Women are becoming more open with their thoughts about it and many women are increasingly more comfortable exploring this fantasy.

Keep in mind that, every woman is different and some will love DP and others won’t. It really depends on personal preference for each woman and what stirs her sexual desires.

DP isn’t for everyone, but master this erotic sex move and you could seriously up your orgasm game.

A woman’s body is designed to receive and accommodate pleasure with endless possibilities. Take DP, whether it’s vag or vag and anal, many women love the pleasure they can achieve through this sex act.

A vagina is made up of ton of muscles, which are made to stretch. Fisting, large toy play and DP can be enjoyed if you are patient with your body and have realistic expectations.

If you think you want to give this fantasy a go, remember that it takes time to learn any form of pleasure. First, you need to feel comfortable and then you need to teach your body to re-learn a new form of receiving pleasure.

Start Small

While trying anything new it’s important to remember to go slow and do your prep work. Be well lubricated, very aroused and practice until it all feels right for you.
Start with a small toy, or fingers and then move to a bigger toy or to having two toys or maybe your partner and a toy inside you.

Practice

DP is a sex act that can lead to mind blowing orgasms but before then you need to practice getting your body familiar to it.

For women penetration through thrusting rhythmically is pleasurable as is the feeling of fullness and having multiple partners. The sensation of feeling full or stretch can create an amazing and intense sensation of pleasure.

Pleasure is pleasure, no matter in what form or style it is achieved. There are things that will get your juices going and others that will leave you feeling like a dry leaf.

Every body is different! But go slow, see what works and what doesn’t, and be patient.

Don’t knock DP until you’ve tried it…

What The Heck Is Pegging ?

The RedHotPie Poll Results!

Licking butt doesn’t necessarily mean it’s up for grabs for everybody, it’s usually done to someone you have been with and who has recently taken a shower and smells like there’s a bar of lavender bouquet up their ass.

Some people still consider rimming to be taboo, dirty or even homoerotic, so it’s rarely discussed openly or admitted to in public.

Yes, rimming is an art and one that is highly pleasurable if done right of course, and it is not solely enjoy by blokes only. Ladies, believe me that your lad secretly will love it when your tongue accidentally grazes their butthole while you’re giving him head.

Ladies: If your backside has yet to experience a soft warm mouth lovingly tease and probe it, put that on your bucket list.

Unless your head has literally been stuck up someone’s asshole, you already know that 2014 has been christened the year of the booty and bought back to the forefront the ‘Assman’. As a result there has been a rise of anal sex play in the bedroom, rimming or salad tossing and erotic spanking.

Therefore for those interested in exploring analingus further, here are some tips on how to eat the booty properly. If you think you don’t like giving or receiving it, it’s because you are doing it wrong, and here’s why.

1. Cleanliness

Plan wisely; hit the shower before getting your can canoodled. As with any other sexual activities washing up makes things a bit more fun. Enough said here.

2. Trim

We are not talking about the full frontal but a trim back makes it easier to rummage through. Plus having a smooth posterior heightens your sphincter’s sensitivity to touch.

3. Tact

Before you dive straight into it, tease the butt. Test the waters and lick your way around the butt and let your partner know you’re interested in tossing the salad. Reach around and start with kissing their lower back, the back of the legs, inner thighs, buttocks, crack of the ass, and then the asshole.

4. Watch your fangs

This is not an area to bite. The gentles and warmth of your tongue is what makes this enjoyable. There are a lot of nerves back there, so go slow, go easy and no teeth.

5. You don’t spread it wide

You know how good a tight ass squeeze feels. You need to make room for your tongue so spread the butt cheeks a bit but not too much with that same tight grip on them, they will love the sensation.

6. Prep it up

Don’t be selfish here and try to stick it way too quickly. Prep your partner a bit; it’s more enjoyable for everyone. Use your fingers, Butt plugs, and dildos.
If you are already a fan of the anal arts, then you have discovered how great it is to have your ass eaten as foreplay to getting it fucked.

7. Come up for air

Take a minute to catch your breath not to look like you are about to suffocate down there.
Eating butt isn’t that out of the ordinary. And hopefully you’ve also come to understand how good it can feel. It can certainly add a lot of extra sensitivity that leads to that full-body good feeling.

Lick it, spank it or fuck it, so much fun to be had with the booty.

What is the fascination with anal sex? Is it because it’s so taboo, that it makes it high on the list of top sexual fantasies and acts performed both in the porn industry and on many men’s sex wish list. That element of taboo makes anal ‘naughty’.

That ‘naughty’ element can be highly erotic and fascinating, making this act highly desirable in the bedroom.

When it comes to anal sex, there seems to be a lot of mixed feelings. There are those of us who love it, those that want to have a go at it and those who are a bit skeptical about it and honestly there are those that want to run a mile away at the drop of the subject.

Like anything else, anal sex no different, it’s about past experiences. Had you had the luck of finding an anal ‘ lover’ who was gentle and patient with you while showing the pleasures of anal sex, yes pleasures is the word intended, then you have found out that in time when you learn to relax and trust your lover you can find anal sex pleasurable.

We all like variety, something new and different will be especially appealing. Now here is a thought when trying to keep things fresh.

How do you get yours truly to go from ‘No f-ing way I’m doing that’ to ‘ Oh f-ing yeah more please!’

Like this, seeing you didn’t scare her off at this point already, better luck next time if you did.

Spike Interest

‘Sometimes it’s not so much about the present but about the wrapping’. What is the relevance of this saying? Keep on reading…..

If you want your lady to get into anal sex you must spike her interest and tell her what she’s going to get out of it. She must believe that it is going to be a pleasurable and an orgasmic experience. You must make anal sex feel really good for her. As we all very well know, that first experience must be pleasurable or near mind blowing act, at least good enough for her to want to do it again. Without any frills, patience and selflessness and lots of lube are what you need. The upside, think about the rest of the times and how much fun you’ll be having.

Here are some steps that might help you bring your girlfriend to say ‘Oh yeah, baby let’s do it’: There are certain things you can do to ensure that your backdoor fun is the best it can be – pleasurable.

Take it easy!!

Start with foreplay and normal sex to warm her up.

The more aroused she is the more relaxed she’ll be and then reach out for some lube (lots of lube) and start maybe using your fingers or a toy to start.

Go slow

Easy boy, be patient! It’ll all be worth it in the end. Go slow. Start with missionary it is often the most comfortable when you’re first starting out, but doggy style can work too. Suggest she’ll pleasure herself to relax and increase her pleasure level.

Now carry on and have fun

Once you’re all warmed up, she will start to enjoy anal sex and even learn to love it.

According to the Australian Sex Census statistic, Australians definitely love anal sex with men scoring a 64% and women 77%. Also our “Anal Sex” poll on RedHotPie Shows that 83% of both men and women have tried anal sex.

Don’t be afraid to ask for it, experiment with it or just fantasize about it. Life is too short, have fun and experiment

Can you please share with us your anal sex adventures? Would love to hear your stories.

She wants to have a threesome with him but starting with her using the strap-on on me and then blindfolding me. They want to then tie me up and make me guess who is penetrating me. I am very willing to experiment but don’t know if it will be to painful. Both the guy’s penis and the strap-on are about 7 to 8 inches and reasonably thick. Is it too big and will he fit it all in my anus? Is the anus deep enough for the hard and fast side of things? I really want to try it but just a little hesitant.

I think everyone who has tried anal sex will agree that if you are hesitant at all, you will not find the experience comfortable or pleasurable. The anal passage is not designed to take objects in so it’s very important to make sure you are very relaxed and well prepared. Having said that, if done the right way, you’ll be surprised how accommodating the anal passage is, especially with lube.
As much as your friend is keen to try a threesome, I would strongly suggest that you try experimenting with the strap-on just with her. If you are nervous about taking on a 7-8 inch strap-on, perhaps invest in a smaller, skinnier dildo to see how well you can take it. Make sure you have a lot of water-based lubricant on hand and get your friend to gently guide the dildo in. If this works well, then you can move on to the strap-on but I suggest just using it like a dildo also. If the larger size of the strap-on isn’t a problem for you either, your friend can strap up. Remember that your friend will not have any sense of how deep she is penetrating you other than seeing how much of the dildo is going in. You’ll need to tell her when the sensation is too deep for you.

Once you have explored the strap-on with your friend (and over time developed more trust), you can both look at bringing in the bi dude. You should have no trouble taking in a real penis (don’t forget condoms and lube) but unlike your friend, her male friend will be enjoying the sensation of being inside you and may thrust harder and faster. If you are concerned that the guy may go too deep, ask him to wrap a small towel around the base of his penis to prevent this. As for the extras, I would really consider letting your friend only blindfold you at this stage. It doesn’t sound like you know either your friend and her friend that well so being tied up may just have to be a treat reserved for when more trust is built. I would say the same for having your session videotaped.
Finally, don’t forget water-based lube!

You’ve both thought about it. You’re out shopping and you notice the way that top shows off your partners curves and you get that little flutter downstairs… so why not act on it? Now we’re not telling you to strip and bump one out by the registers at Coles but where there’s a will, there’s a way. Look for some out of the way restrooms, maybe a supply closet. Hell if you have to wander around and find a quiet corner behind a building or in an alleyway, the sexual heights attainable by a little public passion will be totally worth the risk.

Home movies

You know what’s hotter than watching people having sex on the telly? Watching yourself having sex on the telly. As the sex tape becomes more and more mainstream with A-List celebs doing publishing deals for their fornication films every other week, everyday folks are getting in on the fun.

Float the idea with your partner and discuss what might be fun, if there is a little concern about being recorded, set up a shot that won’t show your faces. As you get more comfortable with the idea and the sensation of seeing yourself and your lover in the throws of passion you may well gain in courage and become much more adventurous, opening a door to some very sexy cinema indeed!

Dirty Talk

Want to tip you lover over the edge? Well this is just about a lock when it comes to amping up the amour factor. For a few folks, some sexy gutter talk can be a huge part of foreplay, really heating things up. When you partner dispenses with the social protocol and let’s the animal take over, it says a lot about their attraction to you and what’s sexier than being wanted?

So for many some explicit foreplay is very effective. Other can be a little coy and will need to ease into the dirty verbals. In this situation the best bet is to wait until things are already cooking, when people are really in the physical moment there inhibitions can drop as their pleasure levels rise, this is when you might want to whisper a few naughty words in your partners ear and you take them over the top!

Facials

Well here’s a little sex act that doesn’t come up at the dinner table too often, and to be honest, that’s probably for the best. Under the heading facials, let’s look at any body part that receives the post orgasm ejaculate and there is some real-estate that has a no fly zone in effect much of the time.

After watching Ron Jeremy and the like paint their co-stars faces for years now, a lot of guys think it’s no big thing to aim and fire with reckless abandon; but while some women find it pleasurable to wear their man’s seed, many do not. So always discuss landing areas with your partner, for most the stomach, breasts arse and back etc are acceptable, maybe not all the time but they’re definitely within the rules of engagement. Anything above the neck is a conversation, or at least a sweaty request before the top blows off. Maybe come to a compromise and indulge in some sexy oral action in the shower, that way any deposits can be quickly washed away and the steamy location will make things hotter again!

Bondage

Who hasn’t tried handcuffs or tying your partner’s hands to the bed-head? If you haven’t you’re in the minority, and you’re missing out. The feeling of dominance and submission that can be experienced with a trusted partner can be nothing short of ecstatic and the places you can go after your initial forays into bondage are mind blowing. Just do a few online searches and you’ll find an incredible world of chips, dip, chains and whips – all just waiting for you and your significant other to take them home.

Bondage can really put some nitro into your foreplay, thus supercharging your sex play. The seduction of the ritual can make the skin almost ache, dressing your partner, lovingly restraining them and then pleasuring them in a bound and compromised state can take the intimacy between two people to amazing new places. Chat about the roles each would like to assume, and to add to the comfort levels, have a safety word, so if things get a little too heavy, the buckles and Velcro can be released for a quick breather.

Anal Sex

It’s the holy grail for a lot of guys, many don’t even know why; they just know that they really want it because for the most part they cant have it. As our modern sexuality is being discussed more and more the fact that a healthy percentage of women enjoy anal sex has become common knowledge so at the very least, a discussion on the subject should be a no brainer for couples.

If it is being attempted for the first time it’s a game of patience, start with a little rimming, and some light, lubricated finger play leading to insertion; keep talking with your partner ensuring his or her comfort. Eventually when both parties are ready and adequately lubricated, penetration can be attempted.

Go slow until you’ve got the go ahead for more throttle; initially anal sex takes a little more caution but with the nerve epicentre that resides in the anus, the pleasure that can be derived from this formerly taboo sexual act is well worth the patience.

Pornography

With modern pornography crossing further and further into the mainstream, adult movies are no longer watched exclusively by the trench-coat brigade. Today, adult stars like Jenna Jameson and Ron Jeremy can be see popping up in ads, reality series and Hollywood movies, thus, sexy films are finding their way into our bedrooms more and more.

So chat to your partner, see if you couldn’t jump start things now and then with a few sexy scenes. Today’s adult film productions are numerous and varied, what ever your tastes, you’ll find something to light your fires – films for couples, films for women, films for Argentinean dwarves… what ever you think will turn you on, it’s all there.

Give it a try… having sex while watching other have sex release the voyeur in us all, setting the scene for some mighty big pleasures.

Strip clubs

Strip joints are becoming a fun night out for couples or perhaps an intriguing book-end to a night spent out on the town. You been out for dinner, done a little dancing, had a few drinks… you’ve probably both got a bit of the Dutch courage on the go and the arousal levels are rising… it might be time for a Strip Club.

If you’ve ever been to a strip club, chances are you’ve seen couples there and the attraction they general get from the dancers. Having a lady on your arm or being said lady will separate you from the masses of lonely guys looking for a cheap grab and generally a good time will be had.

Sit together and watch each other flirt with the dancers, giving away those dollars. If thing are feeling really good, why not go together for a private lap dance, touch and feel each other while the dancers perform and heighten your pleasure. Bang!

Masturbation

Are you really into your partner? Imagine them, get a picture of them in your mind, now if they’re not already naked, get rid of their clothes. They just smile at you, slowly closing their eyes and gently running their hand over their bodies, slowly losing themselves in the thought of sex with you… Pretty hot right! Well why not bring that heat into the bedroom?

To shake things up a little now and then, mutual masturbation is a great break in pace and when both parties are in the right head space it can be an out and out winner.

The great thing about mutual masturbation is that each partner can move along at their own pace and simultaneous orgasm is reasonably easy to achieve, either sit looking at each other or lie next to each other, touching and feeling your partners movements and climaxes. Touching yourself has never been so much fun!

Fantasising

Unless you’re Brad or Angelina, likely hood is, you’re occasionally gonna think about nailing someone that is not your partner. We understand it’s not something you’d ever act on but there’s no point in fantasising a little right? Well while you have nothing to be ashamed of, neither does your partner so why not get things out in the open.

Ask about their fantasy crushes, who do they like and how could you incorporate that into your sex life. Maybe your girl would like to watch Johnny Depp films as you ride each other into sexual nirvana, or maybe your man might like to put that poster of Jessica Alba on the wall every now and then. The secret is not to get jealous, but rather take pleasure in the fact you’re helping your partner indulge in a fantasy, ultimately bringing them closer to you.