We all Love it. We all want it. We all eventually have it.
In recent years a whole movement has taken place, where more women are owning their sexuality, their pleasure and desires. Women for centuries have had this struggle between their inner desires and social expectations. Women, unlike men, had not enjoyed the freedom of expressing their sexuality.
Hence, social and cultural restrains had the biggest effect on women’s sexuality. So much so that women in the 1800s were believed to not have any sexual libido. In the 1900s women were encouraged not to be sexual even with their husbands.
Despite urges from the body, the mind interprets what society will accept and deems appropriate or not. Social pressure has held powerful sway over the mind’s attitude toward women’s desire for centuries. Women have been told for centuries that enjoying sex is slutty and whorish, enough, don’t allow antiquated sexual attitudes stop you from exploring and enjoying your body and sexuality.
With modern tendencies towards sexual freedom eroding traditional attitudes towards women’s sexuality, here are what women need to do to have sex like men do. What follows are 6 reasons why more women are having sex like men!
1. Own Your Libido
Women have a high libido; they just need to free themselves from all the social and cultural attitudes that too often dampen their desires. Women need to allow themselves to feel lust, desire, and to enjoy sex. Women need to make sex about them, about their pleasure and need to learn to meet their own needs.
2. Own All Your Different Orgasms
Women not only can have more orgasms than men but they also experience a number of different orgasms. Women can have a clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, multiple orgasm, G-spot, breast orgasm, squirting orgasm, some women can also have a mental orgasm. In short, women are orgasmic creatures who for the vast majority have been afraid to embrace their sexuality. As you can see their potential is enormous. Leaves any experienced male feeling a little jealous and slightly overwhelmed. Yes, this is the reason why many savvy vixens love gangbangs where they know they can reach all of these orgasms in one night.
3. Realise That Men Love Sexual Women
Confident women speak about their sexuality and aren’t afraid to act on their desires. The frowns and the looks, even the occasional ‘slut-shaming’ utterances are for the most yawn-fest and boring. Celebrities such as Amy Shumer, and Miley Cyrus , who are unapologetic about their sexuality. Mainstream TV series of the looks of Orange Is The New Black, RHP and Tinder and other media influences are pushing the boundaries and changing the way we think about women’s sexuality. Men love sexual women because they know what they like in bed and love sex as much as they do. Finally, men can be honest about sex with a partner who is not going to be horrified at the many facets of sexuality and sexual possibilities. A sexually confident woman is the best asset a man can have in his life journey.
4. Sexual Experience Makes You A Sex Diva
How can a woman possibly be good at sex or even know what she likes or dislikes about sex when she has had no experience? To understand, enjoy and know your turn on and offs, you need to have sex and go so far as to say have had a few sexual partners. To be queen between the sheets, you need to embrace your wants and needs to be totally authentic in bed. Only through exploration do you get the knowledge and a set of skills that will provide you and your partner pleasure. If you are already in a relationship, explore with your partner,watch porn, play with sex toys, indulge in self-play, become a swinger or anything that your fancy takes you. You will not discover if you are straight vanilla, or have a kinky side or bi-curious until you go out there and play.
5. Sex Will Help You Meet Your Compatible Partner
Most women have the perception that they should hold off sex until they meet their life partner. That if they do have sex too often this act only will destroy their chance of a serious relationship. Nothing is further from the truth, being who you are sexually is very sexy and attractive. No man who loves sex wants to commit to a relationship with a woman who doesn’t understand and enjoy sex. Who doesn’t know her body and how it best has pleasure.
6. Sex Is An Endurance Sports
Sex is an endurance sports, you need to practice harnessing your stamina. To keep your body at optimum and to get to know your body’s ability get in the gym, get active. Think of exercise as a means to get better at sex. No red-blooded male enjoys a ‘corpse’ next to him, unless that’s a fetish of his, otherwise an active and enthusiastic lover is what we all desire.
Don’t expect everyone to accept the openness of your sexuality because at the end is not about what people think about you or your sex life but about how you feel about your body, your sexuality and about fulfilling and exploring your sexuality.
With women embracing their sexuality, sex between women and men can only get better. Women will feel free to explore, to let go of their inhibitions and men will enjoy having partners who will be fulfilled and happy. Be a traditional (vanilla) girl with a swirl of slut, exactly how nature intended women to be.
