Here we’ll provide some sexting tips on how to become the sexting legend you know you can be. Check the 5 tips to become a sexting legend.

First, build it up, don’t go for the kill straight away.

 #1. Don’t get ahead of yourself. Warm Up To It.

Women, unlike men who are very visual creatures, enjoy a slow build up. They’ll enjoy hearing compliments on the lines of how much you like them. How interesting, exciting, attractive or beautiful they are.

Yes, flattery will work wonders, but ensure it’s genuine compliments; women have an incline to distinguish between genuine flattery and BS.
DO NOT send that DICK pic yet, save it for a bit later, when it’ll work in your favour. It’s all about the right timing.
Use instead subtle messages:

“I get excited when I think of you…” or “ You were the first thought I had this morning.”
Wait and see what she’ll do.

#2 Let Her Take The Lead

Wait for her next move. If she comes back with “I was just thinking about you too” then move on to a bolder response.

It’s all about timing, wait and see what she’ll do next. She might decide to just stay in that ‘space’ where you are all turn-on but haven’t talked about details.

#3 Focus On Her

This takes control because you’re urging to just go full-steam ahead. Tease her some more and compliment her on her assets – beautiful breasts, long sexy legs, lush lips, etc. Women love compliments it turns them on because you are focused on them and how you appreciate their bodies. Build it up till she can’t take it and will be in the same wavelength as you. You are getting close….

Ensure you know what she likes by now. If unsure ask, you’ll score extra brownie points because you are showing her you care what she likes. Sexting is great when you’re into online dating and just want to test the waters before you decide to have sex with someone.

#4 Build A Rapport

Depending on whether her responses are enthusiastic, you could take sexting a notch up and again let the conversation move on naturally.  If she bites, sexting can be a great way to express darker, more hidden impulses and fantasies. Be explicit and playful and try out texting more detailed and explicit scenarios and let both of you minds into fantasising. Be realistic. You also don’t have to talk about everything you have ever fantasized about doing to a woman before you meet. Some things can wait until you are together.

“I was thinking about sucking those gorgeous nipples of yours.”

Sexting, explicit and raunchy thoughts at this stage should feel easy and comfortable.

#5 What About The Dick Pic?

Let’s say you get a text message, excited for what you’re about to receive, then lo and behold – a dick pic.

Is it simply an act of cheeky candour, a prank, or malicious gesture toward an unsuspecting party or maybe a call for acceptance?

Women are more aware and acquainted with issues of negative body image. However, the male counterparts have only recently been exposed to the ridiculous pressures of body image. And yes it includes their junk!

We all want to feel okay about our bodies, and even about our junk. This insecurity is right across the boarder, regardless of whether men are packing micro-members or python schlongs.

These insecurities might be in regards to their size, shape, look, taste and smell of their dicks. Then there are the aesthetic anxieties about scares, curving, colouring, freckles, etc. All these worries before they even get to the good part – sex.

The dick pic phenomenon that has gone viral is just a cry for acceptance. Girls, men want your genuine feedback it seems. Hold on right there.
Let’s all grow up and stop this nonsense dick pic guys. We are all adults here and we are all made to feel bad about our genitals. That’s how our sexually repressed society is at the moment and we are hoping for change.

This obsession we have with the phallic is ridiculous and the fact that we call it manhood is not going to stop man define themselves around their tool. Tool is definitely a better term; it expresses exactly what it is. A tool for self pleasure and pleasuring your partner.

To appease your insecurities we hope that this video on ‘Penis Size’ will help put some of your insecurities to rest gentlemen. The majority of women are more concerned with how you make them feel in bed rather than the size of your schlong. So stop stressing about your penises guys, women just want you to show them a good time.

Gentlemen your member is a beautiful thing, so just embrace your many differences and start loving your man appendage that can bring so much joy and pleasure to you and your lover. Whatever you got packing down there, it’ll make for a breathtaking sight to any red-blooded heterosexual woman who likes to have sex, pic or no pic.

Penises are attractive, more so when they’re attached to someone you are attracted to, but as a disembodied penis, not so sure. Check the forum thread The dick pics

We know, it’s biological; men are compelled to flaunt their feathers. We think it’s cute. There is really nothing wrong with penis pictures in and of themselves. But unless we’re intimate with you, we don’t want to see your junk. Might be an idea to consider timing, sending a dick pic can be a healthy form of sexual expression. Send it when you have established a connection with the lady in question.

Just for laughs, Comedian Phoebe Robinson, produced a dick pic parody! The video ends with the salesman saying: ‘so call now, make an appointment and get the pictures your dick, and the women you barely know, deserve.’

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n8xP7KXi6Y

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What is your take on the dick pics – like/dislike?