It’s Friday night and you’re getting ready to hit town. Before you leave, you go over your checklist:

Hair – check!        Sexy clothes – check!       Killer heels – check!

And now you’re good to go.

Although appearances matter in the dating world, there are other subtle ways to attract a man and to have him approach you. Things that men find themselves inexplicably drawn to and allows them to approach you and say hi. Make it happen today.

It takes a lot of courage for men to approach you, so you better know and make sure they see your signals and that you are sending the right signals for the man you like to approach you.

Here are the 5 ways to get a man to approach you, starting with showing him you are interested.

1.  Display Interest

In order for attraction to happen, you need to be available and show interest. Sometimes you see someone you’re interested at the gym or groceries-store. You keep meeting. People are friendlier, more relaxed in group situations, and you find yourself in the ideal situation. The next step is to open up a way for him to come and say hello. Smile at him and make yourself available by standing by yourself while waiting for your cup of coffee, for example. You have created a window of opportunity for him to approach you and he will.

2. Smile more

By far the easiest and simplest way to invite a man to come and say hi – smile. Men are very intimidated to come say hi but when they see you smile it tells them you are approachable and friendly. A smile will give a man the confidence and courage to approach you and will make you seem very attractive too. A smile will tell a man you are happy, at ease and comfortable, and men are attracted to happy women who have an aura of peace and quiet sexy. Furthermore happy people are far more interesting.

3. Make eye contact

Look his way and maintain your stare for 3-5 seconds and look away. Eye contact is incredibly powerful, sexy and intimate. A look along with a smile will signal to him you are just as attracted to him as he is to you. Looking his way is sexy and attractive and will leave in his mind a clear indication that you are interested in him.

4. Look available

Physical openness will send the message that you’re okay with being approached. So do not cross your arms, fidget or look the other way. Turn your body towards him and look his way with confidence. A woman who is confident in herself and is open to being approached by a man sends a clear invitation. This is an indicator that she likes him. Being generally at ease and comfortable in any situation draws in the guys.  A woman with confidence turns heads.

5. Be yourself

Being 100% you, weird quirks, obsessions, habits, and all is appealing to a guy. Don’t try to be something you’re not – it’s short lived and is absolutely boring. Be who you are, this is a boldness and courage that guys are attracted to when a woman is not afraid to be herself without any compromise. In order to meet someone genuine, you need to be genuine yourself.

Final note, do not be afraid to approach yourself, there is nothing wrong with that. If you are going to be the one approaching do it with confidence, men dig that gutsy attitude.

And there you have it, these are the certain 4 ways to get a man to approach you. Attraction is quite simple, the more you relax and be true to yourself the more of a magnet you become to the opposite sex.