The suspects, workers from a condom factory in the northern state of Perak, will be held for police investigation until Saturday, local police chief Shukri Dahlan told state media.

“Having questioned the suspects, we have reason to believe that this was the job of an international syndicate,” Shukri said.

Sagami Rubber Industries said earlier this month that about 726,000 polyurethane condoms, with a retail value of around $US1.5 million, were loaded into a container at a factory in Malaysia, but the shipment was empty when it arrived in Tokyo.

Source: ninemsn.com.au

Aren’t you the guy who fixed our computer?

One of the key reasons people still seem hesitant to post their face shots on sites like RedHotPie, or even sign up on one at all, is the fear of being recognised by people they know. Now, I do get the need for discretion but I always find it amusing that people worry about being spotted by those who are pretty much on the RHP for largely the same reasons. I think this has a lot to do with most people preferring to keep their horizontal life separate to their vertical one. Indeed, it does keep things uncomplicated. I suspect also that some couples actually enjoy appearing benign and boring in their ‘normal’ world and reserve their wild, sexy persona as a naughty little secret.
For others, having their sexuality speculated on by people who have otherwise only known them as their co-worker, local councillor or barista is plain horrifying. Alternatively, there’s also the concern that revealing such a personal and vulnerable side of yourself shoots down any sort of professional or social face you’ve put up to that person. Rather sad to think that you’re potentially viewed as being less of an upstanding citizen or responsible employee just because you enjoy having an extra person or two in the bedroom every now and then. I’d like to think that we’ve moved beyond that sort of mindframe but I certainly wouldn’t knock a couple for wanting to safeguard their lives, especially if they believe their livelihood or family’s well being may be negatively affected by narrow-mindedness.
To be fair, nothing should matter more to you than maintaining ‘normality’, especially where work and family are concerned but it makes sense to simply apply common sense to swinging. Consider how likely it is to meet people on RHP that you know in the real world. Is that likelihood affected by you living in the city or the country? How bad (really) would it be if someone did discover that you dabble in group sex? Weigh up all the risk factors before resorting to clandestine meetings and using false names.

Can you be discreet but still have fun?

Ironically, as much as this article is about discretion, there happens to be a lot of couples playing the game and therefore competition aplenty. You may think that with so many couples online on RHP, your chances of meeting people would be high but you’d be sadly mistaken. Couples are very much driven by visuals first, with written content and other details sealing the deal for a play match. So how can you stand out from the crowd if you don’t want to put up photos and rely on one or two cautious sentences to sell yourself?
If discretion is of paramount importance to you then you have to accept that you probably can’t be passive players. By this I mean that your profile is unlikely to get hit on purely because it exists. It’s going to be up to you to strike up the first conversation. This most often will mean paying some level of membership in order to initiate contact with people, unless you’re content to be an online wallflower. If you have the power to approach people, you can describe yourself in better detail via messages and give people access to private galleries. If things don’t lead anywhere, then turn off that access and no harm done. If someone bites, you can determine the next level of personal information to provide and take things from there.

How discreet is too discreet?

Fortunately, online dating sites afford people a good amount of anonymity and you can ultimately control the amount of information you provide others. In short, there would have to be a complete freak occurrence for someone to randomly pick you out of thousands of profiles and work out exactly who you are. More often than not, it’s error in judgment on the user’s side that gives their game away. For example, if you live in a country town with a population of two thousand people, it may be wise to list yourself as residing elsewhere, especially if the majority of your playtime is spent out of your home town anyway.
As I touched on previously, I wouldn’t criticise a couple for going to certain lengths to maintain discretion but if it starts to affect your mental health (ie – you’re constantly looking over your shoulders) or if your efforts start to work against you in that no one wants to meet you for being too cagey, then you may need to review your strategy. It’s all very well to be discreet but is there a fine line between protecting your identity and failing to provide enough of yourself to attract others and to maintain a meaningful friendship if that is what you seek.
Other than a small number of couples who purely seek NSA (no strings attached) play-only arrangements, you’ll find that most couples will want to engage in a more social, friendly relationship over time. This means discussing work, lifestyle, family and other things that give people an insight into your personality. Unless you are a high profile couple (celebrity, politician or church leader etc.), most people won’t understand your need for Grade A secrecy and may even mistake it for pretentiousness. As such, you should gauge your need for discretion based on the friendships you make; bit by bit. If you’re going to constantly worry about whether your new friends’ cousin’s chiropractor knows the president of your child’s P&C, then you should stick to NSA swinging. If your new friends also still only know you by your false names a year on, you could also be taking things a bit too far.

What happens when your ‘normal’ & swinging worlds collide?

This will happen from time to time. You’ve left the ladies to sort the details of a drinks date (not unusual given it’s the best way to determine that a couple is bona fide). You rock up at the local pub and it’s only then you work out that the guy from the other couple is in fact the policeman who gave evidence against you at your hearing for urinating in public. Stranger things have happened. What do you do? You act like civil adults and either agree to enjoy a chat over drinks (whether you consider playing later in spite of the circumstances is up to you all) or decide to call it a night there and then on the understanding that there is an unwritten law of discretion in swinging. It may be tempting to tell your mates that Constable Mean is on an adult dating website but then you’d need to explain to them why *you* know (and don’t say you just came upon the information; they’ll work it out for themselves). You don’t do anything silly because the other party can be just as stupid and before you know it, you’ll be known on RHP as the guy who cut a slash in public and what couple is up for meeting classy folk like that? It’s a win-win situation to remain quiet. That’s just how it is.
On a less dramatic scale, should you come across the parents of your child’s classmate or the lady who owns the local beauty salon, don’t freak out. It may be embarrassing and uncomfortable initially but it’s no less so for the other party. Just be adults about it and move on as if it’s cool. You’re not doing anything illegal and if the other party are online RHP as well (or at a swingers party etc.) then their definition of what’s normal or weird isn’t going to differ too much from yours. You’re not obliged to play with people you bump into in Swingerland so in the grand scheme of things, it’s not that bad is it? I think it’s much worse to be caught urinating in public personally.

It’s going to be hotter than a Hades and we want the best in the west to get along, after all, how can we give you the thumping great plasma screen TV if you don’t show up?

No, Father Christmas ain’t got nothin’ on us; once again we’ll be the stand giving away the giant plasma screen because we’re about the love, big electrical goods love in this case!

Not only are we hookin some lucky punter up telly style, we’ve also arranged a gut busting, RedHot Sexpo ticket offer. Yup, if you head on over to the SEXPO SITE, select the tickets you want and then just punch in the code RHP09 you’ll be paying $20 instead of the normal $25 for your ticket… cool huh?!?

You can bet your sweet behind that this year’s Perth Sexpo is going to be the best yet with heaps of amazing attractions including…

– The RedHotPie Amateur Strips

– The Sexpo Ashes series (win a trip to London!!!)

– Pricasso

– Russell Gilbert

– Penthouse Pet Suzie Q

– Amateur Pole Dancing

– The Amateur Strips

– The Laporium

– Hypnotist Mark Anthony

– Bad boys

– Strip Poker

So come along and experience the fun and frivolity of Sexpo, and take our Plasma… no pun intended… promise.

Now these are some seriously attractive young girls, and this guy is a rock star of the highest order, sure… but 30 years? When does the gap become too great? Does it ever become to great? The late Anna Nicole-Smith may have suggested that it does not… well dear Anna, bless your soul… we think maybe it does.

Now having said that, we’re gonna firstly state that there is no proof that anything happenned between Ireland’s rock god and those hard bodied young ladies; Bono’s marriage to his wife of 28 years is one of the strongest in show biz, but that said… say they all had a few drinks, a little bit of dancing broke out at the club, then maybe they all headed back to the luxury yacht, they had a few more drinks and before you know it Bono was on all four bleeting like a goat while the two girls stripped for their rock sugar daddy… we’re just saying, it might have happened. And so what if it did, Bono is a nice enough guy, he keeps himself in shape and he’s got a brain in his head. Is there anything wrong with women being attracted to the strong, older male type? Why does it happen?

Well the head shrinkers will point you gently toward the daddy – daughter relationships which can get a little sus if you look at the scenario too hard; long story short, some girls crave the strong father figure, the guiding hand and validation that a father figure can provide – as they move away from the family home they can look for those qualities in a lover, in many cases they have been without a father figure for long periods, if not their whole lives.

Another aspect in the attraction can simply be chalked up to power. The older, dominant male that weilds power and status can be quite intoxicating to younger women. Power by association is still power and it’s a basic human condition to want it. This relationship works so very beautifully due to the fact that in Western civilisation, one of the socially accepted perks of being a powerful male with wealth and standing is the ability to date beautiful young women… some perk.

Not that the gent in question would mind a lot of the time but there are more than a few girls that can bunndle the older man chase into a wider act of rebellion against society, family or themselves. No matter how common place it is, the young girl/senior gent relationship is a little tabboo making it a little more dangerous in the eyes of some girls.

So drop in some comments below… have you been on either side of a relationship that spanned the years… how did it work out for you and what are your thoughts on such relationships today?

Last Month
The latest Fantasy House Party on Saturday 25th August was a huge success, packed to the gills with hot couples all eager to chase away the winter blues with some sexy fun. It was a steamy night of fun, with everyone having a wonderful night of dancing, mingling and naughtiness. If you haven’t been lucky enough to go to one of these parties yet don’t despair, these parties look set to keep coming, so keep an eye out and get in quick, invites to these parties disappear fast!

This Month
The next big Prima Nocta event will be held on Saturday 29th September, and this time it’s Everything French. All things French is the journey Prima Nocta want to take you on. French house and electro sounds will have you dancing the night away while our Moulin Rouge inspired Burlesque acts entertain everyone. So dress up in your sexiest French inspired outfits and join us for a night to remember. Bessie Bardot our patron of everything French will be host for the 5th time in a row and plans a whole lot of fun. There will be plenty of live performances and sexy tunes to keep you entertained and feeling sexy. This is going to be a huge night so get your tickets quick!

The next Fantasy House Party will be held on Saturday September 29th and is close to sold out already, so get in quick to experience these amazing parties! The parties have been a huge success, offering a night of extravagance and pleasure in the decadent setting of a historic and vividly decorated private art gallery. Dress sexy and provocative, and be prepared to leave your inhibitions at the door.

This month Lotus Lounge’s fantastic Fantasy Friday theme is Toga Party! On September 28th break out the sheets for a sexy night of toga fun. As usual the best dressed couple will win a month’s free entry, so get in touch with your inner Greek god’s and goddesses and head down to Lotus for a steamy night of fun.

QLD

Last Month
Couples International held a huge party to celebrate their 1st birthday on Saturday 18th August. There was a theme of Favourite Movie Star or Character, and plenty of people turned up dressed as their fave sexy personage. There was a great DJ playing groovy tunes all night, a pool competition, and even a steamy strip competition for those who wanted to show off! Some of the women who got up and stripped definitely had the men drooling, there was some seriously sexy women there! CI also gave away 2 free year’s membership to two very lucky couples, both of whom looked extremely happy to win! It was definitely a birthday bash to remember!

The fun continued at Couples International on Saturday 8th September with their sexy Back To School 4 theme night. There was plenty of sexy schoolgirls, hot nurses and kinky police having a steamy good time. The sex education classes were a lot of fun, with some people immediately putting to use the sexy lessons learned on this night of hot fun.

This Month
If you’re interested in bondage and discipline, then head down to Couples International on Saturday 29th September for their Bondage and Discipline theme night. Whips, chains, straps, gags and more will abound, come explore your darker side for a night. Adam Power will be performing, and there’s bound to be plenty of wicked sexy people eager to expand their horizons, so head down for some discipline, you naughty naughty people!

VIC

Last Month
Parties of the Caribbean- A Pirate’s Pleasure was the most recent fabulous RHPDrinks event on Saturday 8th September. Loads of sexy couples destroyed the winter blues and partied hard dressed up as tempting wenches and dashing pirate lords. There was podium dancers that got people up on the dancefloor shaking their groove thing, and Kittens Angels were back again to entice and entertain. Kittens Catwalk Chaos held naughty body shots that entertained all, and there were plenty of great prizes and giveaways to score throughout the night. And as if all this wasn’t enough, there was even a special makeup area to give people authentic looking fake scars and tarot readings available. It was a huge night of sexy fun for all.

This Month
The next Saints and Sinners Ball is coming up on Friday 5th October, and the theme this time is Egyptians and Romans. Melbourne’s legendary Saints & Sinners Ball attracts broadminded adults, exhibitionists, voyeurs and more, all of whom enjoy a raunchy night out. With a multi-level venue, there’s dj’s playing music to suit all tastes, performances and competitions to keep everyone entertained, and areas for all sorts of fun. Whether you want to dance the night away or spend some time being taught a lesson by the resident Masters and Mistresses, this is an erotic night out not to be missed.

PURR’s Dirty Disco party is happening Friday 12th October, and is bound to be one very hot night. Think flares, platform shoes, hot pants, open shirts with chains, lycra jumpsuits, afros and bright patterns. Here’s your chance to break out the sparkly short shorts and boob tubes and get down and boogie. Join the sexy fun of PURR for a night of sensual delights.

WA

This Month
RHPEVENTS are celebrating the warmer weather with another fabulous Deen party, this time themed for those who like to dress up! RHP’s Wild Wild West party will be happening Saturday 22nd September, and is sure to be huge. There will be plenty of sexy cowboys and bar wenches grooving away to funky tunes, the gorgeous RHP promo girls will be mingling and taking photos, and there will even be sexy dancers on stage to keep everyone entertained. Hurry and get your tickets to this huge night of sexy fun.

Perth Inner Circle is also back with the warmer weather, with another sexy party happening Saturday 6th October. These sexy nights are always full of steamy fun, so keep an eye on RedHotPie’s Parties and Events for details and start getting ready for a naughty night of sin!

Take this opportunity to dust off the cobwebs of winter’s cold and lonely plight and embrace the new season and the new you. You could head outdoors for an endorphin boosting workout, go check out some sweet smelling flowers or head to RedHotPie.com.au to find a magnitude of love and good times just waiting for your arrival.

Spring is synonymous with good times so you’ll need to meet some amazing people to party with all the way through the summer months. And if all goes well you should have a snuggling partner by the time the next chilly season rolls around!

At RedHotPie, we can answer any sexual questions you may have, and there’s so much to check out. In amongst all the dates rolling in of course! So to maximize your spring-time romance potential, log on now and hook up fast!

Rounding out the entertainment were the MC’s for the event, the wild John Savage and gorgeous Bessie Bardot, who introduced the hourly stage shows to enthrall the punters with some of Australia’s hottest talent. This including not one, but two of Australia’s Miss Nudes, Trinity and Arianna Starr who put on their dazzling shows for the lads while the ‘Bad Boys’ male stripper troupe had all the girls wet with anticipation awaiting their hot and salacious stage shows. Penis puppeteer Alan Length showed of some of his patented new moves and the famous Tim Patch offered up caricatures of leading political figures drawn fittingly with his penis.

Taking in the event were dozens of media groups such as FHM, the Sydney Morning Herald, and the Daily Telegraph. We even had an appearance by the Chaser crew for an upcoming episode of ‘The Chasers War on Everything’ show. The great carnival atmosphere was enjoyed by all who attended this years Sydney Sexpo. For all of those who did not get a chance to attend the show, remember that the show will be pulling into Melbourne in November and then Brisbane in February of next year so make sure you drop by the RedHotPie stand and say hello.

This year, in its 10th year anniversary, Sexpo is back bigger and better then ever before with tens of thousands of attendees estimated for the event. MC-ing the night will be the sensational Bessie Bardot with help from Miss Nude Australia, the sexy Arianna Starr, who will also be entertaining us with some erotic strip shows. This sexy duo will be introducing the likes of Alan Length, The Master Penis Puppeteer, who will be performing his live stage show. Here he will be showcasing his new tricks such as ‘The Fortune Cookie’, the ‘Cocks Plate’ and the ‘Tongue in Cheek’ as well as old favorites like the ever popular ‘Hamburger,’ the ‘Snail’ and the ‘Swollen Thumb.’

Also on stage will be penile artist Tim Patch who will be there to unveil his latest portraits of famous political figures such as John Howard and Kim Beazley. Given the current state of the political landscape in Australia, these images are appropriately drawn with his penis. A new addition to the Sexpo line up is the Worlds First Sex Train. This cheeky take on the traditional show-ground favourite, The Ghost Train, gives riders kinkier kind of thrill. And of course, there’s my personal favorite, the Amateur Strip Tease competition. It would not be a Sexpo without letting members of the audience get on stage and shake their groove thang to the applause of the audience. While you’re waiting around between shows, why not drop by the RedHotPie stand and say hello to our sexy RedHotPie staff!

To take in the spectacle that is the Sexpo experience, get yourself down to the Hordern Pavilion and the Royal Hall of Industries, near FOX studios in Moore Park. Doors will be opening at 11.00am from the 27th to 30th of July 2006.

KERRY‘s TOP 10 BENEFITS OF SEX

1. Helps you live longer.

2. Strengthens your heart – Sex is a great cardio workout.

3. Reduces stress – Anti Stress chemicals are produced in the act of love

4. Strengthens bones and muscles – Sex also produces essential hormones needed to strengthen your body.

5. Keeps you mind sharp and Improves your memory – How many of us can forget the first time we had sex all those years ago, for better or worse?

6. Helps you look younger – Sex produces estrogen in women, which makes their hair shiny and skin smooth

7. Boost the Immune System – Sex also produces powerful antioxidants and hormones in your body.

8. Provides pain relief – The body produces natural pain relievers during sex

9. Reduce the risk of prostate cancer – ?!?!? I will take her word on this.

10. Essential to mental wellbeing – Sex is a essential part of the human condition and contributes to mental wellbeing.