You see, the owners of OSS, Lawrence and Jess, have just celebrated the club’s third birthday, and as you can imagine, parties don’t come much sexier than a swinger’s club birthday party.

Celebrated not just at home, but internationally, OSS has been responsible for smashing the stuffy myths around swinging, dragging the lifestyle kicking and errr, moaning into the new millennium. We’re talking elite premises, inviting décor, group spa, sex swings, orgy rooms… and nary a bowl or set of car keys in sight!

What Lawrence and Jess have built is nothing short of sensational, catering for swingers, exhibitionists, BDSM aficionados, voyeurs and all in between. The club has been featured regularly in the media, from iTunes podcasts, TV and publications. It is one of the most well known and upmarket venues in the country, a definite on every adventurous couple’s sexual bucket list.

This year’s birthday bash exceeded all expectations; the night was insane, but as always, it was accommodating on every level, for every guest. Whilst some simply chatted away, taking in the sites around them, others lit it up, with threesomes, foursomes, moresomes and other electric sexual adventures taking place. You could not see the walls for hot, naked bodies writhing in sexual bliss.

We could go on, believe us, we want to, but instead we’ll leave you with this short video on OSS, a little inside view of what goes on in one of the planet’s coolest swinger’s clubs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ADkfm2-LlZI

Mardi Gras weekend is probably one of the best party weekends in Australia. It’s big, and it’s loud and is for everyone. With every passing year it gets better, it captivates the nation and resonates around the world.

Our Secret Spot club is hosting one of the biggest events of the year

THE MARDI GRAS AFTER PARTY @ OSS

If you’re looking where go for an after party, after the parade, head to Our Secret Spot, because in their own words “the party need not end with the parade”. Judging by the great success of their Pendulum party a few weeks ago, this one is sure to be packed out by hot couples and select sexy bi-singles.

Whether you live in Sydney or are making your way there watching or being part of this energetic and all- inclusive celebration of Australia’s LGBTQI culture is an experience you’re sure to remember.

If you haven’t planned where to go, or if you’re not in Sydney get yourself a plane ticket because this is a party you do not want to miss.

Ever wondered if any of your neighbors are swingers?

Have some of your neighbours been sending vibes, signs or clues that communicate something familiar?

Whether it’s their body language, their carefree nature or the little things they do and wear; sends your ‘radar’  into full alert.

With swinging becoming more mainstream, there is a high percentage that at least one of your neighbours are practicing swingers and a few more curious about it.

If somehow you sense that you might be in the presence of a swinger, you need to figure out different ways you can confirm your suspicion

Here is a list of top 20 signs ( inspired by reddit users ) that may indicate your neighbours are swingers.

1. All their friends are couples, and when they talk about them, they only mention them by their first names “Bob and Diane”or “Joe and Sally”, but don’t  know their last name.

2. They regularly attend costume parties, and it’s not even Halloween.

3. They only go out partying on Friday and Saturday nights, and they do it often.

4. When asked which club they went to, they don’t seem to remember the name of it.

5. The wife wears a coat over her dress when she is leaving the house to go out, even during the summer.

6. When they have parties at their house, all their guests are couples, show up on a Saturday night carrying over night bags and don’t leave until Sunday afternoon.

7. All the couples they hang out with, the wives are gorgeous looking, busty and dress provocatively.

8. They go on holidays or weekend getaways often, and they do not have a lot of pictures to share.

9. They are happier and more youthful than all the other neighbours on your street.

10. Depending on your overall appearance, they may have unintentionally flirted with you once or twice.

11.  They talk about meeting a ‘couple’ for dinner.

12. They stop coming to the neighborhood block parties because they always have “other plans” on Saturday nights.

13. They are constantly encouraging their kids to spend the weekend at friends’ houses.

14. When you ask about their spa they talk about it as though it’s a necessity and not a luxury.

15. They travel all over the world and have ‘friends of friends’ that guarantee them free accommodation.

16. They come back from holidays and they have a tan, but no tan lines. Suntanning in the nude in their backyard is something they assume everyone does.
17. On Mondays they are all smiles and giggles about what went down over the weekend.

18. They look like they are newlyweds, yet they have been together a quarter of century.

19. You’ve had a few lost ‘strangers’, knocking at your door asking for “2horneyup4fun’

20.  Show this list to your neighbours and if they laugh, your neighbours might be swingers .

Some or all of these signs, are good a indication that your neighbours are swingers.

Feel free to add more in the comments at the end of the article. 

Is it a night filled with sparkling champagne, strong cocktails, lingerie, sexy costumes, crowds of sexy, open-minded people and holiday cheers?

Here is a list of RHP most desirable Xmas parties and events destinations  around the country that offer all of these and more:

New South Wales

RHP Social Sydney Xmas drinks – Fri, 9^th Dec

RHP Social has been designed for discerning sexy singles and couples who would like to take their time to unwind and get to know other singles and couples in a safe, fun and sexy environment.

Nothing is more powerful than building that electric, sensual connection over a few drinks, knowing glances and a few cheeky smiles.

Red Heaven Presents – Christmas in Wonderland – Sat, 17^th Dec

hose who are inquisitive about what Red Heaven is, now is the time to take the leap down that rabbit hole, to a new world of curious fun and diverse reality. In the words of the Cheshire Cat…. ‘I’m not crazy. My reality is just different from yours.’

Christmas in Wonderland will have the extraordinary DJ line up of Issy, Du Jour and Alex Taylor and wonderful performers leaving you full of wonderment and excitement.

Our Secret Spot – Xmas Party – Fri, 23^rd Dec

This is the big one that you all have been waiting for and as you know it’s always the biggest in the Secret Spot.

Come party with us at the Secret Spot and surrender to your fantasies.

Make it a night to remember

Western Australia

Christmas Party @ Pleasure Lounge, Fri 9^th Dec

Red Christmas Party
BELMONT
Wear something Red!
Come join in the sexy festivities.
Make Santa come!!!
Fun and games and giveaways.
Then when the Bell tolls… its time to loose some items of clothing.

Perth Socialites Christmas Get together –  Sat 10^th Dec

It’s time for Perth Socialites members and non-members to mix n mingle while celebrating all things Christmassy.

Daytime Catch Up: 2 – 6pm
Lets meet in the Beer Garden (with a kids play area) at a Hotel we have used previously for a Meet.
For those who don’t care to drive, it is situated right across from a Train Station…

Food and drinks are pay as you go.

Nighttime Party: 8pm – 12

A private club is ours to party on till midnight, so lets all spread some Christmas cheer with the sexy Socialites and RHPers…..
Cost $25 per person (pre-paid) covers entry, welcome drink, food & ice.
As we need a minimum number for this venue, all registrations and payments are to be made by December 1^st..

CHRISTMAS EVE @ Pleasure Lounge, Sat 24^th Dec

Christmas Eve
Free Meet n Greet and Then Party
BELMONT

Relax on Christmas Eve with Drinks with friends from 6pm
Then A special Fun night

Xmas Eve Party @ Sensationz, Sat 24^th Dec

We are a Nudist/Swingers Club. Come celebrate Xmas Eve with us.

We have 2 Saunas, 2 pool tables, table tennis Table, 2 private rooms + Open play/lounge area with adult movie showing. Massage room, BYO bar area & dance floor.

BOXING DAY FUN@ Pleasure Lounge, Mon 26th Dec

BOXING DAY FUN

Belmont

COME AND HANG OUT WITH LIKE MINDED PEOPLE

Have a Spa, Watch The test match
Have some fun, no pressure just come and enjoy the day, from 11am bring your leftovers
and drinks.

Boxing Day Public Holiday Party @ Sensationz, Mon 26th Dec

Enjoy Boxing Day with us!

We have 2 Saunas, 2 Pool Tables, Table Tennis Table, 2 Private rooms + Open room/lounge area with adult movie showing.

Massage room to really relax.

BYO bar area & dance floor.

Queensland

Brumbies Summer Lovers Xmas Party – Fri, 16^th Dec 

The world-famous Surfers Paradise beach and breathtaking skyline remains a major draw cards for millions of Gold Coast visitors each year.

We will be cooking up a storm with a famous Aussie BBQ on us and The Brand New and Exciting Club opening just a 5 min drive from Surfers Paradise
But when the Brumbies are in town the only place that will be thriving is our Summer Lovers Night. Running successful parties with raving and glowing feedback from all our couples and single girls who attend our Sydney based parties, the Brumbies are bringing our flair and hosting capabilities to Surfers Paradise for one special night.

The Official Mike’s Place Sexy Saturday Xmas Party – Sat, 24^th Dec

This is the one to attend if you can.

The Sexy Saturday Xmas Party is designed for the Saturday Patrons who can make it and aren’t Partied out already.
Come dressed as Sexy Elves and Santa’s Helpers. Lots of tinsel – red, green and white.
Tis the season to be merry…..come on come all.
Rumour has it that Santa will make an appearance…..

HO HO HO- Chateau Vino’s Xmas Party for Patrons & Guest – Sat, 17th Dec

Merry Christmas Everyone.

Please join the management and staff of Chateau Vino in celebrating Xmas 2016 with our annual Christmas Party. Dress like Santa in Summer, or a sexy elf and win some great prizes too.
The heat will be ON,  but the air-con keeps us cool…. cool enough to keep playing until the early hours.
Chateau Vino – It’s where swingers meet, party and play

Victoria

Melbourne Swingers Christmas Party, Sat, 17^th Dec

Ho Ho Ho Merry Xmas. Santa is on his way and bringing the Christmas cheer to all who come. Whether you’re naughty or nice, kinky or straight come along and enjoy the shows from the amazing Donny and Fetish House. The Rockin DJ Dave will be in the house. Prizes, Entertainment and lots more.

Walk through the doors at Shed 16 and leave you inhibitions in your locker, with your clothes and enter the new world order of Hedonism.

Purr’s Silver & White Xmas – Fri, 16th Dec

Purr is once again pleased to announce our legendary Xmas event – Silver & White Xmas.

This is the big one that you all have been waiting for and as you know it’s always the biggest Purr.

Allow yourself to surrender and let new fantasies come alive.

If you are more into one-on-one encounters why not post a few dates on DATEFINDER and ensure you celebrate your holiday season in a more personal style.

Merry Christmas Everyone!

From the planning to the execution this was one party that ticketed a few bucket list fantasies.

How do I know this? I was there with a group of sexy friends.

To start off, the venue was purpose designed for a hot erotic event. It evoked sexual energy and sensuality, especially with the private hidden playroom. You could feel the erotic vibe as soon as you walked in.

The whole aura of the place, with the high ceiling chandeliers, the long mirrored bar, plush lounges, a centre stage and a private play area, evoked feelings of sensuality.

This amazing venue came alive with the sexy attendees who dressed for sex. There were so many sexy and provocative angels and devils, it was hard to stay focused.

For the first hour, people mostly danced, sipped on exotic cocktails and warmed up to the place and the people, and then, the entertainment started.

It started out with sexually charged dancers, especially when the look alike Tatum Channing braced the stage, and had the women feeling hot and bothered.

Couples & singles alike were frolicking in the lounges while others made their way to the popular private playroom.

The playroom discreetly tucked away from the main area with dim lights, couches and decadent surroundings, was in full swing with naked bodies and people going at it. There were foursomes, threesomes, blowjobs … It was as wild as it gets.

Even just for one night, the Monastery brought to life many of the attendees’ sexual fantasies.

This was one sexy night filled the most fun, and attractive crowd in a perfectly suited venue.

A huge thank you and congratulations to Gav & Michelle from Private Parties, you have made Perth one of the most exciting destinations for sexy life-stylers.

images credit: The Monastery

Marriage and relationships can be challenging and in the endeavor to keep things fresh. Famous or not, couples turn to swinging as a way to actually enhance their bond with each other.

Having an open relationship is no big deal. Lots of couples do it successfully, including celebrities.

Here is a list of 9 celebrities who are rumored, have hinted or publicly admitted to being swingers. They are helping break perceptions about lifestylers and relationships. That’s why we love these celebrities for more than just their crazy sexy looks.

Who is the most famous person who is a swinger?

Angelina Jolie is right there at the top.

1. Angelina Jolie

Jolie is rumored to be a swinger based on her own dialogue:

She said: “I doubt that fidelity is absolutely essential for a relationship. It’s worse to leave your partner and talk badly about him afterward. Neither Brad nor I have ever claimed that living together means to be chained together. We make sure that we never restrict each other.”

2. Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith

Smith has admitted that he and his wife are allowed to have sex with other people, so long as they both agree it’s okay.

Will Smith explained: “Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people. If it came down to it, then one would say to the other: ‘Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now, I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it,”

3. Megan Fox

Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green are rumored to have an agreement in which they are allowed to sleep with other people.

4. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher

Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore were rumored to have been swingers when they were married. They allegedly participated in several threesomes.

5. Alan Cumming

The Scottish actor has admitted he lost his virginity at a small swingers party when he was 16. It was just he and his girlfriend at the time, and one other couple.

6. Julia Louis-Dreyfus and husband Brad Hall

Julia Louis-Dreyfus and her husband Brad Hall are rumored to be in an open marriage.

7. Tilda Swinton

Tilda Swinton and her partner John Byrne are in an open relationship.  She has admitted to having a sexual relationship with Sandro Kopp, an artist. Tilda has expressed that the happiness of those she loves is what is most important, and asserted that different families have to do what works for them.

8. Mo’Nique

In November 2015, Mo’Nique opened up about her open relationship with husband Sidney Hicks, saying that couples should be honest about their sexual attraction to other people, and maybe even give each other a free pass to cheat.
Recently, on a Mo’Nique and Sidney’s Open Relationship podcast, she explained why her husband is allowed to have sex with other women.

“If my husband should sleep with another woman, is that the end of our marriage? No. If I should sleep with another man, or have sex — if we gon’ do the do is that the end? No. But we’re open and honest with one another to have the conversation,” she explained.

“So when people say cheat, how do you cheat? When you say here are the answers and what that does is, what it did for me, it made me really appreciate what I had.”

9. Pink and her husband Carey Hart

Pink and her husband Carey Hart reportedly tried out an open marriage, but it quickly resulted in jealousy and anger. They are a good example that having an open relationship is not for everyone.

Every couple has their own narrative making them the only authority on what makes their relationship work. Social expectations or rules are there as guidelines and filters are what each individual within the couple implements to reach happiness and fulfillment – becoming part of the lifestyle is one.

WOW! That is the only way to describe Naughty in N’awlins 2016.

The RedHotPie/Aussie Swingers contingent came, saw and conquered (or more accurately, saw, conquered and came) at the largest Lifestyle convention in the world.

Never heard of it? You have now!

For 18 years now, French Connection Events have been running Naughty in N’awlins, a lifestyle convention in the incredible city of New Orleans. This year was the biggest ever and saw over 2100 + sexy people descend on the Astor Crowne Plaza for 5 days of not only the most epic parties and sexy playrooms, but seminars, workshops and education.

So big was the convention this year, that an additional 200 rooms were secured at a hotel across the road and many other late bookers had to reserve rooms at other neighbouring hotels.

Our incredible group of Aussies were a real hit with everyone at the convention and everyone made many new friends both in and outside of the bedroom. Everyone loves an Aussie and our group also included couples from the US who wanted to travel with us to join in the fun. The RedHotPie/Aussie Swingers gift bag was the envy of everyone at the convention…

It included RedHotPie bikinis, boxers, lip balm, bottle opener, Aussie Swingers condoms, lube, beads, vibrator, name necklaces and pasties, Our Secret Spot temporary tattoos and glow in the dark slap bands, a tank top from The Swinger Cruise and a great beach bag from SexyAdultVacations.com. We thank all our incredible sponsors who provided this killer ‘swag’ and made our presence known.

Hear about it on our podcast 24, 25 and 26. Subscribe in iTunes or simply listen on our website.

I ask you, if you are in the Lifestyle or just curious, when was the last time you participated in Lifestyle education?

I know before we began travelling to these events, we hadn’t explored some of the most important and fundamental aspects of the Lifestyle. As a couple, we sometimes get in a comfort zone or sexual rut and we love being challenged by other people’s thoughts and opinions and even from this convention, there were things we thought we’d never be interested in but have now decided we’d like to explore more.

Some of the over 40 seminars included:

– How to Politely Say No

– G-spot Orgasms & Prostate Pleasure

– Basic Rope Bondage Technique

– Not All Women Are Bi and Not All Men Are Straight

– Overcoming Jealousy and Fears

– Domination/Submission as Therapy

– The Art of Touch and Non Verbal Communication

– How to Throw a Lifestyle Party

The most liberating thing about Naughty in N’awlins is that as Aussies, you can live the Lifestyle openly for a week without any fear of being found out, which is often something we can’t do back home. The closest you can really come to doing this here is Passion in Paradise run by Kat Parties (it’s a sell out every year!).

We are pleased to announce we will be returning to Naughty in N’awlins in 2017 (click for more details about what to expect!). We already have a number couples booked to join us next year. We’d love you to join us too and be part of this amazing event once again! It is a long way to go, we get it, but if you can make it part of a longer vacation and visit some other parts of the US or Mexico it can be worth the travel. Work on bumping up your frequent flyer points for it and reduce the cost of flights.

Now I want to clear up exactly who would benefit and enjoy this convention. It is a Lifestyle convention, meaning people who enjoy alternate sexual lifestyles or people who are sex positive, sexually open minded, people who are curious about different sexual preferences, those into kink, Swinger, voyeurs, exhibitionists and everyone in between.

Read more about it on The Aussie Swingers website or email us on our RedHotPie profile for more information.

How are real estate and swinging/alternate lifestyles linked you ask?

It all comes down to relationship “fixes”. There are no quick or easy fixes but buying a new house, having a baby or looking into swinging or any type of lifestyle change are just a few relationship fixes that many people try in order to save a relationship in trouble.  They usually end in destroying it with the only one’s winning being the real estate agents and lawyers when divorce time comes.

None of these things are going to fix a relationship in fact unless your relationship is rock solid you shouldn’t even consider any of them.  I’ve been in both real estate and counselling for over 15 years and see the damage done time and time again.

So let’s take a closer look at what you need to consider when thinking about swinging or opening up your relationship to involve other people in any way

Do get on the same page

Consider your motivation and how you are going to bring it up with your partner, you are going to want to make them feel good about it not that they are not good enough. Deal with all your concerns and hesitations upfront no matter how small or insignificant they might seem.  Guys this will involve a lot of talking you may not deem necessary or like but it really is essential, so be patient.

Do your homework.

 

There are lots of ways to get information about alternative lifestyles, spend some time on the internet, go to a munch or two (alternative lifestyle friendly get togethers generally in ‘vanilla’ environments) and speak with other couples already in an alternative lifestyle, get things into perspective and re-evaluate based on what you learn.

Do go slow, agree to a trial period first with firm boundaries

 

Discuss Who/how/when/where will meets be arranged and happen.
What sexual acts are OK for each person, think about group, swap or individual scenarios.
Try some low expectation / low pressure environments like a house party, drinks with a couple or go to a classy club first.

Do walk through some what-if scenarios, separately and together

 

Be prepared to deal with it if it doesn’t work out. A good way to do this might be to go through some ‘what if’ scenarios like:
What if my partner gets jealous.
What if I go through with it and my partner doesn’t.
What if one partner is attracted to someone else on a deeper level.
What if one or both has a bad experience.

It’s  good to have an idea of how you might react.

Don’t use non-monogamy as a way to delay breaking up

If your relationship is not going well and you are fighting now just isn’t the time, get some help to work out your issues before even considering it as this won’t  fix a thing.

Use as a crutch to prolong ending a relationship that you know isn’t working and you are considering breaking up, you have to close one door to allow other doors to be open to you.

My way or the highway just isn’t going to work here, you need to be flexible and really consider your partners point of view, boundaries and thoughts on your relationship and what is and isn’t going to work, they may be very different from yours.

Break any agreed rules or lie about what you are doing, trust me it will not end well.

 

Final words on the matter:

Forget location, location, location and think communication, communication, communication.  Alternative lifestyles take work, time and must be a team effort.  Respect each other as well as protecting your main relationship. This must be your top priority.  If the experience is not enhancing your relationship then it just shouldn’t be a part of it.  Some things may just need to remain fantasies. Often fantasies don’t turn out as well as you might imagine in reality, so be prepared.  Life isn’t like porn, so always keep it real.

There are professionals that are ‘lifestyle’ friendly.  Consider seeing someone who can facilitate the discussion and decision process and maybe check in with from time to time to make sure things really are what you perceive them to be.

Most of all have fun, try new things and use the lifestyle to grow as a couple.

Have anything else to add? Tell us in the comments section below!

But for visitors to Burning Man Festival in Nevada desert’s Black Rock City, the term has a far more sexual connotation.

Among the attractions at the yearly event, which sees tens of thousands of people gather for at least a week of rebellious mayhem, is the Orgy Dome.

Run by a group called And Then There’s Only Love, the 24-hour giant tent is billed as a safe, “sex-positive, consensual space for couples and moresomes to play”, welcoming “the combination of love in all forms”.

Everyone’s invited – regardless of whether you’re straight, lesbian, gay, bi, poly-amorous or monogamous.

More than 5,000 people enjoyed the delights of the Dome at last year’s festival, with couples reportedly queuing up to go inside. According to one Reddit user and frequenter at the festival venue, the Orgy Dome has a “nice set up, clean towels and cushions, and moderate climate control”.

The door is always staffed and you must be with a partner to enter, though some partner swapping has been known.

The Redditer added: “Inside is generally not a writhing pile of 10 or 15 naked bodies as the name might suggest.

“Usually the dome is occupied by couples, with some threesomes and moresomes.

“There are some people watching on the edges, voyeurism and having an audience are definitely in play here, so know that going in.

“If someone is bothering you, most of the time they’ll stop when you ask, although the tent staff is happy to help resolve any uncomfortable problems that may arise.”

As well as old-fashioned orgies, the Orgy Dome is fully equipped with massage tables, mattresses lining the walls, sheets, couches and supplies including lubricants and condoms.

There are also classes on sadomasochism, group erotic massage and theme nights, ranging from threesome specials to competitions for the ‘loudest moaners’.

One visitor told Cosmopolitan that consent to play in the Dome is an absolute necessity.

She said: “If you ask if you can play with a couple, you’d still need to ask, ‘Can I touch your breasts?’, ‘Can I go down on you?’, ‘Can I f*** you both in the butt?’.

“Consent is an active process and can be removed at any point.

Watch the couple behind the Orgy Dome:

Who wouldn’t be tempted to at least experience this sex fest at least once in their life? Leave your comments below.

source: The Sun

All it takes is the desire, the imagination and the right amount of crazy to make your sex party a complete success.

Here are 5 wild party themes for your private party

1. Coat & Lingerie Parties

These are one of the sexiest party themes you can attend and the coats don’t stay on for very long. Whether you leave a little to the imagination or wear a barely-there number one thing is for sure. Being surrounded by sexy couples and singles in scantily-clad ensembles will get things heated up really quick.

2. Seven Minutes In Heaven Game Couples Version

In this version the couples sit together and spin the bottle. Once bottle stops spinning, two couples are selected to go into a tight space like a small bathroom or a walk in wardrobe and the lights are turned off. If there are singles present at the party, the game could involve one couple and one single if all involved are happy. It may feel awkward for the first few minutes, but the pitch darkness will bring out the sexy side in no time!

3. Porn Party

It’s all about watching good porn and lounging around, until it reaches unbearable sexual tension and each and every couple starts getting frisky with each other and then with others. This is a party where it goes from zero to hot very quickly.

4. Roman Orgies

This is the biggest and the wildest kind of sexual party you can have, but it’s also something most people aren’t comfortable with. It takes a certain kind of couple, who is pretty comfortable and also willing to explore further into their sexual fantasies without holding back or reticence.

If you and your partner are interested in having a full blown orgy with several other couples, then this may be the perfect answer for you. Gather a handful of couples who are into orgies and some single men or women and indulge. The sexual atmosphere is going to be highly orgasmic .

5. Role Playing Party

Everyone dresses up as their favourite fictional character. You can even pick a theme like porn stars, anime characters, uniform party, etc. But the only catch is that the attire has to be the sexiest outfit worn by the character you are impersonating. As long as everyone’s game for fun and not being prudish about the attire, the party venue would be full of skimpily dressed people who’re just looking forward to a night of wild fun.
These 5 wild types of sex parties are great ways to test your sexual boundaries, and make sex more exciting. You can start slow with the first few and work your way down to the bolder ones if you’re left gasping for more! Enjoy!

Do you have any party themes suggestions? Let us know in the comment section below.