RedHotPie travels the world finding the sexiest, most salacious swinging events on the planet to bring to you! Our tireless Party Insider, Bessie Bardot has done it again, uncovering San Francisco’s hottest adult event brand… Bronze Party!

San Francisco: it’s a very RedHotPie kinda town… sexy, liberated and up for just about anything! If this slice of West Coast heaven wasn’t already sexy enough, it just got a whole lot sexier with Bronze Party now hosting the hottest of hot San Fran soirees, making even the most seasoned swinger swoon.

As RedHotPie’s intrepid Party Insider, I sampled the Bronze Party brand (all in the interests of research of course,) and I can tell you – you don’t want to miss out on the sinful & decadent events that these guys are throwing. If we know anything at RedHotPie, it’s sexy, and Bronze take the gold when it comes to sexy!

Their house parties are an intimate and cozy affair, with beautiful people relaxing and enjoying life to the fullest. Then there are big events every month. I got down and dirty with the Bronze Party set at a wildly erotic warehouse bash, which any RHP lifestyler would definitely have been at home at.

I got the inside scoop from Bronze Party owner Ben, also the creator of an innovative lifestyle online booking system, Modern Lifestyle, that gets the flirting going way before you meet in the flesh.

(RHP) How did you get into the lifestyle yourself?

(Ben, Bronze Party) – I used to live in Berlin Germany where there were BDSM clubs, I’d go to those clubs and also attended the Exotic Erotic Ball in San Francisco where I’d bring girls and play, but this got me thinking and I decided I really wanted to put on events out in the open for the lifestyle and that’s how it all started.

How has the lifestyle changed, especially in the Bay Area.

Events were much less professional in the past. Now we have high quality venues, high level service, and excellent hygiene. By producing upper scale lifestyle parties, we are able to provide a better, safer and more upscale experience.

How has technology brought likeminded people together?

We started the first online ticketing for lifestyle party organisers and this has really helped likeminded people get together. Over 60 event organisers use our system. This saves party goers a bunch of time – now instead of having to create a profile with every club, a guest can simply set up one profile and access these 60 websites immediately. This has really brought the industry together and made it faster for couples and singles to reach cool events around the world.

Tell us about Bronze Party

The best way to describe Bronze Party is the Roman orgy. A mansion or club full of beautiful people, with beautiful bodies and gorgeous faces getting it on. Bronze Party guests tend to be planners, they are a higher class of people who make more of an effort and really get into the theme as opposed to showing up at the club with little to no forethought or attention to detail.

What are some of the hottest things you’ve seen at one of your parties?

It’s like watching ‘Eyes Wide Shut’. Just sexy people with the same idea of life having a blast.
It truly is a spontaneous organisation of like-minded people who want to relax and have fun together. The difference from ‘Eyes Wide Shut’ however is that people are friendly and interactive. They want to get to know you and don’t think they are better than you.

Who are these events attracting and how can people get involved?

Our events really attract the lifestyle leaders. We really have one of the better groups in the world. Attractive, smart, great education level and fun people.
Just go to www.BronzeParty.com, sign up and apply to be a member, then check out whose going to the events and start the online foreplay.

What advice would you give to young couples considering dipping their toe in the lifestyle?

The best advice I can give is to take it slow, join a few sites and see what’s out there. I always say, you can’t un-fuck somebody, so take your time and communicate with your partner. It can be the most incredible thing you’ve done if you don’t act like a chicken with your head cut off!

You also offer a ticketing system geared toward adult events, tell us about that.

This has really made a difference to the lifestyle as organisers can promote each other’s events, and the smaller promotors can reach everyone as well. It really brings the community back together and gives the members ultimate advantage with a wide variety of play parties.

Also members can start the online foreplay and flirt way before they meet at the event as our ticketing system also has an official ‘who’s going to the event’ page. You can check out whose coming, start chatting and build up the sexual tension way before the night. We do not offer a full blown social network though, because we leave this for the companies that specialise in this like Red Hot Pie. Our promoters are interested in guests buying tickets to their parties, not so much in people just being online, so we make customers go to other sites to do more full scale social networking like chatting, activity feeds, etc.

What are the next big lifestyle innovations?

Definitely better geographic tools for choosing the right people and even tougher verification systems. And legality, the lifestyle must be legal across the world. We have a fight on our hands, to be completely legal and accepted so we can flourish. It’s a morality fight. The right to have events legally how we want and when we want. There’s no denying who we are, and our community is growing at a rapid rate, this is the future!