Are you looking for a casual encounter, hoping to try a particular fantasy or hoping someone will teach you new things?
Sometimes you happen to be the senior in the relationship and you impart knowledge and skills. Other times you are the younger in the relationship and you are the ‘student’.

Remember that we’re not talking about perusing a relationship in the conventional sense of the word.Younger and older dates have their advantages and disadvantages, let’s identify them.

Dating Younger

Advantages

You might be smitten with your younger partner for several reasons; younger toned body, energetic, fun, wild, spontaneous and willingness to comply. When you’re together, it’s’ fast and furious’ type of fun and ready for another round in no time. Dating younger is fun, sexy, exciting and never lacking thrills. A younger partner is suitable for a couple or older women who want to have a fun night without any strings attached.

Disadvantages

While everyone likes to have fun, slowing things down and being in the moment from time to time is a nice change. Younger partners are still in their journey of self-discovery. They want to experience lots, with as many partners as they can to find out what they are into. You can only truly be a great partner when you learned what you like first and only then devote attention to what your partner likes to please them.

Takeaway

If you are just looking for a fun, exciting encounter where you are the leader then a younger accomplice is your best bet. Younger dates do not have much experience and are still learning, but you can impart a lot of wisdom. So enjoy a young, fit body for a change.

Dating Older

Advantages

There’s a good chance an older squeeze has more sexual experience than you. They are more confident, open to suggestions and usually know what they want. Older partners are more connected with their sexual self. They understand that sex is an experience that can be enjoyed without attachment which will make them a great lover. They are more attentive to your needs, they know that a good sexual encounter is only great when both or all involved experienced an orgasm. Older dates are great for anyone who wants someone to invest time and effort on their pleasure.

Disadvantages

Older dates have less energy to keep up with a younger more energetic date, but they take their time to ensure you have as much fun as they do and always consider your orgasm. Yes, their bodies are not as beautiful as a younger person but if they kept fit and looked after themselves they can be still sexy as hell. If the years weren’t as kind they have their knowledge and experience that they can share with you.

Takeaway

Older dates know what they want, they are more confident and more likely to get freaky. They are ultimately a great choice for a naughty date because they can teach you some important things about sex, equal pleasure and new fantasies you like to learn about.

Whether you date older or younger, each experience you have will help you find something new about you. How we experience it and learn from them is different for everyone.Some of us take our lessons from people our own age and others take it from older partners. We’re all different and we are the best judges with what works for us.

Whether you are the younger person or the older, your sexual desires want what they want and sometimes there is no stopping them. Expressing your sexuality is about embracing your inner desires, so let people decide what makes them happier on the way there – older or younger dates.

Sexual exploration has no age boundaries, each and every date is an opportunity to learn more about your sexuality.

What are your thoughts on dating older or younger? Have you been on both sides of the equation? Let us know in the comments below.

They are often referred to as Cougars, silly nicknames aside, dating an older woman, could be the best dating decision you ever make.

There are plenty of solid reasons to date older women that have nothing to do with just how fabulous they look. Here are all the reasons why she’s the best woman to date:

1. She knows what she wants

With age, women understand themselves better. They understand their emotions, their bodies and what they want better. They have had plenty of time to figure out what’s most important to her.

She knows what, how and when she wants something. She has no time for games, if she’s interested in some bedroom play and you are her lucky pick, it’s on for sure. She does not second guess herself. She will tell you, clearly, what she wants in the bedroom, how she’s going to get it. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who is confident and fearless.

2. She’s sexy

This is a woman who knows her body, her desires and when she fancies to try out a fantasy, she’s serious about it. Sexiness isn’t defined by the body alone. Sexiness comes with age. Older women know how to be sexier. Celebrities who prove older women are sexy as hell are; Sharon Stone, Kelly Preston, Kathy Ireland, Nigella Lawson, Elle MacPherson, Vanessa Williams, Michelle Pfeiffer, Elizabeth Hurley and the list goes on.

3. She’s confident in herself and who she is

Older women are not hangup on body issues, they understand that their flaws are just signs of a life well-lived.  Jane Fonda, once said: “It’s impossible to be truly intimate with someone if you don’t like yourself.” Words well spoken.

At a certain age, you come to appreciate your body and sexual appeal. You’re sexually confident with what you like and open to experiment with fantasies without hangups.

4. She knows what she wants in bed and will ask for it 

They’ve not only lost their inhibitions, they feel freed from the awkward sexual encounters of their youth. Older women like sex because it’s not only about fulfilling their partner, it’s about their own fulfilment and during their lovemaking, they do not stress about how their body looks. They focus on the experience and the sensation along the way. They focus on their sexual urges and desires.

5. She’s experienced

Experience in the field of work is important, as it is in your sex life too. Older women know what turns them on, what and how they like to be pleasured. Most important they are not shy in asking what they like. They have tried a few things out and they can teach a younger partner a thing or two. What else can a young man ask for?

6. She’s independent

She knows the importance of not losing yourself in the other person. Instead, it’s better to love each other while giving each other the room to grow and flourish. Younger women and men get so possessive of each other unwittingly suffocating their chance to grow as individuals and as a couple together.

Older women want you, but she doesn’t need you.

7. She’s truly free to be herself

She seeks out relationships for no other reason other than pleasure. She is not worried about commitment/marriage, kids and stability, she has been through all of these and they are not a priority to her any longer. She has all her attention to fulfilling her fantasies, her desires and indulging in her pleasures, to have fun with you.

8. She wants to make you a better lover for her and your future lovers

She will make you a better man. She will teach you that women are exquisite creatures who are so much more than their visual bodies. They have desires and sexual cravings, that once divulged can make your life a hell of a ride. They will teach you to become the best lovers, to listen and to pay attention to your woman’s bodies and minds. Your sex life with her will be unforgettable but the lessons you take from her will be forever.

Guys, there are so many sexy older women on RHP, ask them out before someone else beats you to it.

1. A new experience

A man in his 30s who dates an older woman will go through an enriching life changing experience. Your average 20something woman is energetic, ambitious and out to get things done. Now you take a woman in her 40s, 50s, chances are she’s lived a little more. She’s learned that the world is not all it was cracked to be. She has more time to teach you about your own and women’s pleasures. You waste no time and effort to learn what a woman really wants. You are more likely to come out of this relationship as a great lover.

2. Looking for a good time

Older women got their own life; friends, career, and money and they are not looking for a new suitor. They aren’t out to play mind games to figure the man out. Majority of these women have been married before and have come to realise that the fairy tale “Happy forever” doesn’t live up to the hype and reality is very different. Dating for an older woman is often more about enjoying their independence, discovering their sexuality, their freedom and newfound confidence, having fun and good times.

3. Fifty is the new 30s

A fifty-year-old woman in the 1960s era was often seen as a matronly woman, whose sense of being was expressed through her power and control of the household. They perceived themselves as being too old to wear bikinis, mini skirts, high heels, and hitting the club scene. Times have changed.

Women in their 40s and 50s today don’t look like women from previous eras at the same age. Just look at Elle MacPherson who can sport a bikini better than most 20something can. Look at Halle Berry (48), Sandra Bullock (50), Jennifer Lopez (45), Vanessa Williams (51) and Christie Brinkley (60) and Raquel Welch (74) is still turning men’s heads! And it’s not just celebrities who look good! At your local gym you’ve seen women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and more working out.

Today looking old is a choice and lots of women are choosing not to. There have been dramatic breakthroughs in plastic surgery options, Botox injections, spider vein/varicose vein treatments, and chemical peels. There is awareness for better health and fitness. Women are looking younger as a result of maintaining a better healthier lifestyle and choosing to fine tune their bodies and appearance through their own efforts and some help from technology and scientific advances. Admittedly, we live in a great era.

4. Uncomplicated sex

Often older women are more sexually confident and open-minded than their younger counterparts. They are not going to use sex as a bargaining tool to influence the course of a relationship. They also don’t confuse sex with love. Older women have sex because they want to give and receive pleasure. A large number of women report becoming more orgasmic with age.

Women at this age are ready and willing to be ravaged, to give and receive pleasure without any hidden agenda, therefore, making this match, a match made in heaven. They are not afraid to ask for what they want in the bedroom. Go ahead try and shock her. Bondage? Bisexual encounters? Role-play? If she hasn’t already tried it she certainly has considered it.

Older women may find it stimulating to be with a younger man who can go more than once in a night. Chances are he’ll also be open to listening to how she likes things done and in return she’ll return the favour.

5. Hassle free breakups

Last, older women know from the onset that this is not a long-term relationship and this young duckling is going to want to move on at some stage and that this type of relationship is temporary. It’s not unusual for these women to recognise the relationship has run it’s course and let things move on hassle free.

Obviously, this is not for everybody. Dating someone who is significantly younger or older requires a mindset of focusing on your own personal choices, and your own happiness. You have to be ready to live your life on your own terms.