They are often referred to as Cougars, silly nicknames aside, dating an older woman, could be the best dating decision you ever make.

There are plenty of solid reasons to date older women that have nothing to do with just how fabulous they look. Here are all the reasons why she’s the best woman to date:

1. She knows what she wants

With age, women understand themselves better. They understand their emotions, their bodies and what they want better. They have had plenty of time to figure out what’s most important to her.

She knows what, how and when she wants something. She has no time for games, if she’s interested in some bedroom play and you are her lucky pick, it’s on for sure. She does not second guess herself. She will tell you, clearly, what she wants in the bedroom, how she’s going to get it. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who is confident and fearless.

2. She’s sexy

This is a woman who knows her body, her desires and when she fancies to try out a fantasy, she’s serious about it. Sexiness isn’t defined by the body alone. Sexiness comes with age. Older women know how to be sexier. Celebrities who prove older women are sexy as hell are; Sharon Stone, Kelly Preston, Kathy Ireland, Nigella Lawson, Elle MacPherson, Vanessa Williams, Michelle Pfeiffer, Elizabeth Hurley and the list goes on.

3. She’s confident in herself and who she is

Older women are not hangup on body issues, they understand that their flaws are just signs of a life well-lived.  Jane Fonda, once said: “It’s impossible to be truly intimate with someone if you don’t like yourself.” Words well spoken.

At a certain age, you come to appreciate your body and sexual appeal. You’re sexually confident with what you like and open to experiment with fantasies without hangups.

4. She knows what she wants in bed and will ask for it 

They’ve not only lost their inhibitions, they feel freed from the awkward sexual encounters of their youth. Older women like sex because it’s not only about fulfilling their partner, it’s about their own fulfilment and during their lovemaking, they do not stress about how their body looks. They focus on the experience and the sensation along the way. They focus on their sexual urges and desires.

5. She’s experienced

Experience in the field of work is important, as it is in your sex life too. Older women know what turns them on, what and how they like to be pleasured. Most important they are not shy in asking what they like. They have tried a few things out and they can teach a younger partner a thing or two. What else can a young man ask for?

6. She’s independent

She knows the importance of not losing yourself in the other person. Instead, it’s better to love each other while giving each other the room to grow and flourish. Younger women and men get so possessive of each other unwittingly suffocating their chance to grow as individuals and as a couple together.

Older women want you, but she doesn’t need you.

7. She’s truly free to be herself

She seeks out relationships for no other reason other than pleasure. She is not worried about commitment/marriage, kids and stability, she has been through all of these and they are not a priority to her any longer. She has all her attention to fulfilling her fantasies, her desires and indulging in her pleasures, to have fun with you.

8. She wants to make you a better lover for her and your future lovers

She will make you a better man. She will teach you that women are exquisite creatures who are so much more than their visual bodies. They have desires and sexual cravings, that once divulged can make your life a hell of a ride. They will teach you to become the best lovers, to listen and to pay attention to your woman’s bodies and minds. Your sex life with her will be unforgettable but the lessons you take from her will be forever.

Guys, there are so many sexy older women on RHP, ask them out before someone else beats you to it.

However, according to a study by the University of Pittsburgh, this is not true, especially for women.

Women’s sex lives get better with age – their sex lives peak between the ages of 45 and 60, said the lead author of one small study, Dr. Holly N. Thomas, an assistant professor of medicine at the University of Pittsburgh told Today.

“We were surprised to find a group of women who said that sex actually got better for them as they got older”

While frequency of sex declines with age for women, there’s a definite uptick in quality.

This study found that the reason older women have better sex is thanks to:

1. A better understanding of their bodies and how it works when it comes to sex.

2. An increased self-confidence and more comfortable in their bodies

3. Better communication skills to ask what they want in bed

Evidently, women’s body knowledge and confidence can have an effect on their bedroom pleasure, on their sexual desire as well as her ability to experience sexual arousal.

Growing old doesn’t have to be all doom and gloom; after all, the quantity of sex may be less, but the quality only gets better.

These results represent good news for the pleasure-seeking sexy cougars out there.

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What were then the love and sex trends that marked 2013?

Let’s have a look at some sex trends for 2013:

There has been a rise of sex toys purchases, a rise on bondage, a rise on porn, more fake-ups, a rise on single girls pride, a rise in cougars, and yes, shocking more women are cheating, and we came to realize that exercising increases our orgasms.

Let’s look at these sex and dating trends for 2013 individually:

1. Exercise equals more and better orgasms:

The newest exercise trend should be getting us all to the gym with a new found passion ladies. In a recent study from the KINSEY INSTITUTE, 45% of women say they’ve experienced an exercise-induced orgasm proving that “coregasm” is more than just a rumour. Exercise – induced orgasm is the pleasure of endorphins released in your body due to strenuous muscle work. In the aim to tone up their bodies and achieve rock-hard flat abs, some women have been experiencing spontaneous orgasms while performing some exercises that target the deep core muscles. However, if moaning in the middle of your gym class is not your thing, maybe try another gym class that still helps strengthen your pelvis.

2. The rise of sex toys and bondage.

In 2013, almost everyone has had a go with Kegel beads, rope, binding tape, spanking paddles, cuffs, whips, etc. The reason for this, as we all know, the now famous Fifty Shapes of Grey. The trilogy’s enormous success has inspired manufacturer of sex toys to sell the same toys as the ones in the books – clever marketing. Kegel beads reported a whooping 400% increase in sales, for example, this year only. These kinky beads add pleasure during sex and they can also help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. People were inspired to kink-up their sex lives in a new and exciting ways. Sex toys in 2013 are readily available without the cultural taboo stigma in past years. There has been a growing interest in alternative sex.

In addition, mainstream has been exposed to images and ideas of S&M through pop-culture exploiting S&M in a variety of media outlets, including music videos, films and song. Lady Gaga has repetitively used fetish and S&M theme, imagery and lyrics in her music; Rihanna sang about whips and chains .The exposure to these images and ideas has planted the seed for healthy experimentations in the mainstream bedrooms. It seems that this seems to be a trend here to stay. If you haven’t yet experimented it’s time to grab some handcuffs, blindfold and have a wild night.

3. Porn

Here’s a subject that has had numerous articles written about it this year. Addressing issues of easy availability online and its effect on relationships. Porn from the more traditional Hollywood production to the amateur production, has found a new ground of interest in many of our lives. Women especially, have shown an increase interest in the arena that was notoriously dominated by men.

Porn can be a great sexual enhancer as long as we remember that porn actors are there to glorify sex and in no way is porn-sex like real-life sex. This year we’ve also seen the unique approach in which porn sites can create awareness. A non-profitable pornographic site, Come4.org, devoted itself to funding charitable and ethical driven projects. It’s first charitable debut – helping to fund Asta Philpot Foundation, which aims at raising public awareness about sexual rights of disabled people.

4. More Fake-ups/ second chances

Celebrities like Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber, Robert Pattison and Kristen Stewart and also with Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth have all been guilty of it. Apparently, in 2013, more women have given an ex a second chance, rebound relationships have had an increase, the on-again, off-again cycle. Why is getting back with your ex so tempting? Social Media is to blame. Social media provides a medium to reminiscent on the ‘good –times’ and allowing for forgiveness, especially so if you’re a woman. Women are more forgiving than men; women are more willing to work things out after the relationship falls apart because of cheating. Point to remember is to remove your ex from your list of friends to avoid having push updates on your ex’s status.

5. The rise of the confident single girl.

Women in 2013 have been more concerned with their career than trying to tie the knot. Women are more economically stable and don’t feel the pressure to combine resources/ salaries with a men to survive. In 2013, women are more independent as it is not necessary for them to rely on another income for survival. Hurray to enjoying being single longer.

6. Cougars

Demi and Ashton might not be together anymore but they have helped brake down stigmas associated with cougars. Jennifer Lopez is dating 25-year-old Casper Smart, Sharon Stone and Martin Mica (28yrs age gap), and Madonna and Brahim Zaibat (29yrs. age gap). This is a trend that will continue on because women are taking better care of themselves than men. As women grow older they are more confident and know what they want in life, sexually and in relationships. Dating a younger man is no longer taboo.

7. More women are cheating

Apparently women are almost on equal grounds as men when it comes to cheating. In 2013, more women have admitted to cheating and it comes with the rise of women using online sites coupled with a rise of women in the workplace. Women are interacting with men more regularly and have more chances to cheat.

8. To Twerk

This sexy move confined to the world of the strippers has this year come into focus with the likes of Miley Cyrus and J.Lo using it in their video and stage performances. To Twerk has become so popular that has official word of the year in the Oxford Dictionaries 2013.
Because one cannot get enough of watching sexy booty shake to music, feast your eyes and watch ‘Sexy Twerk Choreography 2013

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpTNUrMjaXs

9. Great BJ

Apparently not all BJs are the same. According to sex experts Ian Kerner, PH.D, author of He Comes Next, guys are claiming that the hottest new way to get a BJ is while standing. More blood rushes to the pelvic region while standing which results in a firmer erection and a greater orgasm.
Want to blow your guy’s mind? Have him standing upright while you pay him lip service for a truly explosive orgasm.

These are the 2013 sex trends, are there any more that you can add to list? Please share with us your own 2013 love and sex trends.

Apart from the pitfall that these women are literally insatiable you’re about to have a life changing experience, the trick is to know how to get out before she ‘eats you alive’.
She will roar and try to stop you at your tracks but she will not mourn you once you’re gone. She’s an efficient huntress who’ll spot her next pray. Meanwhile, ride the wave and let her make a ‘man’ out of you, you young innocent cub…

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Women with a higher sex drive than their husbands were becoming increasingly vocal about their suffering, sex therapist Bettina Arndt has said.

“There has been as steady trickle of women coming to me complaining that they are not getting enough sex,” she said.

“There are women out there who want a lot of sex and whose husbands simply can’t keep up.”

Arndt, who is the author of The Sex Diaries, said four out of 10 sexually frustrated women she had recently been corresponding with had ended their relationships because of the problem.

Sydney psychologist and sex therapist Serena Cauchi said she had also noticed the trend.

“It is not as uncommon as you would think,” she said.

“There are women who have come to me who have a higher sex drive than their husbands.

“Women may react just as men may do in this situation; some have affairs and some choose to end the relationship.”

One Melbourne woman, who did not wish to be named, told ninemsn she had been sexually frustrated for at least half of her 14-year marriage.

“When we first got together, there was never an issue with my husband’s sex drive, we would have sex at least five times a week,” she said.

“But in the last seven years he has become less and less interested — now we would probably only have sex once a week.”

The 42-year-old woman said her self esteem had “taken a battering” because of the constant rejection from her husband.

“Having a husband who is hardly interested in having sex with me anymore has made me feel like it’s my fault.”

“I feel like a failure as a wife and as a woman.”

Arndt said one of her subjects, “Barb”, had only had sex twice in the last 17 years.

Women who found themselves in a similar situation often felt hurt and wounded, she said.

“It is an intolerable thing for them because they think they are not desirable — it eats away at them not being wanted.”

“They are often perplexed because they talk to their friends who are all complaining about having to beat their husbands off with a stick.”

Arndt said more research needed to be done to find out why some men were troubled by a low sex drive, a task made more difficult because men were often unwilling to talk about it.

“We need to find out more about what is happening to the men and why.”

Source: ninemsn

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