meeting a bi couple since most people respect sexual orientation in the scene.

Then there are also different play preferences. Some couples like to go ‘all the way’, and swap partners for sexual intercourse, whereas some couples prefer same-room sex only and limit their physical interaction with other couples. In general, most couples are happy to at least swap foreplay (kissing, oral sex etc.) with other couples, although it is not uncommon to hear of exclusively voyeuristic couples or partners who prefer to simply watch.

Benefits of Swinging

There are many reasons why people are attracted to the lifestyle. A lot of couples find the idea of having sex with other people very arousing, and it is not unusual for swinging to become a catalyst for improving their own sex lives and relationship. Some people may feel stifled by conservative attitudes towards sexuality, and welcome the opportunity to form a social network with like-minded people. Others view sex as a natural potential between people who are mutually attracted to each other, and therefore enjoy the open-mindedness that the scene provides regarding this concept.

Swinging is also a perfect way for individuals to explore his or her bisexuality, and in particular, women who have felt inhibited in the past to express their high sex drive, can do so amongst other open-minded people without the fear of being labelled. Also, people often learn a great deal about themselves and their sexualities through the lifestyle. For example, many discover that having their partner actively enjoy and appreciate what they are experiencing during sex to be a huge turn-on.

Look Before You Swing

Although the swinging scene has considerable merits for many, it may not be suitable for other people for a number of reasons. For example, if you are uncomfortable with people being sexually attracted to you, then the lifestyle may not be right for you. Similarly, if your relationship with your partner is unstable, you might find seeing him or her in an intimate situation with another person an upsetting experience. If you and your partner cannot communicate directly about relationships and sex, you’re probably destined for disaster in the scene, where honesty and trust is paramount. In general, sex can provoke strong feelings, along with its many pleasures, and if you aren’t confident in dealing with your emotions, then it may be better to wait a little while before exploring the scene.

For those who are ready to dive in, these following points should be considered to make the most of the scene. In the context of swinging, ‘couples’ don’t need to be life partners (married, de facto, etc.) but they should have at least a little history together and familiarity with each others’ emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others as a couple. The general rule of thumb is that swinging works best when couples view the lifestyle as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than as a replacement one that isn’t ‘working’ anymore.

Keep It Fun

Good communication is critical in any attempt at swinging as a couple. There are numerous different forms that swinging may take, and whatever path you take is fine as long as you and your partner are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex is potentially a highly emotional issue, and the pleasures that may be found in swinging can be reached only when both partners put their needs second to their partners. Furthermore, it might be valuable for you to think about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be uncomfortable in, and discuss these with your partner.

It’s also important to keep in mind that swinging is primarily a social activity. Therefore, the usual social rituals of meeting people apply, and the process by which acquaintances become close friends is not that different either. The key social traits that tend to be appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability in one’s primary relationship.

Finally, it is important for couples to keep in mind that there is no rush in entering the scene. Even if your first attempt is not successful, you can try again after openly working out what it was about the first attempt that didn’t go well. It’s vital that you keep an open mind and understand that your first, or even second, experience is not an indication of how swinging will always be for you. Like having sex for the first time, with some patience and learning, things can only improve over time.