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		<title>The Hottest Love and Sex Trends of 2013</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christina Miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2013 12:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What’s new in sex and dating? A lot actually! Sex trends are constantly evolving from right under our noses. This year it’s been quite a year of non-stop turns and...]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What’s new in sex and dating? A lot actually! Sex trends are constantly evolving from right under our noses. This year it’s been quite a year of non-stop turns and twists to the trends of love and sex. With the year nearing the end we thought we look back at what made us go; oooh, aah, uhm ,arghh and what the…..</p>
<p>What were then the love and sex trends that marked 2013?</p>
<p>Let’s have a look at some sex trends for 2013:</p>
<p>There has been a rise of <strong>sex toys</strong> purchases, a rise on <strong>bondage</strong>, a rise on <strong>porn</strong>, more <strong>fake-ups</strong>, a rise on <strong>single girls pride</strong>, a rise in<strong> cougars</strong>, and yes, shocking more <strong>women are cheating</strong>, and we came to realize that exercising increases our <strong>orgasms</strong>.</p>
<p><em>Let’s look at these sex and dating trends for 2013 individually:</em></p>
<p><strong>1.</strong> <strong>Exercise equals more and better orgasms:</strong></p>
<p>The newest exercise trend should be getting us all to the gym with a new found passion ladies. In a recent study from the KINSEY INSTITUTE, 45% of women say they’ve experienced an exercise-induced orgasm proving that “coregasm” is more than just a rumour. Exercise – induced orgasm is the pleasure of endorphins released in your body due to strenuous muscle work. In the aim to tone up their bodies and achieve rock-hard flat abs, some women have been experiencing spontaneous orgasms while performing some exercises that target the deep core muscles. However, if moaning in the middle of your gym class is not your thing, maybe try another gym class that still helps strengthen your pelvis.</p>
<p><strong>2.</strong> <strong>The rise of sex toys and bondage.</strong></p>
<p>In 2013, almost everyone has had a go with Kegel beads, rope, binding tape, spanking paddles, cuffs, whips, etc. The reason for this, as we all know, the now famous Fifty Shapes of Grey. The trilogy’s enormous success has inspired manufacturer of sex toys to sell the same toys as the ones in the books &#8211; clever marketing. Kegel beads reported a whooping 400% increase in sales, for example, this year only. These kinky beads add pleasure during sex and they can also help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. People were inspired to kink-up their sex lives in a new and exciting ways. Sex toys in 2013 are readily available without the cultural taboo stigma in past years. There has been a growing interest in alternative sex.</p>
<p>In addition, mainstream has been exposed to images and ideas of S&amp;M through pop-culture exploiting S&amp;M in a variety of media outlets, including music videos, films and song. Lady Gaga has repetitively used fetish and S&amp;M theme, imagery and lyrics in her music; Rihanna sang about whips and chains .The exposure to these images and ideas has planted the seed for healthy experimentations in the mainstream bedrooms. It seems that this seems to be a trend here to stay. If you haven’t yet experimented it’s time to grab some handcuffs, blindfold and have a wild night.</p>
<p><strong>3. Porn</strong></p>
<p>Here’s a subject that has had numerous articles written about it this year. Addressing issues of easy availability online and its effect on relationships. Porn from the more traditional Hollywood production to the amateur production, has found a new ground of interest in many of our lives. Women especially, have shown an increase interest in the arena that was notoriously dominated by men.</p>
<p>Porn can be a great sexual enhancer as long as we remember that porn actors are there to glorify sex and in no way is <a href="http://redhotpie.com.au/Article/Porn-Sex-Vs-Real-Sex-Video-1106" target="blank">porn-sex like real-life sex</a>. This year we’ve also seen the unique approach in which porn sites can create awareness. A non-profitable pornographic site, Come4.org, devoted itself to funding charitable and ethical driven projects. It’s first charitable debut – helping to fund Asta Philpot Foundation, which aims at raising public awareness about sexual rights of disabled people.</p>
<p><strong>4. More Fake-ups/ second chances</strong></p>
<p>Celebrities like Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber, Robert Pattison and Kristen Stewart and also with Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth have all been guilty of it. Apparently, in 2013, more women have given an ex a second chance, rebound relationships have had an increase, the on-again, off-again cycle. Why is getting back with your ex so tempting? Social Media is to blame. Social media provides a medium to reminiscent on the ‘good –times’ and allowing for forgiveness, especially so if you’re a woman. Women are more forgiving than men; women are more willing to work things out after the relationship falls apart because of cheating. Point to remember is to remove your ex from your list of friends to avoid having push updates on your ex’s status.</p>
<p><strong>5. The rise of the confident single girl.</strong></p>
<p>Women in 2013 have been more concerned with their career than trying to tie the knot. Women are more economically stable and don’t feel the pressure to combine resources/ salaries with a men to survive. In 2013, women are more independent as it is not necessary for them to rely on another income for survival. Hurray to enjoying being single longer.</p>
<p><strong>6. Cougars</strong></p>
<p>Demi and Ashton might not be together anymore but they have helped brake down stigmas associated with cougars. Jennifer Lopez is dating 25-year-old Casper Smart, Sharon Stone and Martin Mica (28yrs age gap), and Madonna and Brahim Zaibat (29yrs. age gap). This is a trend that will continue on because women are taking better care of themselves than men. As women grow older they are more confident and know what they want in life, sexually and in relationships. <a href="http://redhotpie.com.au/Article/Cougars-on-the-rise-1105" target="blank">Dating a younger man</a> is no longer taboo.</p>
<p><strong>7. More women are cheating</strong></p>
<p>Apparently women are almost on equal grounds as men when it comes to cheating. In 2013, more <a href="http://redhotpie.com.au/Article/The-Truth-About-Sex-at-Work-1135" target="blank">women have admitted to cheating</a> and it comes with the rise of women using online sites coupled with a rise of women in the workplace. Women are interacting with men more regularly and have more chances to cheat.</p>
<p><strong>8. To Twerk</strong></p>
<p>This sexy move confined to the world of the strippers has this year come into focus with the likes of Miley Cyrus and J.Lo using it in their video and stage performances. To Twerk has become so popular that has official word of the year in the Oxford Dictionaries 2013.<br />
Because one cannot get enough of watching sexy booty shake to music, feast your eyes and watch &#8216;Sexy Twerk Choreography 2013</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpTNUrMjaXs">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpTNUrMjaXs</a></p>
<p><strong>9. Great BJ</strong></p>
<p>Apparently not all BJs are the same. According to sex experts Ian Kerner, PH.D, author of <em>He Comes Next</em>, guys are claiming that the hottest new way to get a BJ is while standing. More blood rushes to the pelvic region while standing which results in a firmer erection and a greater orgasm.<br />
Want to blow your guy’s mind? Have him standing upright while you pay him lip service for a truly explosive orgasm.</p>
<p><strong>These are the 2013 sex trends, are there any more that you can add to list? Please share with us your own 2013 love and sex trends.</strong></p>
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		<title>6 Myths about BDSM… Inspired by 50 Shades of Grey</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2012 10:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Overnight… 50 Shades of Greyhas stirred up intense fascination and interest in “BDSM” – the acronym for a form of sexual activity that can include bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism.</p>
<p>I’m thrilled that gals who’ve never read erotica before are doing so now… inspired by 50 Shades of Grey… captivated by the sexually powerful and supercharged eroticism that BDSM sexual encounters can elicit. On the other hand, because of how BDSM is portrayed in 50 Shades, I’m concerned that those less familiar with this type of sexual play aren’t really getting an accurate picture of what BDSM is all about.</p>
<p>Let me put this right out front… the erotic domain of BDSM is perfectly O.K. for “normal” people, as fantasy… or reality. In fact, for many, BDSM offers a degree of sexual intensity and wicked pleasure that is truly “explosive.” How many people engage in BDSM sex? At least half of us are into BDSM in one form or another!</p>
<p>Research from the Durex 2005 Global Sex Survey found that 20 percent of sexually active people engage in “kinky play” with their sex partners. This includes, for example, the use of blindfolds, bondage, and masks. More interesting still is research from the Kinsey Institute which revealed that 55 percent of females and 50 percent of males derive sexual pleasure from experiencing some degree of voluntary pain during sexual activity, from the application of nipple clamps, the use of floggers, paddles, etc.</p>
<p>If we search the Internet using the words “fetish” or “BDSM”, we’re likely to see some bizarre BDSM activities that would scare the heck out of anyone. Internet content is perversely skewed by the porn industry and doesn’t represent the flavor of BDSM we’re talking about. As with traditional sex activities, some BDSM turns you on, some does not!</p>
<p>BDSM doesn’t have to include pain at all. A “submissive’s” knowledge that she is “helpless”… that someone can do things to her that she can’t in any way resist… can be a powerful turn-on. In fact, voluntary release of controlis the part of BDSM cited as the major turn-on.</p>
<p>Popular misconceptions, what I call “BDSM mythology,” have prevented many people from exploring a sexual variation that is actually highly creative, cerebral, sensual, playful and oh so naughty! And who doesn’t like to be naughty every once in a while? So let’s look at six of the most common BDSM myths and see how they compare to the truth.</p>
<p>Myth 1: All Dominants are Abusive. FICTION!</p>
<p>The partner who plays the role of ”dominant” actually cares deeply for the physical, mental and emotional well being of his “submissive.” He would never do anything dangerous to her and his behavior is limited at all times strictly by what his partner finds enjoyable.</p>
<p>“Safe words” are well rehearsed before the fun even starts, so a submissive can tell her partner to stop at any time. “Red”, “yellow” and “green” are often used. Red means exactly what you think: “stop right now because I’m not enjoying what you’re doing (or it’s just too intense, etc.).” Yellow means “I’m O.K. with what you’re doing for the moment, but I might not want you to continue.” Green means: “I really, really like that, keep it up!” Yes, he has a need to control, but a dominant always balances “control” of his sub with the prime directive to insure safety at all times and meet the needs and desires of his submissive.</p>
<p>Myth 2: the Dominant is in Control. FICTION!</p>
<p>A dominant’s job is to fulfill the submissive’s needs — that’swhat brings the dominant pleasure. “Every good dominant knows that the submissive is really the partner in control,” says Jennifer Hunter. “All a submissive woman has to do is relax and enjoy the ride while delicious sexual acts are visited upon her. She’s the star of the proceedings. Someone is ministering to her needs for a change. Master is choreographing all the action.”</p>
<p>BDSM couples can also decide to abide by the Safe, Sane and Consensual credo, a carefully crafted set of rules for BDSM sexual engagement. The couple negotiates before they begin any BDSM play, so nothing happens unless it’s been agreed upon in advance. In short, the person who controls the show is always the submissive, never the dominant!</p>
<p>Myth 3: Dominants had abusive childhoods. FICTION!</p>
<p>Christian Grey is portrayed as a Dom because he had an abusive childhood. Childhood trauma as a valid psychological premise for practicing domination is just not accurate.</p>
<p>Myth 4: Submissives are weak and have low self esteem. FICTION!</p>
<p>The opposite is true of a submissive. They give up control because they are strong enough to choose to do so. Only a strong individual with emotional fortitude can agree to let go and entrust herself to the care and protection of an honorable DOM partner… a partner who totally understands and appreciates the value of the gift of trust that they’re being given.</p>
<p>According to Dr. Laura Berman: “Being dominated and out of control can feel very sexy, especially if you are someone who is typically in control and juggling many responsibilities at once. It can be very freeing and erotic to simply relinquish those responsibilities and tap into your sexual side without any guilt or pressure.”</p>
<p>Let’s face it, after a long day of managing employees, making all the decisions, looking after children, etc., being in charge can get old. A gal can really get into surrendering control!</p>
<p>Myth 5: If you enjoy BDSM your brain isn’t wired correctly. FICTION.</p>
<p>This is a very common myth. Most dominants will tell you that their submissives (often referred to as “clients”) could not be more normal. They were not abused as children, and most are college educated. In general, they are drug-free, confident, secure and mentally stable, and tend to be in positions of considerable power and control in their everyday lives. You can be happily in love in a healthy relationship – and still love BDSM.</p>
<p>Mistress Rikka, a professional DOM, shares her view: “My personal opinion based on years of playing professionally is the more intelligent and successful a man or woman is, the more likely he or she is to engage in BDSM. Why would this be? First, the largest sex organ we possess is the brain, so if you are smart, the sexual fantasies you have will be much richer, detailed and kinkier than the rest. Secondly, if you are in a position of control or high stress and are dominant throughout the workday, taking a break from also being sexually dominant is necessary for balance. That doesn’t mean my clients want to be dominated all the time. Just every once in a while when the pressure builds up.”</p>
<p>Myth 6: BDSM is primarily about pain. FICTION!</p>
<p>BDSM is not primarily about pain. It is a power exchange between a dominant and a submissive, which does not necessarily involve pain, humiliation or anything else you are uncomfortable with. The reason mild pain is a popular ingredient in BDSM is because the slightest amount gets the adrenaline pumping through the veins… and suddenly the receiver experiences every sensation much more intensely… including pleasure.</p>
<p>Does that mean the dominant needs to inflict even mild pain? Absolutely not! You may not want anything to do with pain, and that’s okay. It is all personal preference, and your preferences are something you’ll discover along the way. You may be in for surprises!</p>
<p>Debby Herbenick, sexual health educator at the Kinsey Institute and author of Because It Feels Good, says that BDSM is a huge umbrella term for a wide range of activities. “It’s important to understand that there are so many different ways of engaging in BDSM play, from the fuzzy handcuffs you can buy at a women-oriented sex boutique to the more extreme sexual dungeon set-up,” she says. “Even if you are just using one device, like a flogger, there are so many different ways to use it. Some may stroke a partner with it while another person will really whip them with it.”</p>
<p>BDSM can be defined as any kind of practice where power play is involved. In these scenarios someone is in control, and the other person is handing over their control, if even for a few minutes. If all you’re doing is experimenting with a little spanking during sex, or being blindfolded with a silk scarf, that can be called BDSM. Not that you’ve ever been blindfolded and spanked… or have you? If not, maybe you should be…</p>
<p>The good news is 50 Shades of Grey is introducing millions of people to the ideas of BDSM sex, as well as to the world of sex toys, and new and creative ideas for sexual interplay. If you want to explore this genre for real, learn a bit more. After all, knowledge is power!</p>
<p>To see what BDSM is really all about, visit Bring Back Desire’s Who’s The Boss reading room. You’ll find a variety of extremely well written, highly erotic BDSM stories that will capture your imagination… and give you some great ideas for spicing up your sexual play.</p>
<p>For more tips, tools and resources for keeping intimacy, passion and sensual pleasure alive in your relationship, visit BringBackDesire.com, where we carry everything a gal needs to get out of her head and back into bed.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.bringbackdesire.com/6-myths-about-bdsm-inspired-by-50-shades-of-grey/" target="blank">bringbackdesire.com</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, there are two police officers in the Northern Territory currently scoffing popcorn while watching Oprah after being stood down from active duty. You see the mistake they made was allowing photographs of their partying down with some scantily clad ladies at the annual Hookers Ball to get out. As far as we’re concerned the partying down bit’s ok, just don’t let the pics get back to your boss!</p>
<p>The pictures show the officers having a rollicking good time with some very fit young ladies who appear to be very friendly and respectful of the law, heck, one of them is even giving one of the officers a kiss &#8211; you can’t get any more respectful than that.</p>
<p>Ok, so maybe, getting flirty on the dance floor while holstering a loaded fire-arm wasn’t the best decision these young officers made but surely a slap on the wrist will be adequate punishment, in fact if the officers have significant others at home, we imagine that the hell they&#8217;re dealing with on that front is worse than anything the bosses can throw at them.</p>
<p>Really, when you think about it, can they be blamed at all? You see as most of the ladies can testify, a guy in uniform is a pretty handy aphrodisiac. Come on girls, how many of you have been out and about, happily minding your own business when WHACK, a hard bodied young fiery swaggers through your view &#8211; your heart skips, your knees bend and your knickers sigh.</p>
<p>So really, those poor policemen never stood a chance; they’ve arrived on the scene, which would have resembled Sodom in the good old days, only to be set upon by juiced up young vixens, high on life, drunk on lust and ripe for the plucking. And don’t kid yourself, if the cops had sent a female officer, the boys of the ball would have been throwing folding money at her quicker than you can say “how much for a private sweetheart?”</p>
<p>So is that it, are uniforms still that hot? Do they still up someone’s sexy by 50%? Drop us a comment below letting us know what you think. Have you ever been pulled by a uniform clad stranger?</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Public sex</b> </p>
<p> You’ve both thought about it. You’re out shopping and you notice the way that top shows off your partners curves and you get that little flutter downstairs… so why not act on it? Now we’re not telling you to strip and bump one out by the registers at Coles but where there’s a will, there’s a way. Look for some out of the way restrooms, maybe a supply closet. Hell if you have to wander around and find a quiet corner behind a building or in an alleyway, the sexual heights attainable by a little public passion will be totally worth the risk.</p>
<p> <b> Home movies </b> </p>
<p>You know what’s hotter than watching people having sex on the telly? Watching yourself having sex on the telly. As the sex tape becomes more and more mainstream with A-List celebs doing publishing deals for their fornication films every other week, everyday folks are getting in on the fun.</p>
<p>Float the idea with your partner and discuss what might be fun, if there is a little concern about being recorded, set up a shot that won’t show your faces. As you get more comfortable with the idea and the sensation of seeing yourself and your lover in the throws of passion you may well gain in courage and become much more adventurous, opening a door to some very sexy cinema indeed!</p>
<p><b>Dirty Talk</b></p>
<p>Want to tip you lover over the edge? Well this is just about a lock when it comes to amping up the amour factor. For a few folks, some sexy gutter talk can be a huge part of foreplay, really heating things up. When you partner dispenses with the social protocol and let’s the animal take over, it says a lot about their attraction to you and what’s sexier than being wanted? </p>
<p>So for many some explicit foreplay is very effective. Other can be a little coy and will need to ease into the dirty verbals. In this situation the best bet is to wait until things are already cooking, when people are really in the physical moment there inhibitions can drop as their pleasure levels rise, this is when you might want to whisper a few naughty words in your partners ear and you take them over the top!</p>
<p><b>Facials</b></p>
<p>Well here’s a little sex act that doesn’t come up at the dinner table too often, and to be honest, that’s probably for the best. Under the heading facials, let’s look at any body part that receives the post orgasm ejaculate and there is some real-estate that has a no fly zone in effect much of the time.</p>
<p>After watching Ron Jeremy and the like paint their co-stars faces for years now, a lot of guys think it’s no big thing to aim and fire with reckless abandon; but while some women find it pleasurable to wear their man’s seed, many do not. So always discuss landing areas with your partner, for most the stomach, breasts arse and back etc are acceptable, maybe not all the time but they’re definitely within the rules of engagement. Anything above the neck is a conversation, or at least a sweaty request before the top blows off. Maybe come to a compromise and indulge in some sexy oral action in the shower, that way any deposits can be quickly washed away and the steamy location will make things hotter again!</p>
<p><b>Bondage</b></p>
<p>Who hasn’t tried handcuffs or tying your partner’s hands to the bed-head? If you haven’t you’re in the minority, and you’re missing out. The feeling of dominance and submission that can be experienced with a trusted partner can be nothing short of ecstatic and the places you can go after your initial forays into bondage are mind blowing. Just do a few online searches and you’ll find an incredible world of chips, dip, chains and whips – all just waiting for you and your significant other to take them home.</p>
<p>Bondage can really put some nitro into your foreplay, thus supercharging your sex play. The seduction of the ritual can make the skin almost ache, dressing your partner, lovingly restraining them and then pleasuring them in a bound and compromised state can take the intimacy between two people to amazing new places. Chat about the roles each would like to assume, and to add to the comfort levels, have a safety word, so if things get a little too heavy, the buckles and Velcro can be released for a quick breather.</p>
<p><b>Anal Sex</b> </p>
<p>It’s the holy grail for a lot of guys, many don’t even know why; they just know that they really want it because for the most part they cant have it. As our modern sexuality is being discussed more and more the fact that a healthy percentage of women enjoy anal sex has become common knowledge so at the very least, a discussion on the subject should be a no brainer for couples. </p>
<p>If it is being attempted for the first time it’s a game of patience, start with a little rimming, and some light, lubricated finger play leading to insertion; keep talking with your partner ensuring his or her comfort. Eventually when both parties are ready and adequately lubricated, penetration can be attempted. </p>
<p>Go slow until you’ve got the go ahead for more throttle; initially anal sex takes a little more caution but with the nerve epicentre that resides in the anus, the pleasure that can be derived from this formerly taboo sexual act is well worth the patience.</p>
<p><b>Pornography</b><br />  </br>With modern pornography crossing further and further into the mainstream, adult movies are no longer watched exclusively by the trench-coat brigade. Today, adult stars like Jenna Jameson and Ron Jeremy can be see popping up in ads, reality series and Hollywood movies, thus, sexy films are finding their way into our bedrooms more and more. </p>
<p>So chat to your partner, see if you couldn’t jump start things now and then with a few sexy scenes. Today’s adult film productions are numerous and varied, what ever your tastes, you’ll find something to light your fires – films for couples, films for women, films for Argentinean dwarves… what ever you think will turn you on, it’s all there.</p>
<p>Give it a try… having sex while watching other have sex release the voyeur in us all, setting the scene for some mighty big pleasures.</p>
<p><b>Strip clubs</b><br />  </br>Strip joints are becoming a fun night out for couples or perhaps an intriguing book-end to a night spent out on the town. You been out for dinner, done a little dancing, had a few drinks… you’ve probably both got a bit of the Dutch courage on the go and the arousal levels are rising… it might be time for a Strip Club.</p>
<p>If you’ve ever been to a strip club, chances are you’ve seen couples there and the attraction they general get from the dancers. Having a lady on your arm or being said lady will separate you from the masses of lonely guys looking for a cheap grab and generally a good time will be had. </p>
<p>Sit together and watch each other flirt with the dancers, giving away those dollars. If thing are feeling really good, why not go together for a private lap dance, touch and feel each other while the dancers perform and heighten your pleasure. Bang!</p>
<p><b>Masturbation</b></p>
<p>Are you really into your partner? Imagine them, get a picture of them in your mind, now if they’re not already naked, get rid of their clothes. They just smile at you, slowly closing their eyes and gently running their hand over their bodies, slowly losing themselves in the thought of sex with you… Pretty hot right! Well why not bring that heat into the bedroom? </p>
<p>To shake things up a little now and then, mutual masturbation is a great break in pace and when both parties are in the right head space it can be an out and out winner.</p>
<p>The great thing about mutual masturbation is that each partner can move along at their own pace and simultaneous orgasm is reasonably easy to achieve, either sit looking at each other or lie next to each other, touching and feeling your partners movements and climaxes. Touching yourself has never been so much fun!</p>
<p><b>Fantasising </b></p>
<p>Unless you’re Brad or Angelina, likely hood is, you’re occasionally gonna think about nailing someone that is not your partner. We understand it’s not something you’d ever act on but there’s no point in fantasising a little right? Well while you have nothing to be ashamed of, neither does your partner so why not get things out in the open. </p>
<p>Ask about their fantasy crushes, who do they like and how could you incorporate that into your sex life. Maybe your girl would like to watch Johnny Depp films as you ride each other into sexual nirvana, or maybe your man might like to put that poster of Jessica Alba on the wall every now and then. The secret is not to get jealous, but rather take pleasure in the fact you’re helping your partner indulge in a fantasy, ultimately bringing them closer to you.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe it’s the smell of leather, the feelings of chains against your skin or the look of a hot hard stomach with a sprinkling of sweat – there are so many fetishes out there that get you in the mood for some lovin’ that it can be hard to pick just one to indulge in. But the best news is that with more and more people putting their love of everything from latex to balloons out in the open the opportunity to indulge is yours for the taking!</p>
<p>While some think that fetishes are sexual obsessions the truth is that these days a fetish is anything that heightens your sexual experience – even more than usual. It could be getting gagged and bound or having your naughty little romp video taped, it could be dressing up in leather or having sex with a complete stranger… even your love of women in heels could be painted with the ultra sexy fetish brush.</p>
<p>Hot guys and girls all over the country are pulling on their finest fetish gear to get cheeky and sweaty with other sexy couples and single ladies. The Saints and Sinners ball in Victoria is Australia’s largest and most institutionalised fetish event and has been running for 18 years. They attract thousands of fetish lovers from all over the world to experience the sensational delights of the night. Each year, party goers are amazed at the awe inspiring multi level auditorium filled with thousands of sexy people dressed in erotic outfits. The B&amp;D area is always busy with resident masters and mistresses pleasuring like never before. “Saints and Sinners continues to break new ground with another year of record attendance and horny action in the dark (and not so dark).”</p>
<p>Known to have the best real life fetish displays and pushing the boundaries to the most extreme, Connections is a Perth icon that holds theme events with BDSM on the menu. This gay and lesbian club is renowned for incorporating mainstream fetish crowds at their wild and lusty parties. This year saw a huge success with Hellbent and Connections are following it up with Bound and Gagged “another night of freaky fetish fun, dark desires, and perverted pleasures.”</p>
<p>Of course BDSM is not the only saucy delight that Australian’s enjoy. Sydney party organisers Pure Domination hold high class themed fetish or fantasy parties where everything from ropes to glitter are a go. Not always BDSM orientated, their focus on the art of seduction and eroticism heightens the senses for a truly memorable experience held in a hip and sophisticated venue in the heart of trendy Darlinghurst. This month their fetish and fantasy theme remains but with an extra twist of a Show Girl theme to really heat things up.</p>
<p>With so many fetishes for you to try we thought we’d give you a taste of just a few.</p>
<p><strong>Trampling Fetish</strong></p>
<p>If you’ve ever had someone walk on you during sex then you’ve been trampled on and if you haven’t tried it then give it a go – it’s exhilarating for those who get off on domination. The woman wears high heels while she walks over the man’s chest, throat, stomach, and crotch. Funny thing is that the man will barley move even when the woman is standing on his crotch with spiked heels. The men love the idea of being under a woman’s heel and the woman loves being on top. It’s a win-win situation where everyone gets off!</p>
<p><strong>Latex and Leather Fetish</strong></p>
<p>Seeing a hot body adorned in tight leather or latex could quite possibly be one of the sexiest sights to see and lucky for those who love this theme as it has an enormous underground culture. There are retail stores where you not only purchase anything and everything latex and leather related, you can also find out about latex parties where you will be surrounded by people dressed in leather and latex all night long.</p>
<p><strong>Uniform Fetish</strong></p>
<p>Who doesn’t go crazy for a man in uniform or a woman dressed in a cheerleaders outfit? This is a very popular fetish for men and women alike and it really brings the fantasy and fetish world together for a truly naughty night. This fetish is fairly broad and can be taken to any degree you feel comfortable with. A female doctor who seduces her patient or a medieval knight who knows how to use his sword – the options are only limited by your cheeky imagination.</p>
<p><strong>Balloon Fetish</strong></p>
<p>This one is a little unusual and so we just had to include it! This fetish involves being turned on by balloons; the smell, the noise, the excitement of not knowing when they are going to pop. People who enjoy this fetish are known as ‘looners’ and just hearing a hottie huffing and puffing on a balloon is enough to drive them over the edge.</p>
<p><strong>Got a fetish that takes you to new pleasurable heights? Ever been with someone who introduced you to a fantasy you had never imagined before? Tell us all about it!</strong></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do Australians stack up in bed against the rest of the world? RedHotPie has got the goss!</p>
<p>Do Australians make some of the world’s best lovers? Well, since RedHotPie’s call out to our members to represent Australia in the Durex Global Sex Survey, the average time Australian’s are making love in a year has jumped from 84 in 2001, to 103 last year, to rise again above the international average to 108 in 2006. This is in no small part due to the fact that RedHotPie members are having sex over 350 times a year. Yes that’s right; RedHotPie members are having sex more than 3 times the national average! Australians are also world leaders in threesomes. You heard right, but let me repeat, we are the official world leaders in the number of THREESOMES! Oh Yeah!</p>
<p>This comes as no surprise when you consider that 67% of Australian single girls, (out of the hundreds of thousands of RedHotPie members) are looking for couples. As one of the proud Australians who has had the good fortune to experience a threesome, I would like to thank RedHotPie for this and for making Western Australia the world leader in threesomes, blitzing the global average of only 15%. Even those randy French and decadent Americans can not hold a candle to the love making ability of us Australians.</p>
<p>The Durex Sex Survey also reveals that we are world leaders when it comes to incorporating sex toys in the bedroom. 46% of Australians, compared to the global average of 23%, use sex toys as a way of complementing our sexual ability and enhancing the sexual experience. We are second only to Britain in the use of blindfolds, whips, ropes and other bondage paraphernalia. The real question here has to be, how the hell did we rank higher then those deviant Germans? I guess we Australian are a lot kinkier then we imagine.</p>
<p>Now if we can only increase the rate at which we practice Karma Sutra techniques in the bedroom, which now sits at an abysmal 6%, sourly under the global average. This is well behind even Hong Kong where 75% of the population are practitioners of this ancient art of Tantric sex. Apart from this, Western Australia sticks out head and shoulders above the world as having some of THE best lovers and remember, RedHotPie is where you will find these world class sex fiends.<br />
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