What can be better than watching your partner rub themselves against a big hard pole? No, not a man’s pole… I’m referring to an actual long metal pole, although what can be done with the metal pole will certainly pique the formers’ interest. We have all heard celebrities such as Carmen Electra, Teri Hatcher and Cameron Diaz swearing by pole dancing as a great form of exercise but what they neglect to divulge is how sensual and erotic it can be to perform for your partner. Pole dancing, once reserved for strip clubs, is now a sensuous dance phenomenon that shows no sign of slowing down. Pole dancing has become so well known it has even set precedence for a new reality TV show called Erotic Star hosted by our resident dating advice gurus Bessie Bardot and Geoff Barker. Bobbi’s Pole Studio partnered up with Erotic Star with the ten contestants using the space to learn how to move like pros. Classes are available mainly for women with Bobbi’s Pole Studio asking patrons to wear their shortest shorts and highest heels to make the experience all the more sizzling. Bobbi’s is located in Sydney and Perth and offers these classes as well as lap dancing for women who care less about the exercise aspect and more about putting on a naughty show.
It is a personal choice how much you want to learn about pole dancing with classes available for beginners, intermediate and advanced. Once you have done one or all of these courses it is only natural to consider putting a pole in your own home for a little private viewing. It is relatively simple to purchase and install a pole. They vary in price – ranging from $500 – $900. Many are screw less (no pun intended) so you won’t have to drill any holes in your wall and you and your partner can begin the smouldering sexercise immediately. Vanessa, co- owner of Bobbi’s Pole Studio, testifies to pole dancing’s effectiveness for spicing things up in the bedroom.
“I had been trying to get pregnant for a year before I opened the studio and got a pole installed in my bedroom just before we opened, 2 weeks later I was pregnant,” she said.
If pole dancing in front of your partner is daunting – ease into it. Women should channel their sexual energy and set the mood with some sensual music to get the party started. The partner should make the woman feel comfortable by complimenting her on how sexy she looks and how turned on they are before she has even begun.
Before the performance begins the woman can entice her partner. The bending over and pretending to pick something up technique is always a winner, just remember to do it slowly and look your partner straight in the eye when you do it. Alternatively you can bend over with your butt towards them, look over your left shoulder and give them a sultry smirk. Disrobing is another hot alternative. Have your back to your partner and slip your robe off on one side, turn your head slightly to look at your partner (you can lick/ bite your lips or wink) then drop the robe, slowly swaying your hips side to side before letting the robe fall completely to the ground. You can begin your performance from there ensuring you have teased your partner sufficiently. If you are looking for something a little more adventurous why not have more than one pole around the house for when the bedroom gets a little mundane or for a playful house party perhaps? Or for you those who want to show RedHotPie how it’s done why not get on the adult webcam chat and let us see how much the classes have paid off? Whether you are a single who likes random encounters or a couple looking to rejuvenate their stifled sex life, pole dancing seems like great medicine for that little bit of sexual healing.
