Wow! Double wow! Stefania Ferrario knocks sexy out of the park. This ultra-hot hottie is a straight-up social soldier, fighting the good fight while living the sexy life, and we love that she’s up for sharing it with us all.Ferrario is part of the new wave of Aussie modeling – real, exciting and definitely sexy. Not afraid to rock a tight frock or bust out the high-end lingerie, Ferrario’s stunning Aussie body is the right fit for any occasion.

The social media spotlight is shining bright upon her at the moment with her #droptheplus campaign banging the drums around the world, with the story featuring in influential publications like Vogue, Buzzfeed, Cosmopolitan, Elle and Huffington Post to name a few. This movement was brought about by her frustration with the modelling and fashion industry’s need to label normal size bodies as ‘plus sized’, and we whole-heartedly agree with her!

Our curvaceous queen had some stiff competition with Megan Marx and Tiffany Scanlon of The Bachelor fame hot on her heels, putting in one of the sexiest years on record, with I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here! hunk, Dr. Chris Brown rounding out the podium in extremely fine fashion.Also making the cut in this year’s illustrious list is a future Australian sports star, a bonafide YouTube comedy sensation and some Aussie pop royalty… but you can see the full top ten list here.

RedHotPie believes that ‘sexy’ is a holistic thing and body size has nothing to do with it. It is all about how you strut your stuff, and Stefania Ferrario is helping us all remember that. Damn if we don’t love her for it!

So let’s take a look at some of Stefania’s greatest Instagram posts… it’s an awesome collection!

https://www.instagram.com/p/BNQsE4gg6eP/

https://www.instagram.com/p/BMdano3AmTu/

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Yes, we’re talking about resolutions, but not the tired old resolutions that usually bring us undone in February when we fall off the new diet or bail on the gym. We’re talking about real, sexy, achievable goals for 2017, goals that will super-charge your sex life.

So, what can you aim to do in the bedroom to guarantee a year of physical and spiritual nirvana? Well, we’re very glad you’ve asked. We’ve put together 20 sex challenges to tick off throughout the year, challenges that will ensure your sexual satisfaction and make 2017 the hottest on record. Check ‘em out:

1 – Try a new sex toy. There’s some amazing stuff on the market this year.

2 – Anal has been super popular of late… give it a crack (pardon the pun).

3 – Have sex in a room you’ve never done it in before.

4 – Shag under the stars – go camping or just hit the backyard.

5 – Try for a threesome, because two is a crowd, but three is unforgettable.

6 – Get wet and wild! Shag in the water; ocean, shower, doesn’t matter.

7 – Put on a show and masturbate for your partner, they’ll love it as much as you will.

8 – Tie someone up (consensually of course!), try rope, cuffs or zip ties, whatever.

9 – Hell, have someone else tie you up!

10 – Have a dirty weekend; pack the car, travel, shag. Simple.

11 – While you’re away on the dirty weekend, knock one out in the car!

12 – Indulge in a little afternoon delight. Shag during the day for a change.

13 – Make a little home made porn, all you need is your phone camera and a co-star.

14 – Chips, dips, chains and whips… try a little BDSM; it hurts so good.

15 – Get back to nature and go naked. Can you do 24 hours straight?

16 – Up the dirty talk, try some no holds barred filth talk and watch the sparks fly.

17 – Food porn. Hit the kitchen and work some fucktastic food into your play.

18 – Swing for the fences. For some swinging is a bold move, but the rewards are huge.

19 – Go public with your shagging. Pick somewhere secluded and have at it.

20 – Try a position marathon. One sex session – ten positions… and GO!

How many of these do you think you’ll be able to cross off the list? Any other sex challenges you think we should add? Tell us below!

After scolding them for not sharing their discoveries, I knew I would be adding one of these strange looking clitoral stimulators to my toy collection.

Whilst the Womanizer hit the scene and established itself with the W100 model, the latest generation is the Womanizer W500 Pro, and from what I’ve read, the jury is still out on whether the upgrades help it surpass it’s much respected predecessor, but I’m all for latest and greatest, so I went Pro.

When you break it out of the larger than expected box, the build looks good. Not too heavy, not too light. The W500 doesn’t suffer the same unavoidable comparison with a doctor’s ear thermometer like the W100 did, but it is still a strange looking little beast.

It’s USB charged, and ready to go out of the box. You power it on by holding down the genuine Swarovski crystal before selecting one of eight power levels using the intensity button next to the crystal.

It makes a soft whirring sound, and initially I wonder how this subtle little toy will reach the heights that had been so widely reported, but, I followed the instructions, lubing up, and strapping in.

You position the little suction funnel over your clitoris and apparently, just wait for the magic to happen. Seemed simple enough, so that’s exactly what I did.

How did it fare? One minute and fifty-two seconds. That’s how quick it was. One minute and fifty-two seconds between fumbling around trying to work out the right position and pressure, to the release of my first orgasm. The hype is real.

After composing myself and taking a minute to enjoy the afterglow, I thought I’d try again, maybe the anticipation had done half the work for the Womanizer, perhaps next time will take a little longer.

One minute and eighteen seconds.

The Womanizer W500 is legit; it’s direct but gentle, easy to use and different to anything that’s come before it. With its two interchangeable heads and expanded intensity settings, this new model hasn’t so much eclipsed the widely praised original, it has just built on what it did best, accommodating a wider range of body types and power requirements.

So if you’re in the market for a new toy, right now, the Womanizer is numero uno, and until they invent something that also mixes cocktails and gives neck massages, it’ll be hard to beat.

Check out the original Womanizer W100 and the all new Womanizer W500 over at Lovehoney now.

Ladies, have you got one? Would you try one? Let us know in the comments section below!

Well, spare him your pity — he’s now getting too many ladies to care.

The security guard, from Edinburgh, Scotland went viral after finally losing his virginity at the age of 44.

Abad had never had sex because his penis was ripped off following a car accident when he was six years old.

In 2012, he had surgery to fit an eight-inch mechanical penis to his body, but it only became fully functional at the end of last year.

The bionic penis has two tubes running along its length which inflate when he presses a button on his testicle.

Abad now says he gets inundated with messages from women keen to put his eight-inch bionic boner to the test.

He told the Star on Sunday: “I get a lot of messages from women online who ask me if I will have sex with them.

“They’ve heard about my bionic penis and they want to try it out. They are all very intrigued and think I can make love for hours.

“It’s not that I don’t want to and I get offers, but I have been so busy with work. I work 14-hour shifts every day and by the time I get home I’m just too tired for sex.”

That said, Abad is keen to tie the knot soon, with his parents already working on lining him up a new match.

“We’re speaking to a few parties at the moment. I don’t care what she looks like — she could be tall, short, thin or fat. I prefer personality to looks. My parents will find me a suitable match.”

Oh, and he said he’s definitely looking forward to the wedding night.

“I’m not saying I’ll be like George Best in the bedroom, but I’m much more confident.”

Abad lost his virginity in January this year to a 35-year-old sex worker named Charlotte Rose.

Rose initiated contact with Abad after hearing of his plight, and he asked her to help him lose his virginity.

“I wanted someone who was willing to accept me the way I was,” he said at the time.

“I’m a learner. I’ve got L plates. I didn’t want to go in all guns blazing and make an idiot of myself.”

They meet at a London hotel and spent a few days getting to know each other before having sex.

“When Charlotte saw it for the first time, she was silent and I was a bit worried. But then she said: ‘It’s incredible’. It’s nice to hear a lady say that.

“After it was over, I lay there with a big smile on my face.”

There you have it. Truly the happiest of endings.

Source: news.com.au

What do you think ladies? Would you be interested in taking a bionic member out for a spin?? Tell us below.

Don’t let Missina’s bubbly personality and sex appeal fool you though, this woman means business. Sex educator, activist, adult star and public speaker, Missina has devoted her expansive 15 year career to all things sex and relationships.

RedHotPie recently sat down with Missina to chat about her upcoming appearances at Melbourne Sexpo, her amazing career and her thoughts on digital dating… and make sure you get to the end of the interview for details on our “Meet Madison Missina Comp!
RHP – So, Madison, are you looking forward to Sexpo?

Madison Missina – My Partner will attest to the fact that I live for SEXPOs, in fact I have 2 seasons, pre Sexpo and post Sexpo. So with less than a month till Melbourne SEXPO I’m beyond excited. There’s a lot of preparation to go but it’s amazing being able create awesome things for people to enjoy.

What’s your first Sexpo memory?

Gosh it’s so long ago, probably 10 years ago in fact. My first SEXPO was when I was doing my internship for sex therapy I was there working for Impotence Australia and I remember being in awe. There was so much to take in, and I remember being so jealous of all the dancers who were getting around in sexy costumes. Compared to me in my serious sex therapy clothes I just wanted to find a way to do both, talk to people about sexuality and express myself at the same. If only I had a crystal ball back then, my younger me would be in heaven now..

What will you be doing at Melbourne Sexpo this year?

Melbourne SEXPO will be my debut as SEXPO’s official tour guide, which I’m so excited about. I’ve practically become part of SEXPO’s furniture now so I’m looking forward to sharing everything that I love about SEXPO with everyone.

After amazing feedback from Sydney SEXPO my latest work RAW: Female Sexual Pleasure which is an educational photography exhibit and the sister seminar RAW: Female Sexual Self Esteem will be returning.

But possibly the most exciting will be the Live O which is a combination of art and female sexuality which will be on the SEXPO main stage.

Do you like getting these opportunities to meet your fans?

I live the life of my dreams now because of my fans. So I love every opportunity where I can interact with them. That’s why I put so much effort into SEXPOs I really see it as my chance to give back and make my fans feel special. So I’m always coming up with new things to do.

Tell us a bit more about your project, RAW… sounds like an interesting concept.

What I’ve noticed since the female sexual liberation of the 70s is that we now seem to live in a society where we see hyper female sexuality, which is also censored. Due to censorship laws, the labia are often photoshoped, the beautiful fake orgasm is almost everywhere, and certain parts of female sexuality are considered fetish. The impact of this is that cosmetic surgery is rising, women are reporting pressure to perform like pornstars, to rise to the beauty ideal, get the perfect body, have it all and all this detracts from being able to have great sex but also great relationships. So I wanted to provoke everyone to start a conversation about this. RAW is an unedited, unfiltered look into the diversity and ferociousness of female sexual arousal and pleasure. The seminars are looking into how we’ve ended up with all these mixed messages and aims to empower women to embrace their own particular womanhood, whatever that may be.

Let’s drill a little deeper in your credential list, you’re also a sex therapist! Tell us about how you got into that.

Really I just chased what I loved. I’m an eternal student, I devour books, I love to study society, and I collect qualifications like some people collect handbags. So when I had the option to specialize my social science degree I just picked what fascinated me and I got hooked on sexology. Human sexuality is so fundamental to everything in our lives – it’s more than our orientation or what we like in bed; it also covers our attitudes to gender expression, to gender roles to how we approach relationships. Above safety, food and shelter what we all strive for is belonging so our sexual self-esteem is the basis for our connectedness. Especially these days living in a society where sex and messages about sex are literally everywhere and it seems that society is using sexuality as a way to both polarize and unite people it’s a very delicious time to be sexologist.

Have your studies helped your own sex life?

Immensely. When I was about 14 I realized that I was probably a lesbian, yet I also knew I wanted to join the sex industry which would involve me having sex with men and I’ve always been ultra feminine. At that time there weren’t many femme lesbian role models, so being very confused I decided to be straight, which meant that I did not understand sex at all. It was my darkest secret for so long, here I was, a decade later a professional sex worker who did not experience sex as sexual. It was through studying gender and sexuality that I began to start to grasp how I could use my body sexually and begin to understand and be okay with my sexuality in contrast to my career. So I studied female sexual pleasure and arousal thoroughly. I literally had to learn how to manipulate my body to experience sexual arousal with men. Let me just say that vaginas are awesome, they are capable of so much and it always surprises me that this information is so hard to find. So through my academic studies – and then later in my career where I did more body work skills based courses – I went from someone who couldn’t even comprehend that penetrative sex could ever be pleasurable, to a woman who has consistent frequent penetrative orgasms with whoever knows the right techniques. I became empowered enough to realise that my pleasure is important and unique, and educating my partners on how I work is all part of the fun. My studies taught me that sexual arousal and pleasure don’t need to stem from attraction and being able to have good sex with a male partner doesn’t mean that I’m also not a lesbian. I’ve had to break every mold to find me, so I don’t know who I would see myself as if it wasn’t for my studies.

You are of course well known for your work on film, so let’s tackle a few questions about your time on the set…

Favourite scene partner?

I don’t really have a favourite. Highlights to me were Lexi Belle because, well, she’s Lexi! It was actually the only porn scene of mine that I’ve watched back. But I also love working with Zahra Stardust – she’s totally hot and being bisexual it meant that our scene was more authentic. And Monte Cooper’s spanking scene with me changed my life.

Funniest moment while filming?

I was filming a glory hole scene where my head was padlocked into a wall. The producer had made this wooded collar type contraption which would pose as the lock to make it look like I couldn’t escape. But the problem was that it was quite heavy on my neck. So just before we started shooting he added some screws just hold it in place on the wall, thinking that we could just undo the bottom section and I could be easily released. We filmed the scene, I had my most powerful onscreen orgasm, and then the power went out. In total darkness we discovered that he put the screws in the wrong place so rather than just support the collar he had actually built my head into the wall. We had to break the wall to get me out. I wasn’t hurt but I often think that would have been hilarious if it got to the point of us needing to call for help.

Craziest/trickiest location and or position?

I once was away shooting on location at a farm. This involved lots of sex outdoors in paddocks. The scenes look beautiful. But in real life, sex on tree stumps in paddocks with cows, meant that we had to be very technical with the placement of props to prevent splinters and it seemed that everywhere there was cow dung. But my scene partner Rob Paulson was an absolute gentlemen and made that shoot awesome.

The sexiest thing you’ve ever seen on a porn set.

The sexiest thing that I’ve experienced on a porn set was when Monte Cooper gave me a spanking session. Monte made spanking so sensual it was amazing. The way Monte introduced the spanking doing the proper warm up and build up I was in heaven, even the pain was this pleasurable high. It’s the one scene that I wish never ended! I’d really like to see Monte start to teach spanking – when you have a skill like that you simply must share it with the world!

So, how about your dating life, how does that work?

It’s a little different; I find that I have to be more wary of people who see me as a trophy of some sort. I’ve dated a lot of people who have wanted to ride my coat tails of sort – that are more enamored with Madison than they are with Milly. So I’ve had more than my fair share of short-term romances that have gone nowhere. But I’ve learnt to just take things slower and listen to my gut. Being a sex worker – a pornstar – means that my partners have to really question what monogamy and relationship boundaries really mean. Being a sexologist and being so experienced in sex also means that my partners are often intimidated thinking that they need to live up to high sexual ideals, which is of course not true. You don’t actually need to be a sexual expert to have great sex, that’s a myth. So my relationships take more work than others.

Have you ever met anyone online?

Absolutely – in fact I met my current partner online. But funny story: in the past when I’ve attempted online dating I’ve had to do it in really quick bursts because my profile has a tendency to get reported for impersonating a public persona. It’s the most frustrating thing. Don’t dating sites know public personas need love and companionship too?

Can you give us your top tips for digital dating?

The most important tip I believe is to know that meeting new people and dating can be some of the most fun times of your life. Especially the bad dates, you will probably find that you will want to tell those stories the rest of your life. So have fun and see the whole process as an adventure. Take the pressure off, aim to just meet new awesome people and see what develops.

Keep your bios short but try to show – not tell – people about you. So if you have a great sense of humour put some comedy in it. I remember seeing one profile on a site where everyone added that their ideal first meeting would be to go out for sushi. This person wrote “Well I don’t like sushi, so could we perhaps just meet for coffee? Or maybe literally anything that doesn’t involve raw fish (I’m not in, I know).” This really stayed with me. It was personal, it was funny and it showed that that person was down to earth enough to laugh at themselves.

Put effort into your photos, it’s the first thing that people will see. So make them current and relevant. Include photos that show you doing something interesting or one of your hobbies as that’s a really great icebreaker.

Physical attraction is an important thing, but it’s also something that can grow if that person is awesome or diminish if well they’re not so awesome. Plus with the advent of filters people don’t always look like their own photos. So don’t judge possible matches too much on looks.

When starting up conversations rather than the usual “Tell me about you?” Ask specific questions such as “What did you get up to this weekend?” Whilst many people can seemingly speak about themselves for hours very open-ended questions can be really hard to answer. So keep specific and treat it like a conversation.

So we’re giving away a private Sexpo tour with you in Melbourne, what exactly will that involve?

SEXPO is an expo like no other. It is a chance to explore different facets of human sexuality. It’s as much entertaining as it is educational but above all else SEXPO is interactive and expansive. So my tours are like little SEXPO adventures – we will see all the highlights, I will guide you through everything that SEXPO has to offer with behind the scenes information from the specialized lounges to the great things the exhibitors have to offer, and be there to answer all your questions along the way. Each tour will be personalized to the group so whether your after expertise advice on the best sex toys, or you’re a SEXPO virgin who might be a little shy I guarantee you will get something out of the tours!

WE’RE GIVING AWAY TWO LOUNGE TICKETS TO NEXT WEEK’S MELBOURNE SEXPO AND A GUIDED TOUR FROM MADISON MISSINA HERSELF! 

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Most of us have been to Sexpo at some point; we’ve seen the stage shows, been dazzled by the adult shopping, maybe even learnt a thing or two, but Sexpo is back, and it’s different.

While the things you loved about Sexpo are still there, the gigantic lifestyle exhibition has been overhauled for the new age, so along with with traditional Sexpo fare, you can now amazing drone racing, virtual reality exhibitions, Japanese bondage displays, porn stars and sexy cosplay competitions, live on stage.

Melbourne will be the next city to experience the all new and improved Sexpo carnival. Rolling into the Melbourne Exhibition Centre from Thursday November 24 – 27; this year’s Sexpo promises to be the craziest, sexiest, most outlandish event Melbourne has ever hosted.

Tickets are available here: sexpo.com.au/tickets

Women desperate to slow down the ageing process are now splashing out more than $3000 on jabs that claim to make their vaginas look more youthful.

Dubbed “labia puffing”, the non-surgical treatment involves injecting their own fat or dermal fillers into the labia majora to boost volume, add elasticity and remove creases.

The procedure takes 30 minutes and apparently the recovery time is minimal.

Jennifer Walden, a beauty plastic surgeon, says the vagina “loses volume and fullness with age as well as laxity of the skin”.

She told Daily Star Online: “Plumping the labia majora gives it a more youthful appearance”.

“The benefit of labia puffing is that it uses you own fat from another area of your body to add volume back to an area that deflates with time.

“This makes it look great as it immediately refills it to an appearance similar to what it may have looked like prior to child-bearing and/or menopause.”

Women can choose to use their own fat for the treatment — which will be sucked out of their abdomen or inner thigh via liposuction — or fillers.

The fillers contain hyaluronic acid, a moisture-boosting chemical found naturally in the deep layers of the skin, which is already used in many facial fillers.

Dr Walden said fat has a “softer, more natural appearance” and lasts longer, but some people prefer fillers because the material is “available off the shelf”.

She added that the process is “similar to getting areas on your face” injected with Botox.

Dr Walden said some of her patients have seen a boost in their sex drive following the treatment as they “feel more confident” about their privates.

Statistics from Transform Cosmetic Surgery showed a 45 per cent increase in the numbers of women inquiring about surgical procedures since 2010.

The average age of patients has dropped from 35 to 28, with more women now choosing to have surgery for aesthetic rather than medical reasons.

However, it’s worth pointing out that the labia plumps up when a woman is aroused, thanks to the rush of blood supply to the area.

Source: news.com.au

Ladies – what do you think? Is this a procedure you might consider? Let us know in the comments section below.

WOW! That is the only way to describe Naughty in N’awlins 2016.

The RedHotPie/Aussie Swingers contingent came, saw and conquered (or more accurately, saw, conquered and came) at the largest Lifestyle convention in the world.

Never heard of it? You have now!

For 18 years now, French Connection Events have been running Naughty in N’awlins, a lifestyle convention in the incredible city of New Orleans. This year was the biggest ever and saw over 2100 + sexy people descend on the Astor Crowne Plaza for 5 days of not only the most epic parties and sexy playrooms, but seminars, workshops and education.

So big was the convention this year, that an additional 200 rooms were secured at a hotel across the road and many other late bookers had to reserve rooms at other neighbouring hotels.

Our incredible group of Aussies were a real hit with everyone at the convention and everyone made many new friends both in and outside of the bedroom. Everyone loves an Aussie and our group also included couples from the US who wanted to travel with us to join in the fun. The RedHotPie/Aussie Swingers gift bag was the envy of everyone at the convention…

It included RedHotPie bikinis, boxers, lip balm, bottle opener, Aussie Swingers condoms, lube, beads, vibrator, name necklaces and pasties, Our Secret Spot temporary tattoos and glow in the dark slap bands, a tank top from The Swinger Cruise and a great beach bag from SexyAdultVacations.com. We thank all our incredible sponsors who provided this killer ‘swag’ and made our presence known.

Hear about it on our podcast 24, 25 and 26. Subscribe in iTunes or simply listen on our website.

I ask you, if you are in the Lifestyle or just curious, when was the last time you participated in Lifestyle education?

I know before we began travelling to these events, we hadn’t explored some of the most important and fundamental aspects of the Lifestyle. As a couple, we sometimes get in a comfort zone or sexual rut and we love being challenged by other people’s thoughts and opinions and even from this convention, there were things we thought we’d never be interested in but have now decided we’d like to explore more.

Some of the over 40 seminars included:

– How to Politely Say No

– G-spot Orgasms & Prostate Pleasure

– Basic Rope Bondage Technique

– Not All Women Are Bi and Not All Men Are Straight

– Overcoming Jealousy and Fears

– Domination/Submission as Therapy

– The Art of Touch and Non Verbal Communication

– How to Throw a Lifestyle Party

The most liberating thing about Naughty in N’awlins is that as Aussies, you can live the Lifestyle openly for a week without any fear of being found out, which is often something we can’t do back home. The closest you can really come to doing this here is Passion in Paradise run by Kat Parties (it’s a sell out every year!).

We are pleased to announce we will be returning to Naughty in N’awlins in 2017 (click for more details about what to expect!). We already have a number couples booked to join us next year. We’d love you to join us too and be part of this amazing event once again! It is a long way to go, we get it, but if you can make it part of a longer vacation and visit some other parts of the US or Mexico it can be worth the travel. Work on bumping up your frequent flyer points for it and reduce the cost of flights.

Now I want to clear up exactly who would benefit and enjoy this convention. It is a Lifestyle convention, meaning people who enjoy alternate sexual lifestyles or people who are sex positive, sexually open minded, people who are curious about different sexual preferences, those into kink, Swinger, voyeurs, exhibitionists and everyone in between.

Read more about it on The Aussie Swingers website or email us on our RedHotPie profile for more information.

Since then we’ve hunted for the G-spot in bedrooms and laboratories. But enough of us came up empty-handed that it raised the question: Does the G-spot exist?

To find out, the Science Vs podcast visited Beverly Whipple, now a professor of nursing at Rutgers University, at her home in New Jersey.

Whipple told us that she found this magical spot while studying women who thought they were peeing during orgasms.

To study the women, Whipple’s team inserted their fingers into patient’s vaginas to feel around for sensitive areas. “You go all around the vaginal wall,” says Whipple — from 12 o’clock, to 3 o’clock, to 6 o’clock and so on — ‘saying how does this feel? How does this feel?’

“Between 11 and 1 o’clock”, at the front wall of the vagina, we got a lot of smiles.”

She scoured the literature and found one article that described what she’d seen, an that was published in an obscure journal in 1950 by Dr. Ernst Grafenberg.

And so, Whipple named the spot, the Grafenberg Spot, after Dr Ernst Grafenberg. It soon got shortened to the G-spot.

In 1982, she published her first book called, The G Spot and other discoveries of human sexuality. And from there she was invited by television network after television network, to tell the world about the G-spot.

Amid all the fame, a scientific question lingered: What, exactly, is the G-spot?

Helen O’Connell, now a professor of urology at the Royal Melbourne Hospital, has dissected around 50 vaginas throughout her career and studied many more alive vaginas. She says her work “did not seem to show anything in the vaginal wall that would be a direct anatomical structure leading to that experience.” That is, nothing special in the vagina, where the G-spot should be.

Other scientists looking for the G-spot, haven’t had much luck either. One review of many studies on the G-spot published in 2001, called it “a sort of gynaecological UFO: much searched for, much discussed, but unverified by objective means.” A decade later, another review of the work looking at dozens of trials concluded that the studies “still fail to provide irrefutable evidence for the G-spot’s existence”.

Looking at Whipple’s original research, it’s far from irrefutable. One of her first studies into this, published in 1981, was on just one woman. A second study of 47 women found that they all had a sensitive spot but pressing it in the lab did not produce orgasms, for any of them. In her book she described 400 woman who had this spot but this sample was never published in a peer- reviewed journal. A later experiment in 1983 tested 11 women and found a spot in only four of them.

Still, pressing something in the vagina is making at least some women smile. What is it?

The consensus that O’Connell and other researchers have arrived at is that what Whipple had identified as the G-spot, isn’t a spot at all. It’s probably the clitoris, working with parts around it, like the urethra and vagina. But the clitoris is a much larger and more complicated organ than many people think. That bit that you can touch, is literally the clit of the iceberg.

In 1998, O’Connell published research showing that the clitoris has two arms that extend down, called the bulbs, and two legs that go back for up to 9 centimetres, called the crura.

Helen also discovered that clitoris, shares some of the same blood and nerve supply with the urethra and the walls of the vagina share. And later preliminary work, suggest that during sex the clitoris, urethra and vagina may push, prod and excite each other, kind of like puppies in a basket. So interconnected are all these parts that O’Connell, and others, now argue that they should get their own name. But, spot is out.

Complex is the new word. This area that women are pressing to get orgasms is now called the Clitoral, Urethral Vaginal Complex, or CUV Complex.

As catchy as the CUV Complex, O’Connell says that we should start using this anatomically correct term, because using the term “the G-spot”, makes it sound like all you have to do is find a spot, press it and whammo, multiple orgasms!

“That somehow if you touch it enough or thrust it harder, that somehow magic is going to occur. Well that’s just a really bad paradigm,” she says.

This infatuation with “finding the G-spot”, is something that Whipple regrets unleashing. “I guess we’ve misled people, because it’s more than one little spot, it’s a whole area,” she says.

In fact, Whipple always advocated for focusing on the fun stuff around sex, rather than hunting for magical spots. “Sometimes holding hands, or touching, whatever it is that feels good to you, is an end in itself,” she says.

Alright team, what’s your G-spot experience been? Have you mastered this mysterious area? Tell us where you stand in the comments section below!

source: news.com.au

Well, mornings are about to get a whole lot better thanks the invention on the Little Rooster – the vibrating alarm clock that promises to wake you up with a smile (and more).

You simply have to choose what time you would like to be aroused (quite literally) and then pop the Little Rooster in your pants (bad news if you sleep naked) and look forward to what the morning will bring.

Those heavier sleepers out there need not worry about missing their wake up call either, as there are over 27 settings to choose from. All you need to do is work out what one is right for you.

The Little Rooster is designed to start vibrating at your requested wake up time, with the intensity of vibrations building over a five minute period. ‘You wake slowly. Sexually. Pleasurably,’ promises the website.

The alarm also includes a ‘snooze’ feature for those who fancy a little longer under the covers, and comes with a travel lock to avoid any awkward questions at customs.

The Little Rooster will set you back a good £69.99 (about $120 AUD) and is currently sold out worldwide (to nobody’s surprise), with the next batch due next month.

Inventor Tony Maggs originally tried to crowd fund for a similar product called the Dream Rooster, which was designed to vibrate whilst you slept in order to stimulate erotic dreams. Somewhat unsurprisingly he failed to meet reach the funding target, and thus the Little Rooster was born.

Tony is now also currently developing a Little Rooster for men, but we’ll leave it up to your imaginations as to how that one will work.

Source: marieclaire.co.uk

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