Are you playing for both teams? Then the world is your oyster, you lucky bastard. Some will feel envious and others resentful of such sexual scope. Bisexuals it seems have it all.  The ‘B’ word – a look at bisexuality and the lost potential.

Now here is the ideal person/couple to look for when searching for some bedroom fun. A bisexual person or couple literally reach down someone’s pants and will be satisfied with whatever they find. There we have it, the perfect concoction for a successful night out as long as the attraction is there.

To a lot of people, hearing “I’m bisexual” is tantamount to announcing, “I’m up for anything.” Truth is bisexuals act on their attraction that could be to either a woman or a man and not to any woman or any man. This is where the misconception springs from, like many of us heterosexuals, bisexuals; equally don’t like everyone only those they’re attracted.

In the heterosexual world, female bisexuality is applauded and almost a prerequisite in the list of desirability in a female’s sexual repertoire.
Male bisexuality has still to evolve to this status of ‘desirability’ in the heterosexual world, or at least at the same comfort level. Heterosexual males quiver at the knees, should you divulge your attraction and seemingly make a move on them. It brings about questions about their own sexuality. Does it mean if you have an encounter no matter how small or insignificant make you bi too? A little experimentation with the same-sex gender is not going to make you bi or gay all of a sudden. Relax, being curious and being experimental is a healthy expression of our desires and a way of growing sexually.

Bisexuals are attracted to more than one gender. Just like in general we are attracted to people of more than one height, weight, age group, hair colour and race. But to bisexuals it also includes gender.
Being bisexual is about the gender you’re attracted to. Remember like many of us heterosexuals, bisexuals; equally don’t like everyone only those they’re attracted.

Our sexuality is inclusive not exclusive of who we really are. Let’s then explore, enjoy and celebrate our differences and ideally live the moment without regrets.
Actresses, Olivia Wilde and Megan Fox, as many before them believe that in essence we’re all bisexuals and then due to social pressure we’re made to choose to be hetero. In 1999, actress Megan Mullally went as far as stating that she believes we are all innately bisexual. An improvement to this statement probably would be that we’re all at least a bit bi-curious especially when we’ve encountered the right person.

Let’s dispel from all this categorizing and labeling for a minute and look at the lost potential of intense nights of wild sexual fun. We’re here for the good times, for good connections and good friends and endless possibilities. Let’s put our guards down and look genuinely at our attractions and let the good times roll.

Not everyone’s cuppa tea? Understandable. However, if someone of the same sex expresses their attraction to you and you do not feeling the same just let them know that you’re flattered but not reciprocal, and find your own game play without spoiling someone else’s, be open minded.