It’s that time of the year, the most romantic and sexually charged day

• And you don’t have a date?
• Have you been doing nothing with your time?
• Are you a last minute kind of person?

You answered YES to all the above, didn’t you…

Don’t panic, there is still sometime to set yourself up on a date. Don’t sit around waiting for some imaginary suitor, create your own destiny and make this V-Day your best ever with this one little tool. It’s time to be pro-active, not reactive, and if it’s action you’re after, RedHotPie’s DateFinder is your new best friend!

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you are probably wondering what to do with your partner this year. Being who we are, Valentine’s Day poses a challenge, one which we take pleasure in acing and raising the bar every year. Time to heat things up!

V-Day is all about going outside the box. Doing something exciting or something outside the norm of our sexual routine. Let’s get a little crazy, a little kinky and amp up some sexy time.

Valentine’s Day is a holiday where love, sex, roses, chocolate, lacy and racy lingerie are not only celebrated they are encouraged! With this in mind, let’s ditch the flowers, expensive gifts and chocolate, maybe not the chocolate, tone down the mushiness and turn up the heat and have out-of-this-world, knock-your-sox-off sex.

Those who need an ulterior motive, remember that Steak and BJ Day is coming soon, 14th March, and V-Day is your building block for the most amazing Steak and BJ Day. Where to start? If you want to impress and please, start with the following ideas and improve them anyway that suits you.

Date Ideas:

Set the mood! Lucky there’s help out there in a form of an app.

Yes, you read it right. Today there’s an app for almost anything and one even to take care of your love life, so to speak. We are all guilty of being forgetful and sometimes having a hard time prioritising work and love life. We are too busy and it leaves us very little time for romance or teasing and least of all lubricating the engine that leads to good sex – the brain- with romantic words and pleasantries that soften the heart and pave the way to awesome sex. Well, not to fear, go to iTunes and download ‘romantimantic’ a little helpful app that will send your lover sweet sexy messages. Best of all you don’t have to think about it or spend time trying to come up with something nice to say, all you have to do is press ‘send’. Genius, a few days of sweet nothings and on your drive home on Valentine’s Day you know that your lover will happily be awaiting you with open arms, so you hope.

Presentation and the colour Red:

For some reason there is something incredibly sexy about a woman in red. So whether it is red lingerie, a red dress, red shoes or red lipstick, turn up the heat in something red girls!
Don’t stop there guys and bring something red to your bedroom, get a red silky scarf, blindfold her and tie her up and let her be the subject of your sexual desires. Women cited domination as one of their top 10 female sex fantasies.

No Panties:

Make this Valentines Day about smoking hot SEX! During dinner, slowly remove your panties under the table. If you aren’t feeling quite as bold, you can remove them in the bathroom or just leave home without them. Hand them over to him or flash him and watch him squirm, as he sits across from you knowing that you are going commando. The suspense will drive him crazy! A little incentive to get that nice prolonged foreplay you’ve been wishing for. Guys, give her the gift of a non rushed job and however long it takes just please her and prep her for a night of kissing, touching, licking and teasing.

Put away the rose petals:

As romantic as it is rose petals are so lame and tame, instead place one article of clothing, we’re talking about your lingerie and stockings, at the front door all the way to the bedroom, in the bedroom wait for him naked or if you really want to be adventurous have a pre-arranged friend with you in the bedroom. As he walks in the bedroom, he can tell you are already ready for him. Skip dinner and go straight to dessert.

New Location:

How do you make sex on V-Day special? The solution probably lies on changing the location. Don’t head to your bedroom in a rush, you certainly might finish there, but for a real rush why not consider ‘Public sex’. The excitement of being caught is a real turn on. Try the beach, the lane-way or in the back seat of the car. You could also organise a hotel room for this special night to engage in really loud sex romp. Sizzle up the night with setting up your video camera and try out home-porn, bonus lies in re-playing your movie directorial début it’ll get you going again.

Get kinky:

Valentine’s Day is shrouded with a lot of mystery no one has pinpointed the exact origin of the holiday. In ancient Rome around this time there was a festival of fertility where young men would whip women with animal hides. Women would line up for it, as they believed this would make them more fertile. To make it more interesting this fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which young men drew the names of women from a bowl. The couples would enjoy each other for the duration of the festival and sometimes if the match was right stay together and end up marrying. Sounds like this festival was a lot of fun it includes pairing off and a little bit of BDSM exploration!
You might want to experiment with some kinky play and why not try spanking and light whipping. Never tried anal sex, BDSM or role-playing?

Valentine Day is a perfect day to channel your inner provocateur, to get creative and kinky and make this day a f**k fest of the year and all in the name of keeping up with traditions. The secret to a successful Valentine’s Day plan is making it your own.

Check out Last minute Valentine date ideas.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

What’s the craziest date you’ve had on a Valentine’s Day?