Is it a night filled with sparkling champagne, strong cocktails, lingerie, sexy costumes, crowds of sexy, open-minded people and holiday cheers?

Here is a list of RHP most desirable Xmas parties and events destinations  around the country that offer all of these and more:

New South Wales

RHP Social Sydney Xmas drinks – Fri, 9^th Dec

RHP Social has been designed for discerning sexy singles and couples who would like to take their time to unwind and get to know other singles and couples in a safe, fun and sexy environment.

Nothing is more powerful than building that electric, sensual connection over a few drinks, knowing glances and a few cheeky smiles.

Red Heaven Presents – Christmas in Wonderland – Sat, 17^th Dec

hose who are inquisitive about what Red Heaven is, now is the time to take the leap down that rabbit hole, to a new world of curious fun and diverse reality. In the words of the Cheshire Cat…. ‘I’m not crazy. My reality is just different from yours.’

Christmas in Wonderland will have the extraordinary DJ line up of Issy, Du Jour and Alex Taylor and wonderful performers leaving you full of wonderment and excitement.

Our Secret Spot – Xmas Party – Fri, 23^rd Dec

This is the big one that you all have been waiting for and as you know it’s always the biggest in the Secret Spot.

Come party with us at the Secret Spot and surrender to your fantasies.

Make it a night to remember

Western Australia

Christmas Party @ Pleasure Lounge, Fri 9^th Dec

Red Christmas Party
BELMONT
Wear something Red!
Come join in the sexy festivities.
Make Santa come!!!
Fun and games and giveaways.
Then when the Bell tolls… its time to loose some items of clothing.

Perth Socialites Christmas Get together –  Sat 10^th Dec

It’s time for Perth Socialites members and non-members to mix n mingle while celebrating all things Christmassy.

Daytime Catch Up: 2 – 6pm
Lets meet in the Beer Garden (with a kids play area) at a Hotel we have used previously for a Meet.
For those who don’t care to drive, it is situated right across from a Train Station…

Food and drinks are pay as you go.

Nighttime Party: 8pm – 12

A private club is ours to party on till midnight, so lets all spread some Christmas cheer with the sexy Socialites and RHPers…..
Cost $25 per person (pre-paid) covers entry, welcome drink, food & ice.
As we need a minimum number for this venue, all registrations and payments are to be made by December 1^st..

CHRISTMAS EVE @ Pleasure Lounge, Sat 24^th Dec

Christmas Eve
Free Meet n Greet and Then Party
BELMONT

Relax on Christmas Eve with Drinks with friends from 6pm
Then A special Fun night

Xmas Eve Party @ Sensationz, Sat 24^th Dec

We are a Nudist/Swingers Club. Come celebrate Xmas Eve with us.

We have 2 Saunas, 2 pool tables, table tennis Table, 2 private rooms + Open play/lounge area with adult movie showing. Massage room, BYO bar area & dance floor.

BOXING DAY FUN@ Pleasure Lounge, Mon 26th Dec

BOXING DAY FUN

Belmont

COME AND HANG OUT WITH LIKE MINDED PEOPLE

Have a Spa, Watch The test match
Have some fun, no pressure just come and enjoy the day, from 11am bring your leftovers
and drinks.

Boxing Day Public Holiday Party @ Sensationz, Mon 26th Dec

Enjoy Boxing Day with us!

We have 2 Saunas, 2 Pool Tables, Table Tennis Table, 2 Private rooms + Open room/lounge area with adult movie showing.

Massage room to really relax.

BYO bar area & dance floor.

Queensland

Brumbies Summer Lovers Xmas Party – Fri, 16^th Dec 

The world-famous Surfers Paradise beach and breathtaking skyline remains a major draw cards for millions of Gold Coast visitors each year.

We will be cooking up a storm with a famous Aussie BBQ on us and The Brand New and Exciting Club opening just a 5 min drive from Surfers Paradise
But when the Brumbies are in town the only place that will be thriving is our Summer Lovers Night. Running successful parties with raving and glowing feedback from all our couples and single girls who attend our Sydney based parties, the Brumbies are bringing our flair and hosting capabilities to Surfers Paradise for one special night.

The Official Mike’s Place Sexy Saturday Xmas Party – Sat, 24^th Dec

This is the one to attend if you can.

The Sexy Saturday Xmas Party is designed for the Saturday Patrons who can make it and aren’t Partied out already.
Come dressed as Sexy Elves and Santa’s Helpers. Lots of tinsel – red, green and white.
Tis the season to be merry…..come on come all.
Rumour has it that Santa will make an appearance…..

HO HO HO- Chateau Vino’s Xmas Party for Patrons & Guest – Sat, 17th Dec

Merry Christmas Everyone.

Please join the management and staff of Chateau Vino in celebrating Xmas 2016 with our annual Christmas Party. Dress like Santa in Summer, or a sexy elf and win some great prizes too.
The heat will be ON,  but the air-con keeps us cool…. cool enough to keep playing until the early hours.
Chateau Vino – It’s where swingers meet, party and play

Victoria

Melbourne Swingers Christmas Party, Sat, 17^th Dec

Ho Ho Ho Merry Xmas. Santa is on his way and bringing the Christmas cheer to all who come. Whether you’re naughty or nice, kinky or straight come along and enjoy the shows from the amazing Donny and Fetish House. The Rockin DJ Dave will be in the house. Prizes, Entertainment and lots more.

Walk through the doors at Shed 16 and leave you inhibitions in your locker, with your clothes and enter the new world order of Hedonism.

Purr’s Silver & White Xmas – Fri, 16th Dec

Purr is once again pleased to announce our legendary Xmas event – Silver & White Xmas.

This is the big one that you all have been waiting for and as you know it’s always the biggest Purr.

Allow yourself to surrender and let new fantasies come alive.

If you are more into one-on-one encounters why not post a few dates on DATEFINDER and ensure you celebrate your holiday season in a more personal style.

Merry Christmas Everyone!

RHP Halloween party guide

Our brains reaction to a stressful situation will produce adrenaline and dopamine – the feel good feelings that enhance how a person feels.

So why not take advantage of all the events and parties all around the country for Halloween. Moods’ set, all you have to do is show up.

Check the list below and take your pick:

New South Wales

Day of the Dead: Halloween Party @ Our Secret Spot, Sat 29th Oct

This years theme is Día de los Muertos or…

Day of the Dead

The evening will be a fun filled night featuring:

– A skilled face painter doing calaveras (skull) makeup
– Erotic Strip Show
– Day of the Dead themed refreshments
– Prize Hitachi Wand Giveaway for best dressed couple

Sydney Beach Party @ Brumbies Couples Parties, Fri 28th Oct

Although it’s not a Halloween party, we thought it was worth a mention since it is happening on Halloween weekend.

Brumbies Summer Lovers Sydney Beach Party.

Find those Hawaiian Shirts and Board Shorts for the guys. And sexy beach wear for the girls.

We don’t pretend to be somebody were not we are just a happy group of sexy non judgemental

friends that enjoy having a great night.  As always we supply everything you need from mixers for

your drinks and we feed you as well. Perfect enviroment for Newbies and single girls.

If you would like to attend and spend quality time with the Brumbies in a relaxed night please
show your interest and we will get in contact.

Queensland

YOUNG SWINGERS NETWORK – Halloween Party@ Club Whispers, Fri 28th Oct

Club Whispers Young Swingers Network is holding a Sexy Halloween party, where scary and super sexy is the look of seduction on the night.

Located just minutes from central Surfers Paradise, Club Whispers GC is a club where you will always feel comfortable. Inspired by the world renowned Studio 54, the legendary New York night club and born out of a love for the naughtier things life has to offer, Club Whispers is the Gold Coast’s most elegant on premise lifestyle club.

Club Whispers GC, the Gold Coast’s only Council Approved genuine 5-STAR adult entertainment venue.

Club Whispers First Birthday – Massive Halloween Party @ Club Whispers, Sat 29th Oct

If you missed the 28th Halloween party here at Club Whispers, then you got another chance tonight.

Club Whispers is turning 1 in October and to celebrate this momentous occasion we are throwing a massive Halloween Birthday Party and we take great pleasure in inviting you to come and celebrate this milestone with us.

Singles and couples are invited.

It will be the party of the year.

Hot as Hell Halloween Party @ Mike’s Place, Sat 29th Oct

Witches, wolves, goblins, devils n demons……

At 8pm the hour begins for the night the under world comes out to party and play. At the place that partying and playing happens and welcomes all in our great life style.

Sexy people with sexy costumes. Fun for all @ the fun Place.

Swingers Halloween Party – Hot Crowd @ Chateau Vino, Sat 29th Oct

Halloween, Fright Night, is always a massive sexy party here at ChateauVino – The home of the best swingers parties on the Gold Coast. Dress to impress in your scariest, but sexiest costumes for a chance to win great prizes.

Chateau Vino – It’s where swingers meet, party and play.

We have 10 large play areas. Every room is big enough to host at least 4 couples or more if needed. We have condoms, lube, lots of towels and plenty of bathrooms and showers to cater for the largest crowds of horny swingers.

We have a dedicated light bondage BDSM room, with a commercial grade “sex swing”. We also have Queenslands first “orgy room” thats hosted some incredibly horny action since opening in 2015.

Island Of Sin Halloween, Sat 29th Oct

The weather is heating up, so what better way to spend Halloween weekend

Proudly Sponsored by RedHotPie. THE ISLAND OF SIN IS BACK BIGGER THAN EVER!

The renowned Island of Sin boat and island party is back. 4 boats, 2 amazing stages,
20 international & local DJ’s makes up the biggest and best Halloween party of the year!
With state of the art production and sound, the amazing talent of Australia’s best DJ’s, Island

theming and much more, you cannot afford to miss Island of Sin’s Halloween special on October 29th.
With a special after party being held at Platinum nightclub, free entry with wristbands.

Victoria

GENDER BENDER Cup Eve Halloween Fascinator Theme Party

@ Melbourne Swingers, Thurs 27th Oct

PM – Till Late at Bay City Sauna. Bonus: Prizes for the best hat, fascinator, or other headwear.

For Everyone. $25 Entry, $15 Entry for Cross dressers. $5 Basic Spirits, Wine Champagne & Beer.

Singles and couples are invited.

Melbourne Fetish Ball Zombie Prom Ball @Swingers Melbourne, Mon 31 Oct

It’s a creepy time of year once again. Lets all join in and turn into the zombie fleet and bring horror to the universe as one.

Come along and enjoy the entertainment from Fetish House and the amazing Donny doing the zombie warp and enjoy the creepy music from the DJ Dave.

Singles and couples come along.

Welcome to Melbourne Fetish Ball

Western Australia

HALLOWEEN FRIGHT NIGHT, @ Pleasure Lounge, Sat 29th Oct

Get ready for the Freakiest party of the Year – HALLOWEEN FRIGHT NIGHT
Prepare for a scary night of raunchy sexy fun.
What to wear – anything scary, freaky or funny.

Día de los Muertos. ¡es hora de fiesta!@ Longest Dream Parties, Sat 29th Oct

Perth! Let’s have a party!!

Let’s pretend life is all about Spanish eyes and cowboy boots under the bed.

If only for one nights diversion.

A Dusk till Dawn themed house party.

I suggest we make Halloween the neighbors problem, while we kick on in Los Caronas, Voodoo style!

Singles and couples are invited.

You can find further details and ask questions on the forum post . The full menu will also be listed

Happy Halloween everyone

New South Wales

Valentine’s Monthly Mingle, Fri, 12 Feb 2016

Would you like to meet more than one couple at a time without the pressure of being a party or club situation?

Perhaps you find it tough to find the time to meet couples when you have a handful you would like to see but the stars and moon never seem to line up.

Plus, you know the thrill of flirting over delicious cocktails is often half the fun.

The Valentines Monthly Mingle has been created with all this in mind. Red Hot Pie and Our Secret Spot have collaborated to bring you a meet and greet night at a trendy bar where couples can meet other couples over drinks and some food.

This is a fun event where you can get to know others in a less pressured environment. Perfect for newcomers into the scene and those looking to expand their social circle.

There will also be a generous bar tab put down so at least each couple can have one drink on us. The evening will last for approximately 2 hours to give you enough time to say ‘Hi’ and get comfortable with newfound friends.
Sould you wish to attend OSS with those new friends; discounted entry will be given to those in attendance at the Monthly Mingle.

The Monthly Mingle is for couples and single women only.

Red Heaven Presents – Heaven in Hell Valentines, Sat, 13 February 2016

Red Heaven is taking over the Sydney Party scene again with their Heaven in Hell Valentines Party. Want to have a wild V-day night to remember? Red-Heaven has the equation to please all types- the romantic, the kinky, and the wild, naughty, evil devious.

Downstairs in hell the devils can party in a naughty, kinkier vibe room, while upstairs in heaven the party angels can dance the night away! We will have something for everyone just like last Valentines Day!

A night filled with entertainment, showcasing of great music, erotic Japanese rope bondage with DV8’s from Studio KINK and amazing fire twirling show with The Electrofairies.

But when you want to take things to the next level you need to head over to Our Secret Spot’s Red Heaven After Party to really get things going.
Valentine’s For Singles – Speed Dating Cruise , Sat, 13 Feb 2016

If you’re a single man or woman looking for something fun to do for Valentine’s, check out this great event hosted by Fantasea!The Speed Dating Cruise will be held on Saturday 13th February and take place along Sydney Harbour.

Held in a fun and relaxed atmosphere, guests will be invited to come dressed as a beauty or as a geek. This is a great opportunity to meet new friends and potentially a new love.
Don’t worry about any awkwardness as the Fantasea crew have prepared fun questions for good laughs. There will also be prizes for the best looking beauty and geek, great music and a fantastic host!

Come with an open mind and an open heart to see what the night will bring. Even if you don’t meet the love of your life, you’ll still end up with a fun and memorable night! Ages groups are between 25-35 years and 35-45 years.
Brumbies Valentine’s Party Week Late xxx, Fri, 19 February 2016

Claim your Valentine (or valentines…) and treat them to a very special Romantic RED HOT night with the Brumbies. Join this sexy gathering of drinking, mingling, dancing at the most sensual Event of the Year. So whether you like to perform, or watch others, or maybe join in with another couple (or two…) Brumbies is guaranteed to bring you a night of sensual fun.
Come join us for this special event.
Queensland

Valentines Lingerie and Mask Party @ Mikes Palce, Sat, 13 February 2016

It is the day. So bring along your sweet heart or meet one here. Red is the theme, lingerie is the game, and a mask for those that want to.

A little mystery is a hot thing. Cum and party with the friendliest people in BrisVegas.

VALENTINES RED THEME PARTY @ Chateau Vino, For Sexy Swingers, Sat, 13 February 2016

RED RED RED –That’s the dress code for our horny Valentines Eve Party.
Get some “luvin” in early with as many Valentines as you can meet! Or treat your lover to the attention of another or… another! Celebrate your V-Day
Chateau Vino has been successfully operating with full Gold Coast council approval as a Swingers Club since 2011.

Capulet’s Masquerade Valentine’s Eve, Sat, 13 Feb 2016

‘Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind; and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind’ – William Shakespeare

Join us in the Garden of Love for an evening of intrigue and mystique.. Unmask your hidden desires and find your Romeo or Juliet!

Banging DJ duo Tom & Jarry will be on the decks alongside Geordie Sure and Jaymak.

Best Mask will win a Private Booth with Bottle Service for the evening… Get caught in the romance.

Prohibition Club – Valentine’s Day Dance, Sun, 14 Feb 2016

Join us for Valentine’s Day for a musical and dance extravaganza paying tribute to New York’s most exclusive nightspot of the 1920s and 1930s.

Starring The Rhythm Society Dance Orchestra, The Keen Gents Collective, Legs 11 dance troupe master of ceremonies DJ Swingabilly and YOU!

General Admission Tickets: $15(includes special treat on arrival)

Valentines Day Couples Tickets: $25 (per couple includes special treat on arrival)

Victoria

Red Theme Party, Melbourne Swingers, Sat, 13 February 2016

At our Red theme Party This Valentines Day eve. Enjoy the music and shows don’t forget the red roses too. Welcome to Melbourne Fetish Ball

Walk through the doors at Shed 16 and leave you inhibitions in your locker, with your clothes and enter the new world order of Hedonism.

The sensual atmosphere that surrounds you includes a sauna, a steam room, spa x 2, open showers and an erotic theatre, with deep couches that allows for some intimate discussions. A fully licensed bar is also available, to help you get into the mood.

Melbourne Fetish Ball attracts broadminded adults and exhibitionists looking for adult fun and entertainment.

Minx Saturday Drinks, Sat, 13 Feb 2016

Minx are hosting a social get together on Saturday 13th February at one of the top “Gentlemen’s Clubs”. Come mingle with like minded people on VAlentine’s Day. Minx are known for having the hottest and youngest swingers crowd in Melbourne so don’t miss your chance to be a part of the most exclusive party in the scene!

We have reserved the exclusive VIP area for our sexy couples and ladies to mingle, socialise and dance. This is a night suitable for first timers who have yet to discover the specifics involved with the swingers play scene. These nights will be cocktails and drinks only, designed as a meet and greet.

Valentine’s Day, St Kilda’s Festival, Sun, 14 Feb 2016

Now in its 36th year, the iconic St Kilda Festival is returning once again in 2016 and promises to be bigger and better than ever.

Festival Sunday will take on a romantic tone this year, with the celebrations landing on Valentine’s Day. Special consideration has been catered to those wishing to commemorate the landmark day.

Set in the picturesque landscape of St Kilda foreshore, Festival Sunday is held on Sunday 14th February, 2016. Patrons can expect a captivating mix of live music, dance, carnival rides, sports, market stalls, activities, extended trading and entertainment for all ages.

The festival is Australia’s largest free festival and both highlights and celebrates the rich culture and artistic history of the city we love.

Western Australia

VERY Sexy Valentines @ Pleasure Lounge, Sat, 13 February 2016

Come indulge at Pleasure Lounge for Valentines day.
Haven’t got a Valentine? Come find one at our sexy venue, or spoil your valentine with someone else in the bedroom. Fun people great venue, fabulous staff
Catering for classy discerning people only. Whether your experienced swingers, vanilla swingers or newbies, the Pleasure Lounge is the place for you.

Valentine’s Eve Sexy Red Circus, Sat, 13 Feb 2016

This Year Delicious Ladies Bar & Club are getting Loved up and Celebrating Valentines Day a night earlier.

We have the sextango duo show performed by Eve So Divine & Maverick, 4 more Feature strips including Cupid shooting his arrow, pole performance, games and so much more!

This year our door prize is “Win a date with a Himbo” .. Yes that’s right you could win a 15 minute one on one timeout with one of our topless Himbos. We will provide the Champagne, chocolates, strawberries & cream…!!!

Bookings are essential, and for every lady that comes in with a confirmed booking will receive a complimentary glass of champagne or frozen daiquiri (Terms & Conditions apply).

Venue: Delicious Ladies only Bar & Club, 174 James St, Perth, Australia

A Party For Adam on Eve – Valentine’s Day @ Voodoo Lounge, Sat, 13 Feb 2016

Everybody loves to feel special on Valentine’s Day so come down to the Voodoo Lounge and let my beautiful Voodoo Dolls make you you feel exactly the way you should.
Complimentary bottle of champagne for all couples who demonstrate their love for each other on stage.
Complimentary bottle of champagne for everyone who books a girlfriend experience in the VIP area.
To demonstrate our commitment to lovers of diverse sexuality, we have a feast prepared of dual lesbian strips.

Naked Valentines Day @ Sensationz, Sunday, 14 February 2016

We are a Nudist/Swingers Club and are celebrating Valentine’s Day. Naked Valentine’s Day is exactly how this special day should be celebrated.

We have a Sauna, pool table, table tennis, 2 private rooms, open room/lounge area with adult movie showing.
There is a BYO bar area & dance floor.

PS: Phone for invite.

Hopefully this article gave you some fresh ideas for what to do on Valentine’s Day.

Theme Nights

Crank up the central heating and turn your living room into a toasty warm beach party. Go a little (or a lot) Hawaiian and invite your guests to front up in their sexy bikinis and boardies (or rock the Tony Abbott special if budgie smugglers float your boat!). Serve up some tropical cocktails along with some beach party snacks and before you know it, winter is just a figment of your imagination. Lay some towels around the room and make use of those cosy beach tents for some private nookie time.
If the beach scene isn’t your cup of tea, get your guests over for a good old fashioned toga party or a buxom wench and bawdy pirates night. Throw in some games like truth or dare or spin the bottle and your guests will be in the mood to try anything.

Lingerie Dinner Parties

The evening chill may put you off BBQs and alfresco dining but that just means it’s time to play Masterchef inside. Invite a table of eight or ten (whatever your dining room permits) and go all out to present a fabulous meal for your guests. The only conditions are that your guests must attend your dinner party in their sexiest underwear and sit next to anyone other than their own partner.
Make a sexy three-course meal that encourages a bit of interaction. Perhaps alternate your entree and main to encourage people to share and eat a bit of everything. While waiting between courses, devise naughty mini games (two people can go under the table and guests have to decide who has done what to whom) to play to keep your guests entertained. Dessert should be something you can feed to each other or make it an extra fun game by blindfolding one person and getting that person to guess what’s on the plate. What’s the bet you all won’t make it to the bedroom to work off the calories?

Amateur Porn Shoot

Get a bunch of your favourite exhibitionist friends over, make like Zack and Miri and stage an amateur porn shoot. Work out what role each of your guests will play. Someone can play director (preferably someone who knows how to operate a video camera) and you can all have a say in the plot of your porno (ie – no real talent required there so don’t panic!). Bring out all your sexy lingerie and tacky props, and get some porno music to put you all in the mood. Use all areas of your house to set up favourite scenarios and engage in some fun role play. Maybe someone called for a plumber? Drag him into the kitchen and show him what needs his attention.
Make sure all parties are happy to be filmed though and make an unanimous agreement to either delete the footage at the end of the session or make copies for personal pleasure. If everyone likes the idea of being filmed but is extra mindful of discretion, then try a shoot with masks. Very sexy! If you just like the idea of playing porn stars then forget about the camera all together.

Glory, glory, hallelujah!

Most people are at least a little bit intrigued by the idea of of the glory hole. For those who are uninitiated with the concept, a glory-hole is a usually a hole in a wall through which a person on one side may touch and fondle another person on the other side, ideally without seeing or feeling anything other than body parts. You can set things up so that both sides don’t know whose hands, fingers, tongue or other body parts they are in contact with.
Of course, one can’t just bash a hole through the wall between the bedrooms in your house so the DIY person in your home may need to put their thinking hat on. You may want to get some MDF and build a partition with a number of holes in it. A large box may be just as fun and a little kinky for those who like it like that. For those who are not close friends of Bunnings, try a darkened bedroom in which the willing victim may lay on the bed and accept secret visitors.

Game Night

Who doesn’t like getting the board games out? OK, who doesn’t like getting down and dirty while getting the board games out? Pick a few of your favourite games and set up your guests accordingly. Aim for games that have short rounds (so winners and losers are decided fairly quickly and frequently). Work out fun rules where the winner may order the loser to do whatever they wish. You might even want to make one of your bedrooms the ‘sin bin’ and send the loser of one round in to wait for the loser of the second round. The anticipation of who might be coming in should get your guests in a spin.
Have a think about how you might be able to sex up some of your old time favourites. Maybe Monopoly can get a new set of rules where going to jail may have an entirely different meaning. Cluedo can become a fun game of ‘Who shagged who?’. You’re only limited by your imagination.

Get aboard flight 69 to sexy Sydney.

Be sure to follow the instructions from your gorgeous flight hostesses as the in-flight DJs play some seriously sexy house and breaks. You will be cruising at a very high altitude and you may experience a pleasurable humpy/bumpy ride.

The fornication flight departs at 21:00 hours on the 27th March 2010 and will land at 03:00 hours on the 28th March 2010.

More details of Prima Nocta’s Mile High adventure will be posted up in the coming weeks.

Till then make sure your seat belt is fastened and your chair is reclined. Please feel free to wander around the RHP cabin and introduce yourself to as many sexy guests as you like. Oh behave, Baby!

Couples International – QLD
Bollywood Theme Night
Saturday 30th January 2010

Enjoy the sights and delights of the tantric world as Couples International celebrates the eroticism of the Bollywood world in spectacular fashion. It’s going to be colorful, magical, mystical and above all, very, very sexual, so don’t forget to mark this one down on your carnal calendar!

As always the CI patrons will be sparing no energy in creating some amazing outfits which always serves to make these theme nights that much better, so get your thinking cap on now!

Pricing wise its $100 for non-member couples and $50 for member couples, and for single ladies it’s $20 for non-members and free for members!

Come along and rock out with the Bollywood inspired DJs at what will be one of the most enjoyable evenings of the year!

Debauchery – VIC
Debauchery Swingers Party
Saturday 30th January, 2010

Debauchery by name, Debauchery by nature! Melbourne’s largest, most popular and longest running swinger’s party is back with a smashing bash taking place on January 30! Debauchery has been operating since 1994 and their parties have always been known for the heat they produce and the superior physical specimens that they attract.

Suitable for first-timers or more experienced, Debauchery enjoy a large venue with an enormous heated spa pool (be sure to bring your own towels), and run the parties from 9.30pm till at least 3am. The party is for couples and women only – no single guys we’re afraid. For those who want to watch, or share with special friends, or meet some new playmates. Fully air-conditioned, and the parties usually attract between 80 and 100 people around this time of year.

For all the party action, visit the events page

Now before you set off to the stores with the blood quickly rushing to your tingly bits let’s look at your options: You could get your lover the horse-scale dong but would something so in-your-face be all that sexy? Well ok maybe it would but let’s see if we can’t stretch our imaginations a little further, ensuring a saucy gift that will excite both giver and receiver.

The Basket
For the picky shoppers out there, why not throw all your eggs in one basket by getting your loved one something like… a basket! An adult gift basket can contain just about anything and can offer some variety which is of course the spice of life. We’re talking scented candles, massage oils, body paint, a lacy g-string and chocolate boobs etc. Anything you believe will help create the carnally infused atmosphere you’re chasing is a potential inclusion, so have fun with it. What you don’t like, you can always give out as prizes at your next naughty party

The Game
After the Christmas lunch gorge has ended, someone inevitably pulls out the Parker Brothers board games producing little more than monotony and heavy eye-lids. After the last morsel of pudding disappears, why not send your folks packing, giving you and your lover some privacy and a chance to roll the dirty dice. Games like Nookii, the Karma Sutra playing cards or Monogamy will ensure you spend the afternoon eating more than just left-overs. Failing that, grab that empty bottle of champers and play a round of Spin the Bottle.

The Big Wet
Everyone’s got a spectacular story about that time they humped their partner stupid in the bath or spa right… well there’s no harm in encouraging a repeat performance. Throw a bath pack together; take some scented candles, bubble bath, nice cleansing gels, maybe a couple of heavy white robes and a little Barry White for good measure. Your partner will be wet before the first toe hits the water. Check your local adult stores to see if you can add a few fun bath toys too. Some vibrators are specifically made for underwater pleasuring.

9½ Weeks
You know the film, Mickey Rourke, Kim Basinger, some condiments and a swag of sadomasochistic abuse. Depending on your partner’s temperament maybe forego the abuse, but some carefully selected food items can make for quite the kitchen work out. The whip cream, the cherries, the chocolate sauce, the frozen bananas… the rest of this story writes itself. Try a Christmas theme and heat things up with brandy butter and candy canes.

Get Away
You know what’s great about dirty get-aways, the lack of pretext. You know you’re going to have lots of filthy sex, your partner knows you’re going to have lots of filthy sex, the complete assuredness of the venture makes the situation so damn horny it hurts… think about that when shopping for your baby… is that level of nudie fun worth the extra bucks you might spend on a pressie of this size? Of course it is. Get on the blower and book that b+b now, your pants will thank you for it.

Cinema
For the more liberal among us, the world of porn should not be overlooked. Would you rather spend the afternoon watching some ancient drivel about an angel getting its wings or would you prefer to snuggle up with your partner to watch Jenna Jameson getting reamed seven ways from Sunday? If you’re a stickler for context and the sense of occasion there are several Christmas themed adult productions available. Ho, ho, ho indeed!

A Swinging XXXmas Party
While most couples would undoubtedly be doing the family thing on Christmas Day, nothing should stop you from making your Christmas Eve a sexy occasion. After all, it’s your last chance to show Santa how naughty you are! Perhaps have a few saucy couples over for a dinner party with a difference. Suggest that your guests dress up in sexy lingerie or underwear for the table.
You can be crafty and liberate your Christmas crackers of all its usual naff content and replace them with condoms, naughty jokes and the like. Serve up as many finger foods (think tapas style) as possible to encourage mutual hand feeding and finger licking. You can set aside some fresh strawberries and cream for dessert but I doubt you’d all last that long and retired to err.. rest…

So there are a few ideas to get you away from the standard items usually filling the stockings on Christmas morning. Think outside the box and don’t be afraid to be a little brash, sometimes the dirtier the thought the greater the return. Don’t forget – your lust and affection for your partner is ultimately an affirmation of their importance and worth to you; now if that doesn’t fill them with Christmas cheer something’s wrong.

Merry XXXmas!!

Jane’s husband Rob brought up the subject of swinging after numerous sexy sessions talking about introducing some extra people into the bedroom. Jane was filled with both trepidation and excitement at the thought, but eventually her curiosity got the better of her. Jane was keen to experience sex with another woman, and the thought of a man other than her husband touching her for the first time in eight years also thrilled her beyond words. She agreed swinging could be fun.

Rob immediately signed up on RedHotPie and suggested going to a swingers party that was advertised in the Events section. Jane had reservations about going to a party as all she could imagine was a Roman orgy scenario with lots of naked bodies lying around. Rob too was a little nervous about the idea and decided that meeting another couple through the RHP listings was probably a better option for first-timers.

“I’m really glad that we decided to meet a couple privately first. Rob was very understanding of my feelings about going to a party where neither of us knew what goes on. We luckily met another couple who were similar to us in that they were fairly new to swinging too.”

Jane and Robert met Angela and Simon on RHP and set up a drinks date. There, the two couples were able to chat openly about what they were both looking for over a few glasses of wine. Soon enough, everyone felt so comfortable and turned on that they got a hotel room.

“Angela was a little more experienced than I was in terms of other women so I let her take the lead. It was a wonderful night. I am so sure that I like women sexually, and it’s not just a phase. We didn’t take things much further than swapping foreplay but we’re happy for all of us to get to know each other better and maybe swap for sex later too. For now, it’s just a lovely experience.”

Jane and Rob are open to visiting a swingers club once their confidence increases, but for the time being prefer the intimacy of setting up dates with select couples. They’ve so far been very fortunate in meeting compatible people to ease them into the lifestyle.

However, for some others, finding the right couple can be a frustrating and time-consuming task. Linda and Pete met at least five couples online but nothing eventuated past the initial coffee meeting, aside from a once-off session with the first couple they met.

“I started wondering if we’d done the wrong thing. We had stated in our profile that we’d like to meet first and play later, but that seemed to attract couples who were happy to socialise and weren’t fussed about playing. On the same token, we aren’t prepared to say a definite ‘yes’ to playing until we’ve met people in the flesh either.”

On a whim, Linda and Pete decided to try a swingers party.
“Linda and I weren’t sure what to expect from the party, and we were slightly taken aback by the number of cars parked outside the venue, but once we got inside and felt more comfortable with the atmosphere, we were fine. Not everyone was naked and ‘at it’ as you might have imagined. In fact, we remained clothed most of the night. Until we met Sarah and Mike.”

“We had a few drinks and chatted about various things before discussing why we were all there at the party. We discussed our experiences and what went right or wrong with them. Before you knew it, we felt really relaxed and got into a spa with Sarah and Mike. That was the start of one very horny night for Linda and I. It all felt right. There was something exciting about the suddenness of the situation I guess. Now we wish we had just gone to a party first instead of muddling around organising dates.”

Whether it was the fact that Linda and Pete had finally met a compatible couple, or the fact that the party lent a spontaneous and sexy atmosphere to the night, they experienced the best night of group sex at a swingers party.

As Linda and Pete discovered, swingers parties and clubs seem to have an unwelcome image of being sleazy but that is far from the truth. Most modern venues provide a relaxed environment for couples and select singles and may be the perfect way for a new couple to scope out the scene and meet some new friends. There is no pressure for patrons to have sex but those who wish to can certainly have a wild night.

Clearly, it’s up to each couple to determine whether the party or club scene is for them, or if private meets give the much needed touch of intimacy for sex to happen. Ultimately, new couples should certainly consider trying both before deciding which way to swing. While many couples eventually end up sticking to either venues or one-on-one meets, others keep their swinging options fully open.

So the pros and cons in a nutshell? Private Meets

Discretion – It’s easier to keep things discrete if you are meeting couples (or singles) privately, and you’re less likely to run into someone you know since you can filter your contacts on RHP before meeting.
Intimacy – For couples who prefer the sensuality of playing with a limited number of people in the privacy of their own home, private meets may satisfy that need.
Convenience – You can choose the time and place to have fun.
Handpicking – Couples who have specific likes/dislikes in other people or play can use RHP to handpick compatible people.

Parties

Social Atmosphere – The more the guests, the more the interaction. Even if play isn’t involved, you may have a great social night out without getting stuck with a date that isn’t going anywhere.
Pick and Choose – You do not have to restrict yourself to just one couple or partners of a couple. For couples who find that the attraction isn’t reciprocated all ways with another couple, parties and clubs allow you some freedom to branch off with a person you are mutually attracted to.
Spontaneity – Some people enjoy the heady atmosphere of parties and are more likely to get their kit off at a party or club.

It’s about this time of year that East Coast stockists experience a dramatic shortage in foundation, false eye lashes, sequins and spandex. The scale of the event is staggering and it’s only when you look at the weeklong format you realize how tough and talented these girls are!

From day one of the 2009 finals it was clear that this field was one of the finest in years and whoever was to take the title would have to have that special something. As it turned out, that special something was magic – literally. Amarli Inez from Sydney who had been smashing it all week unleashed her Magic tinged Chicago routine upon a very appreciative audience, a spectacular that would secure her the crown and a new legion of fans!

Also making crackerjack appearances were first and second runners up Chante’ and Angel Fox, both Perth ladies, proving once again the folk in the West have got it goin’ awn!

We caught up with the newly crowned Miss Nude Australia, Amarli Inez a few days after her win to relive the week long high. Sipping on a coffee over a relaxing cafe lunch, Amarli cooed about her win and the amazing week that lead to her to the title.

(RedHotPie) So what a week hey, what was the field like this year?

(Amarli Inez) Yeah good, Perth actually produced some really hot girls this year! I don’t know what’s going on in Western Australia.

Something in the water

Yeah all the dark horses come from Perth, but on the whole a lot of good girls this year, it was really challenging but that’s the way we like it!

And who were the favourites going in?

Well the girl I went down with from Sydney, she has the full Pamela Anderson look you know, the massive boobs and the long blonde hair and the perfect pouty lips she was always a real chance, and when I turned up and saw the show I fell in love with Angel from Perth, I loved all her props and her entire show was so professional and well rehearsed!

And I guess what the male readers are wondering is what goes on behind the scenes, is it all lovey-dovey or does it get a bit catty backstage?

Actually we all get on really well

Come on, that’s the boring answer

(laughs) Well I could fabricate some stories for you. No I think we’re all mature and sensible enough to know that there’s only going to be one winner

So does it go the other way then, does the party ever get out of control? Are you girls a bad influence on each other?

(laughs) It’s funny that you mention that because there were a few moments like that during the week yes.

Well what’s the dirt?

(laughs) No, no, no, it wasn’t me in the middle of things I can tell you that, so they’re not my stories to tell

So it’s something you’ve observed

Yeah all I can say is that there is indeed some behind the scenes girl love. It’s way better than fighting!

Absolutely! Now the big crowds turn out for the final night of competition on Friday but it’s actually a week long finals series… is that a bit of a grind?

Oh yeah, hugely, even when you’re not performing you’re at the club parading, full hair, full make-up.

What do you mean by parading?

Well there are stages you know, you have to do one in your evening wear then you come out again later in your bikini and the judges score your body parts, so, you know, one night will be best bum or best boobs or best overall body. So each night there are different parades and it gets pretty tiring you know, I mean you’re always doing your hair and your make-up so by the end of the week everyone’s just exhausted.

And recount your own show. Tell us about the fire!

Yes I had fire, I had seen a magician in Sydney and I loved his show, of course his trick are better than mine but yeah I had fire and some other tricks and then I began removing articles of clothing until I was down to my Chicago out fit and you know the rest.

Yes indeed and when they announced you as the winner, what was that moment like?

Oh it was surreal, I kinda went into shock for a few minutes but yeah it was crazy. I didn’t get really get a chance to call anyone or let anyone know for an hour or more after the show, everyone just kept coming up to talk to me.

Well everyone wants a piece of the champ Amarli

(laughs) yes it would seem so

So what’s next for Miss Nude Australia? Ceremonial duties? Baby kissing?

Yeah I’ll be cutting the ribbons at school openings, a lot of that kinda stuff (laughs) Nah I’m not sure, I’ve kinda won most things now, you know I had Miss Centrefold last year, I won Miss Nude this year. I think I’ll just concentrate on my teaching. I teach pole dancing so I think I’ll focus on that.

Pass the magic on to a new generation

Yeah exactly (laughs).

Traveller’s top picks included the Running of the Nudes, Nude Beach Olympics and annual World Naked Bike Ride events.

“Travellers looking to really make a statement have got some great choices in these naked events,” said Michele Perry, vice president of communications for TripAdvisor.

Nudist beaches from Greece to the Caribbean and the US have made the top five selection of the world’s best nude beaches.

“And for those looking to let it all hang out or express their inner selves, these top beaches are just the thing.”

Top five naked events

1. World Naked Bike Ride, worldwide, June and July

Held annually since 2004, bike riders from all around the world celebrate cycling in the nude. Nude cyclists bared their bods to stand up for what they believe in, with messages painted on their bodies. If you plan to participate next year, one TripAdvisor traveller advises, “Remember the sunscreen…those saddles will be hot, hot, hot, so cover them up before alighting, people!”

2. World Record Skinny Dip, US, July

More than 12,000 people stripped off and gathered in pools across the US to form the “largest number of people skinny dipping at once,” now a category in the Guinness Book of World Records. All participants were required to don their full birthday suits, and word has it they plan to strip down again next year in hopes of beating the record again.

3. Nude Beach Olympics, Maslin Beach, Australia, January

The Nude Olympics take place on South Australia’s sunny Maslin Beach, where the games are a celebration of the town’s status as first official nude beach in the country. A three-legged race is included among the events.

4. Running of the Nudes, Pamplona, Spain, July

The “Running of the Nudes” protests the cruelty of bullfighting, with participants showing some skin in hopes that one day Pamplona’s bulls won’t have to, donning plastic bull horns, red scarves, and little else, and running the half-mile Pamplona course.

One TripAdvisor traveller says, “I was shocked but entertained because everything was jiggling around and flopping around, if you know what I mean.”

5. Burning Man, Black Rock Desert, Nevada, August – September

The annual Burning Man project is a self-proclaimed haven of self-expression, creativity and community that draws 50,000 people to the Black Rock Desert. Participants often take advantage of the free-spirited attitude by getting nude.

Top five nudist beaches

1. Haulover Beach Park, Miami Beach, Florida, US

With more than a million visitors annually, Haulover Beach Park is known for being a busy, family-friendly area with the option to experience a laid-back naturist environment, plus it is close to the steamy South Beach nightlife.

2. Wreck Beach, Vancouver, Canada

With spectacular views and five miles of sand, Wreck beach is Canada’s first and largest clothing-optional beach.

One TripAdvisor traveller said, “Wreck Beach is a magical place where I can strip off my layers of clothes and judgments, troubles and insecurities, and become one with the earth.”

3. Paradise Beach, Mykonos, Greece

A party atmosphere and amazing scenery make this beach a favourite amongst clothing-optional travellers.

4. Orient Beach, St. Maarten, Caribbean

Coral reefs keep the water calm, and also make for unbelievable snorkeling. Just watch out for the sea urchins.

5. Black’s Beach, San Diego, California, US

Black’s has a history of sunbathers who let it all hang out. Surfers also enjoy the beach, where they can ride the sometimes-dangerous waves naked. One TripAdvisor traveller said, “This is simply a stunning beach…all of us found Black’s Beach to be a very comfortable place to shed our clothes and inhibitions.”

Source: couriermail.com.au

Spank Productions – Beauty and the Beast

Friday 29th May 2009 WA

Near-naked beauties, fur- and leather-clad beasts, and plenty of perverted pets being led around on chains… sound like another Spank party! That’s exactly what revelers got at last month Beauty and the Beast bash hosted by the legendary Spank Parties. It was a condensed Spank but the fun raged at full throttle at what was a new venue for Spank, the sexalicious Bar Open. The room was filled with titillating going’s on and tremendous treats for each and every sense; from the Goddess worship corner for the dominant girls and all their foot rubbing subs to the dungeon master and mistress dishing out the sexy tough love it was an electrifying scene…

The mix of upbeat house music with a dash of doof saw the dance floor packed hard. Thjose not shaking their groove thang flirted in the comfy booths or took a pew to watch other’s play in the dungeon. As usual, BDSM activity was limited to light play only due to Spank’s ‘no breaking of skin’ rule – one reason this party continues to be so popular with newbies and the ‘fluffy fetish’ dressup crowd. We’ve heard a rumour that the next big Spank will explode onto the Perth scene in 2 or 3 months, so watch RedHotPie for details – and if you still haven’t dared to try one of these infamous parties, we recommend you get your kinky head on and get down there for one of the wildest nights in town!!

Couples International – GangBang the CI Way

Friday 29th May, 2009 QLD

If there’s one thing that CI does better than anyone else (there actually several things) it’s a gangbang! Last Month’s gangbang event was standing room only with a massive turn out of sweet young talent arriving with a gleam in their eye and a fire in their pants! The single guys were for the most part selected from the RHP ranks and from all reports they represented the RHP nation with gusto and class! The crowd was percolating from the get-go and with the incredible viewing opportunities at a CI gangbang everyone in the house was on an erotic high all night. If you ever get a chance to head along to one of CI’s gangbang events we recommend you do, even if you’re not there to play the sights are second to none – Spectacular!

Kat Parties – Pimps & Ho’s

Saturday 16th May 2009 VIC

It was dirty, it was street and it was pimpin’ baby! Kat Parties turned the lights out on this one; their Pimps and Ho’s extravaganza attracted over 200 of the hottest pimp and ho talent in Victoria and the hatin’ was kept to a minimum we can assure you of that. In fact the hatin’ was replaced by a whole lotta lovin’ which is exactly what you’d expect from a Kat Party event. The best dressed party goers took away a weekend overnight stay at Melbourne’s crown promenade and the rest of the punters weren’t left wanting as the RedHotPie girls dished out the fluid delights from the RHP champagne stand. With another smokin’ hot selection turning out so well in their uber raunchy costumes this was another tick in the win column for Victoria’s premiere adult party promoters!

PREVIEWS

Saints & Sinners – Colour Lust Ball

Friday 19th June 2009 VIC

Sponsored by RedHotPie, and now in its 19th year, Melbourne’s legendary Saints & Sinners Ball attracts broadminded adults, exhibitionists, and people from all over Australia. The S&S crowd enjoys adult fun in comfortable and safe surroundings. Guests are mostly adventurous couples and women who enjoy a very raunchy experience in a fun dance party setting. The multi-level venue boasts a selection of DJs playing music to cater for all tastes. On the main stage guests enjoy various shows and saucy competitions throughout the evening, and around the rest of the venue you’ll see all kinds of activities, both naughty and otherwise, and the best part is you’re free to join in on these, or just watch other guests getting up to mischief. The B&D area is always busy with the resident Masters and Mistresses, and again, watch or play… it’s up to you! At Saint’s and Sinners just about anything goes, so be sure to get along and enjoy one of Australia’s biggest adult soirees!

Purr Parties – Everyone Loves a Man In Uniform

Friday 26th June 2009 VIC

Purr Parties have made it their personal mission to celebrate the sexiness of the uniform this month at their Everyone Loves a Man In Uniform Party on June 26th. That said, the clothes can still be kept to a minimum! So sex it up, hair up and dress off! Think of your favorite or most bizarre Uniforms, army, postal, nurse, doctor, tradie, pool boy, golf, grid girl, sports – the possibilities are endless. It’ is very true that everyone loves a man in uniform but everyone loves a man in nothing even more so dress to attract as that will get you undressed and down to business and that’s the name of the game! You know the rules peeps, no denim or street clothes, the more effort you put in the better time you and everyone else will have so get your costume hat on.

Provocative Parties – Provocative Party – Brisbane

Saturday 27th June 2009 QLD

If you want class then Provocative is your first port of call, and if you’re in Brisbane this month, you’re in luck! Provocative Parties have organized a very elegant venue as their party base for their Brisbane gathering on June 27th, and will be having the sexiest single girls & couples from all over South East Queensland in attendance. In keeping with their successful formula, pre-party drinks will take place at one of Brisbane’s funkiest bars, to chat, flirt & get to know each other before party goers progress to a very naughty and raunchy after party held at one of Brisbane’s most exclusive inner-city apartments! Provocative Parties are private affairs and attendance is by invitation only for sexy & attractive single girls & couples 18-40yo. It is a great way to meet some of the hottest and sexiest people from all over South East Queensland, and the best part is it’s FREE for all paying members on RedHotPie …. well almost …. You still have to make your way there & pay for your beverages at the drinks night! Guest Members on RedHotPie are $50.00 per/couple donation payable in advance.