The current RedHotPie poll asks ‘Pegging – Yay or Nay?’ The results are coming as a surprise to all of us at the Pie, so we thought we’d get into the nitty gritty of it and see what it’s all about. And in the interests of providing an educated opinion for all of you curious RedHotPie peeps, I gave it a go myself…
What The Heck Is Pegging ?
Despite the name, pegging has absolutely nothing to do with clothes pegs. It’s a sexual role-reversal, where a female uses a strap-on to perform anal sex on a male. While some use pegging as a form of female domination and male submission, it also just feels damn good for the male! We all know that a bit of anal play can stimulate a man’s special place (i.e. prostate) and really get them going.
The RedHotPie Poll Results!
Perhaps not all that surprising was that over a third of respondents so far answered ‘what the heck is pegging?’ So with that question answered above, let’s move on to what those in the know thought about it!
We’re long past the days of anal stimulation for men being considered ‘gay’ and it seems many are happy to get with the times and give it a go! A high percentage of single men in particular have either said they enjoyed pegging (30%) or that they wanted to try it (29%). When it came to females, it seems that the sisterhood is less-enlightened than their male counterparts about this sexy pastime, with 39% so far not even knowing what it was! Although, 28% did know about it and had tried it and loved it and 17% were curious to try it too. A third of couples that have responded so far have tried pegging and enjoyed it, with a further 13% saying they were curious to try.
Making It Happen
Curious to give it a go? If you’ve experienced anal sex where the female is receiving, many of the same rules apply – guys make sure to do a bit of ‘prep’ beforehand to avoid any messy accidents, ladies take your time and go slow with the initial penetration, make sure that he is super relaxed, be generous with the lube and reapply as often as needed, and lastly enjoy it! Make sure that the harness you use fits well and doesn’t slip and slide about, or cut in uncomfortably. It might be a good idea to let the male pick a dildo fitting for the harness, to make sure that he is happy with the length and girth of it. You can buy fittings that are specifically designed to reach the prostate area.
When it comes to positions, watch some pegging porn for inspiration and ladies talk to your partner about what he’d feel most comfortable with. Mine felt that being on all fours doggy-style was a bit too submissive, so he preferred to lie on his back with me kneeling between his legs. The next time we tried it, he did feel more comfortable with it and hopped on top of me kneeling so that he could control the depth and the speed.
What’s The Verdict?
He Says:
“Yeah, it’s a different experience. You need to make sure you lube up (there’s never too much lube). Once the first inch or so is in, slow thrusts in and out getting gradually deeper help the muscles relax. Once the length is in, you can gradually get faster with the thrusts and longer strokes. It’s a strange sensation to get used to, but most of your initial resistance is psychological. Once you get your mind around it, the feeling’s quite pleasant and has the ability to REALLY increase the intensity of your orgasm, because it stimulates a whole lot more nerves. When you combine it with masturbation or sex, the orgasm is full on!”
She Says:
After giving it a go a few times – purely for research purposes of course! – I’ve decided that pegging is a once-in-a-while sexy activity to include as a bit of a novelty. Obviously, I can only comment from a female’s perspective but physically, it really made me appreciate how difficult sex can be from a male’s perspective – all that thrusting can be tiring and my legs started burning pretty quickly from some of the positions! It also doesn’t do much for the female. I did invest in a harness that had a little front pouch for a bullet vibe, but it never really hit the right spots and mostly just squished against my body uncomfortably. We also tried using a double-ended toy where the female uses her PC muscles to clench one end while thrusting with the other, although it just became too slippery to get any proper movement with. Mentally, though, it can be pretty hot – I enjoyed watching my partner’s face and seeing expressions I haven’t before due to what looked like a pretty intense orgasm. And being in control is definitely a turn on.
The RedHotPie poll is still going! So now that you know what it’s all about, have your say.
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